Originally posted by: MuteButton
So here’s the thing. How much bravery do we really expect from regular people experiencing emotional turmoil like this? They sent Imlie to the Cs because they atleast know those people, and DC did promise that he will ensure AC does not mistreat her. Fact that he will not be able to do jack is a separate issue. We can dislike their actions but the Ts are just doing whatever they can to save their son’s marriage.
And it is not like Imlie could not have said a No right? She very well could have said a No and walked out. If we are trying to find the wrong, let’s find it in all places. She just got juice thrown on her face the previous day and knowing that she is going to be subjected to more of that she went? Her masochism should not go unnoticed either.
Everything right now is just very circumstantially painful because that is what has to transpire in order for the reality to come to the forefront.
My problem with Tripatis is not for them to agree with Anu's condition and trust Dev to take care of Imlie in C house. That I understand where T family is coming from, Malini is their bahu after all. And T family has never been able to stand up to Anu whenever she insulted Imlie in their presence. They did not like it, but they never stood up for her too because she is Malini's mother and Malini is their bahu. So if they had to choose Malini being back home vs Imlie being at home, them choosing Malini is of course okay.
My problem with Tripatis is that even before AC's condition, they had made a plan to send Imlie to the hostel as they thought Imlie was the reason Malini committed suicide. They were scapegoating Imlie so they do not have to deal with Malini's kaand and issues between Aditya-Malini relationship. As if 1 sindoor drama can drive anyone to suicide. Because Imlie would never defend herself, feels indebted to them, why not put all the blame at her feet (I know Tripatis did not think like that consciously). When AC made the condition, Pankaj even said that they were planning to send Imlie to hostel anyways. Matlab, they agree that Imlie needs to be out of the house for Malini to feel good in the house.
I did not have a problem with them accepting Anu's condition. My problem is that Tripatis themselves had reached the conclusion before Anu's condition that Imlie needs to move out for Malini's sake when Imlie had absolutely nothing to do with Malini's suicide. To me Anu’s condition just expedited the process and changed the destination, but Tripatis had already thought about sending Imlie away. Thus Tripatis showed their cowardice.
I 100% agree on Imlie's maochism. This needs to be addressed for her character to grow. As audience it is damn frustrating to see Imlie taking on blame for all the problems, defending Anu when she throws juice on her face, ignores the hurt she is going to feel for Tripatis wanting her to go to C house for Malini's sake. Imlie can still do what others want, but I want her to acknowledge that she is hurt.
Edited by Anvi2009 - 4 years ago