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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: I don't think Imlie finding her feet is also ever going to change her viewpoint on Adi.....the age factor has never been an issue for her either😆.


The sense of awe and respect she has for Adi is not due to him being older than her....she admires the person he is, admires him for the convictions he has.....that is what she's fallen for...and I'm skeptical ki aage college ho ya career, Adi jaisa koi aur sample isko kabhi mil sakta hai😆.....she holds him to another level in her eyes. It is a mistake to presume that it's blind awe simply cuz she considers him her husband.....she recognizes that instinctual connect they share on a subconscious level and that is what she responds to instinctually as well. She connects with him on a core level.....and all the feet finding/worldview evolving is still never going to change the core of who she is....her and Adi are similar that way.....their core never shifts even as they evolve through circumstances on the outside.


As far as they both are concerned, age is just a number between them but yes the outside world will likely try to question the "practicality" of this match....lol and Adi will definitely feel those pangs whenever he sees her around people from her own age group....would be an interesting angle to show in terms of Adi-Imlie talking through it as well....scope for good convo around this issue.


Haan, I did not mean her view of Aditya; woh toh change hone se raha. I meant ki she will find herself more confident to talk about a lot more than she does today once her horizon broadens. Just a natural progression that comes with expanded knowledge.

Convo toh dene se rahe yeh log. I hope they do man. Kuch bhi 😆

But I do find it a little funny that society or others around them will suddenly start questioning age between these two when for years couples with all kinds of age differences have managed to build all kinds of families I.e why does it suddenly feel shocking to find a 19 year old married to a 31 year old. I’m not talking about child marriages or something with a twenty year age gap but even this 10-12 year difference. Imlie is ten times more mature than Malini can even comprehend. She understands what keeps a family together more than Malini can care about. She understands sacrifice that Malini feels beyond privileged to even think of. And Aditya is a lot more than the anger he displays.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton


Haan, I did not mean her view of Aditya; woh toh change hone se raha. I meant ki she will find herself more confident to talk about a lot more than she does today once her horizon broadens. Just a natural progression that comes with expanded knowledge.

Convo toh dene se rahe yeh log. I hope they do man. Kuch bhi 😆

But I do find it a little funny that society or others around them will suddenly start questioning age between these two when for years couples with all kinds of age differences have managed to build all kinds of families I.e why does it suddenly feel shocking to find a 19 year old married to a 31 year old. I’m not talking about child marriages or something with a twenty year age gap but even this 10-12 year difference. Imlie is ten times more mature than Malini can even comprehend. She understands what keeps a family together more than Malini can care about. She understands sacrifice that Malini feels beyond privileged to even think of. And Aditya is a lot more than the anger he displays.


Simply because when they do all the random.age difference wali stories they kinda make sure ke hamesha unhappy hi rahein...... they are used to ruin kisi ki bhi life.. under the garb of we are doing well for you.. which is what the NN kinda didi here too haan yeh alag hai inho ne keechad Mai Kamal khila lia hai and are in live now so now it becoems unacceptable to the the society. They will question this caz they actually love each other.. the questions arise when people.can't see 2 people happy.. and esp when things happen against their wills.. so until they are forced and unhappy it is all well for all nobody would question but the moment they will find their happiness people will start having issues ke how dare them be happy. Comes down to logon ki apni insecurities and unhappiness which they want to reflect all around around them and impose on everybody else

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