Originally posted by: ashwariya_98
Listen guys...
Really cool down!
I am here going to just put forward a few points and not get into this discussion, because everyone just seems like they are not ready to forgive Anokhi.
Calm down and think back of the time when u felt like Shauyra can never be good enough for Nikki when he character assassinated her!
And now let me get to the main point:
Anokhi mistrusted Shaurya during Shagun's date time, she voiced out her insecurities but he just said ILU and expected her to understand.
Kanchan calmed her insecurities down, not Shauyra. Kanchan made her believe that Shauyra only loves her. Hence she went to Goa to search for him .
They were going strong till BM came in. She ran away ,almost got killed by coming infront of the car . She was the SHOOK. She expected Shauyra to take a stand there. She told him the same thing. She was not doubting his love. She felt like her izzat didn't mean anything to him , cause he was standing their like a spineless statue. Now she dosen't know Shauyra and his background and how indebted he is to BM . She didn't see how he gave it back to BM. She didn't see how he is fighting it out for her. That is what we saw. She has no idea about how much he can fight for her and change for her. Yeh sab humko pata hai, usko nahi. She loves him isliye apna gussa, apna hurt sab side rakh kar aayi usse milne.
But the reality of the matter is she dosen't know Shauyra so well abhi tak.
We have seen her dialogues when she was kn her lovey dovey phase too.
She didn't know much about him, she accepted it.
She accepted when Reema told her to wear western.
She didn't know he likes her in anything that she wears.
She dosen't know that depth yet. Yeh baatein humme pata hai, usse nahi.
She had already developed a soft spot for him before Reema pointed it out, but she was slow in realising it. Someone had to point it out to her. She's not so much in sync with her feelings always.
Anyways Reema pointed out that Shauyra likes her and that's when she realised that their bond had not been platonic and she likes him. She wanted him to like her back and looked for hints. She got them and was super happy.
Her trust in him was wavering because they still don't know each other that well. Atleast Anokhi dosen't . Because Shauyra is not an open book like her! She has to figure him out.
She was already giving up on their relationship when she realised that BM was going to continue behaving like this and Shauyra who stood there like a spineless guy could disappoint her again.
She did what she knows the best. Withdraw before her heart gets shattered.
She felt dejected and decided to focus on her studies.
But Shauyra's accident made her again fall into the emotional mess. She confessed her love, even though she had said that he has no place in her life, just one day ago.
She did not forget what he did. She told Astha ki mera dil tutt gya jab unhone kuch nahi bola Devi Maam ke saamne. She remembered it.
Shagun came and tried manipulating her thoughts.
Anokhi heard her point and questioned Astha. Astha couldn't defend Shaurya and how will she? She dosen't even know if Shauyra changed or not. Anokhi dosen't know if Shauyra changged or not. Anokhi dosent know how much he loves her and to what lengths he will go ye, because according to her he loved Shagun too! ( This ks what HE said) . "Woh bolte hai na, if a guys has cheated on his ex on the past, kya guaramtee hai that he will not cheat on u?". Yes, u can talk it out. But fears are fears. If u were cheated in oast by someone else, u might not want a relationship with somone who has cheated in the past too.! Simple that is.
But She saw him being weak in front of Badi Maa. She saw what happened to Astha after she got married in the Sabherwal house. She started questioning and judging things. Yes, its her fault that she believed Shagun's words fully. She just confirmed one thing from Astha and believed Shaurya could do this. Because ultimately , the truth is what Shaurya did to Shagun would not be acceptable to any one of us if we were gping to be a romantic partner of anyone like Shauyra. She came to know that he has done this with the girl he loved then, and figured he could do it now again. She loves him and is avoiding seeing him cause she os fearing her resolve will break. She is torn between things but she wants her self respect to stay intact.
Shagun did play with her mind.
But on what basis is she supposed to know that Shauyra will change for her?
And guys the thing is if Shaurya came to meet her , they would have a proper conversation. If he clears it to her that he dosent expect that out of a partner she will not go away.
She did not say that she will never talk to Shaurya lol. She's just not wanting to see him now.
She made a decision.that they won't be able to sail through together.
Babli's words are also continuously hammered into her.
How old is she?
Has she seen love before?
Does she have ANY experience with love?
How much does she know Shaurya?
She should seek clarity. But she's not doing so out of fear of her resolve wavering on seeing him. She wants to keep distance cause she clearly said that falling in love was not in her control. She told Babli that before falling, she tried to control and avoid PS, oar usse nahi hua. She has a pattern, she decides something, but her decision goes for a toss when Shauyra is involved. She decides to stay away from him many times, but she on her own will throws away that decision and goes to him.
She's young and has dreams.
She wants nothing to come in between. She's not sure about how she's going to behave around Shauyra. On multiple occasions , she has agreed that she's not being herself and acting in love.
Im not saying Nikki is not wrong in believing Shagun and Astha over Shaurya and her experience. Im just saying that give the girl who has never seen love, who has no idea about the depth of his love, who has no clear idea about his past experiences, who is clearly from a traumatic houselhold and the girl who herself agreed that she loses control around Shaurya , a break.
So true.👍🏼
Anokhi is really young, inexperienced, straight forward and genuine person among all the people around her. My heart goes out to her.
No doubt about intensity of feelings and possessivneness Shaurya has for her but he is unpredictable. He says something, does something and may be takes her for granted sometimes.
Hope he clears her insecurities. Story is moving nicely. Waiting for upcoming episodes.