Rishita is raising very valid points if we look from a progressive perspective. The only issue is she does not know or is deliberately uncaring of how to do this sensitively.
Was Krish barging into the room of his newly married brother and wife wrong? Yes - for multiple reasons. Could Rishita have said that to him in a respectful way? Absolutely yes. Krish might be childish but he is not dumb.
Rishita could’ve stated her objection to the rasoi rasam in a respectful way if she had problems with a rasam meant to reinforce the traditional female roles in a household. Her reluctance seemed to be with the fact that she would’ve to cook for everyone. For that part Dev is largely responsible. I don’t think he has every really made her understand how his family functions. They come from two completely different financial strata and upbringing. Dev should’ve foreseen this. Like I said in another post he isn’t a particularly smart cookie.
In the precap it’s shown Rishita refusing to eat leftovers. This is completely understandable too. I have family members who do not eat anyone’s including their husband and children (two kind of people whose bodily fluid does not bother most ). The way she refused is the problem. Utterly bratty.
ITV heroines walk around with three layers of make up at ALL times - so loose hair in kitchen is sort of a given - because god forbid a messy woman😆 By ITV standards I am a troll under the bridge while at home.