Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 19. - Page 74

Originally posted by: laksh

Didi did it? 😲

Btw sab log mujhe daantna mat I felt bad for Pakhi in a couple of scenes 😒. I know she is delusional, crossing her lines and it probably seems right if I take it as an answer from Virat when he us being harassed.

It felt as though, she has moved to the next day of her marriage and not months. One could notice that she never moved from tjat day. It was a bug jhatka when he said that relationship never existed or people feel a lot in the first meet or even koi bhi aurat. As mych as it was right to be told, I could see that old Pakhi, the girl was stuck in love on the day of Haldi yesterday. The day she asked if it was a time pass for him and all that.

Did you guys think/feel anything of that sort too?

P.s. I have also akways been against Palhi.for what she has been doing to Sai, Virat, Aai and even Devi. Jus sharing what I felt.

I know what you mean, when we get the POV of other people, why not Pakhi. I pity her (maybe that fact that she could make me feel that means she tried to act better than usual) that being educated, smart, she decided to ruin her life. Even now she could understand and leave, but she will spiral down a horrible path. You do feel like shaking her and putting some sense into her. Virat should have tried to tell her to leave CN if she thinks Samrat is not the person she wants to wait for, or maybe he was already depressed and he was only trying to get rid of her from his room.

She said the night when Sai was thrown out of the house, Gaur se dheko mujhe Virat, main ab bhi wahin hun.

She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given.

She was right, Virat always shut her up when she wanted to talk about whats in her heart, coz from his POV its like insulting his brother. How can he talk about love with his brother's wife and he in time stopped himself from thinking about Pakhi in any other way except a friend, luckily coz Sai was around him.

Also she needs a job, something anything other than making chai.

All her thoughts are on Virat and Sai coz she has nothing else to do.

Originally posted by: laksh

Didi did it? 😲

Btw sab log mujhe daantna mat I felt bad for Pakhi in a couple of scenes 😒. I know she is delusional, crossing her lines and it probably seems right if I take it as an answer from Virat when he us being harassed.

It felt as though, she has moved to the next day of her marriage and not months. One could notice that she never moved from that day. It was a big jhatka when he said that relationship never existed or people feel a lot in the first meet or even koi bhi aurat. As much as it was right to be told, I could see that old Pakhi, the girl was stuck in love on the day of Haldi yesterday. The day she asked if it was a time pass for him and all that.

Did you guys think/feel anything of that sort too?

P.s. I have also always been against Palhi.for what she has been doing to Sai, Virat, Aai and even Devi. Jus sharing what I felt.

Nope that empathy for her died during that haldi day and felt bad in the beginning of sairat marriage .

It is not that she didn’t know and was living in a state of delusional bubble. She knew even before Virat what Sai means to him. She claims to be mature and spews lots of venom. And all this was calculated moves, not just out of spite and jealousy especially during Devi track. She herself claimed this to be a pure god level friendship.

it’s a conscious decision to not move on, and a conscious decision to get married to samrat. And If she is shedding tears now and blaming Virat for everything that went wrong in her life, is not getting me to sympathise with her one bit. She needed this rude wake up call and like sukri said, everything she does after this is her own doing.

Yes her bucket of tears for the 1.47 hrs love story did not move me. I would have felt a bit bad if she didn’t do such horrible acts towards innocent people and was not involved with kaku and gang.

Originally posted by: sukri

I know what you mean, when we get the POV of other people, why not Pakhi. I pity her (maybe that fact that she could make me feel that means she tried to act better than usual) that being educated, smart, she decided to ruin her life. Even now she could understand and leave, but she will spiral down a horrible path. You do feel like shaking her and putting some sense into her. Virat should have tried to tell her to leave CN if she thinks Samrat is not the person she wants to wait for, or maybe he was already depressed and he was only trying to get rid of her from his room.

She said the night when Sai was thrown out of the house, Gaur se dheko mujhe Virat, main ab bhi wahin hun.

She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given.

She was right, Virat always shut her up when she wanted to talk about whats in her heart, coz from his POV its like insulting his brother. How can he talk about love with his brother's wife and he in time stopped himself from thinking about Pakhi in any other way except a friend, luckily coz Sai was around him.

Also she needs a job, something anything other than making chai.

All her thoughts are on Virat and Sai coz she has nothing else to do.

For me her self-cantered nature is such a put off. How much ever I want to think from her POV, all that stops after her decision to get married to samrat.

The character lacks basic empathy to others pain except her own. For her losing Virat and not her husband being MIA is the biggest pain, rightfully so she doesn’t know Virat. But is there no guilt in her when she comes to know samrat left after possibly hearing her talk to virat or the fact that she ruined his life.

When Virat spoke about loss and pain in sais life during Ladakh trip, her reaction was like, how is that even comparable to the pain I am going through ?

I really would try to understand her POV IF their relationship was based on a more strong foundation, not yoga wala love,

Originally posted by: laksh

Didi did it? 😲

Btw sab log mujhe daantna mat I felt bad for Pakhi in a couple of scenes 😒. I know she is delusional, crossing her lines and it probably seems right if I take it as an answer from Virat when he us being harassed.

It felt as though, she has moved to the next day of her marriage and not months. One could notice that she never moved from that day. It was a big jhatka when he said that relationship never existed or people feel a lot in the first meet or even koi bhi aurat. As much as it was right to be told, I could see that old Pakhi, the girl was stuck in love on the day of Haldi yesterday. The day she asked if it was a time pass for him and all that.

Did you guys think/feel anything of that sort too?

P.s. I have also always been against Palhi.for what she has been doing to Sai, Virat, Aai and even Devi. Jus sharing what I felt.

I started feeling bad for Pakhi but then when she started saying what you sow you reep and Virat would never get Sai’s love dialogues undid it for me.

I agree that she screwed up big time and we do feel bad and sympathetic towards people who make or take wrong messed up decisions irl.

But with her she comes across saying I am right and follow my dictate. She doesn’t even acknowledge the other persons feelings, in this case Virat. It’s all about her and her so called true love.

Her character makes it difficult to empathise with her.

Originally posted by: sukri

I know what you mean, when we get the POV of other people, why not Pakhi. I pity her (maybe that fact that she could make me feel that means she tried to act better than usual) that being educated, smart, she decided to ruin her life. Even now she could understand and leave, but she will spiral down a horrible path. You do feel like shaking her and putting some sense into her. Virat should have tried to tell her to leave CN if she thinks Samrat is not the person she wants to wait for, or maybe he was already depressed and he was only trying to get rid of her from his room.

She said the night when Sai was thrown out of the house, Gaur se dheko mujhe Virat, main ab bhi wahin hun.

She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given.

She was right, Virat always shut her up when she wanted to talk about whats in her heart, coz from his POV its like insulting his brother. How can he talk about love with his brother's wife and he in time stopped himself from thinking about Pakhi in any other way except a friend, luckily coz Sai was around him.

Also she needs a job, something anything other than making chai.

All her thoughts are on Virat and Sai coz she has nothing else to do.

Exactly, she has spoilt her own life. As you have said, she will leave the room now and again travel in the same path. Thw girl is lost. She needs to be woken by up someone.

You are right someone has to shake her abd put sense into her. Virat need not have asked her to move out of CN, but could have suggested that if she doesn't want her relationship with Samrat, she shouldn't be bound in this marriage, should have asked her to move on.

May be it is tough to do it. But he is not just a brother, he is a friend too and that is what friends do. He probably can speak to her parents but it is a sensitive topic and how would he bring it up? Some do it actually.

"She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given."

Yeah, it might not have gone to this extreme. May be if the ladakh trip had happened, she would have spoke.

She should have let it out of ger system lomg time back; would have got a reality check. What Ashwini spoke never made sense to her, only what Virat spoke woke her up even if it means that it is for a short period of time.

It is a pity that there are people who waste their life like this. She should have never got married. If she had done this without getting married to Samrat and if Virat also wasn't married, would have been better.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

I started feeling bad for Pakhi but then when she started saying what you sow you reep and Virat would never get Sai’s love dialogues undid it for me.

I agree that she screwed up big time and we do feel bad and sympathetic towards people who make or take wrong messed up decisions irl.

But with her she comes across saying I am right and follow my dictate. She doesn’t even acknowledge the other persons feelings, in this case Virat. It’s all about her and her so called true love.

Her character makes it difficult to empathise with her.

Yes, she even cursed him. If we look at it as a whole picture, won't be able to empathise, definitely not.

I could see that girl who stood on the day of Haldi as soon as he woke her up. Anyway, there is no use if she is going to take the same path.

The problem with her is she is a "ME" person. What she claims is not love. She doesn't ever think about Virat or his welfare.

But, I have a doubt, Virat wouldn't have spoken a few words or wouldn't have meant it if Pakhi wasn't behaving like that, is it? It was only to show her, her place, so that he wakes her up from her dream and to drive her from the room?

Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly, she has spoilt her own life. As you have said, she will leave the room now and again travel in the same path. Thw girl is lost. She needs to be woken by up someone.

You are right someone has to shake her abd put sense into her. Virat need not have asked her to move out of CN, but could have suggested that if she doesn't want her relationship with Samrat, she shouldn't be bound in this marriage, should have asked her to move on.

May be it is tough to do it. But he is not just a brother, he is a friend too and that is what friends do. He probably can speak to her parents but it is a sensitive topic and how would he bring it up? Some do it actually.

"She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given."

Yeah, it might not have gone to this extreme. May be if the ladakh trip had happened, she would have spoke.

She should have let it out of ger system lomg time back; would have got a reality check. What Ashwini spoke never made sense to her, only what Virat spoke woke her up even if it means that it is for a short period of time.

It is a pity that there are people who waste their life like this. She should have never got married. If she had done this without getting married to Samrat and if Virat also wasn't married, would have been better.

There is no realisation that her decision is the reason too that ruined her life. It’s all blame game at this point.

And what friendship honestly?

They didn’t spend enough time to even be known as friends. That was such a flimsy plot. Just claiming best friends doesn’t make them one.

I would say we are better friends than Virat and Pakhi claim to be. Although our interactions are just based off IF discussions 😂

Sorry, I cannot take a balanced approach when I talk about Pakhi's POV. Her actions seem reasonable only if she is suffering from any known conditions. If they want to claim her to be this mature , independent woman, sorry to say, all this is plain zidd for not getting what she wants

Originally posted by: sukri

I know what you mean, when we get the POV of other people, why not Pakhi. I pity her (maybe that fact that she could make me feel that means she tried to act better than usual) that being educated, smart, she decided to ruin her life. Even now she could understand and leave, but she will spiral down a horrible path. You do feel like shaking her and putting some sense into her. Virat should have tried to tell her to leave CN if she thinks Samrat is not the person she wants to wait for, or maybe he was already depressed and he was only trying to get rid of her from his room.

She said the night when Sai was thrown out of the house, Gaur se dheko mujhe Virat, main ab bhi wahin hun.

She never talked to Virat openly about all this, there were always people around. Some part of this discussion should have been the night when vaada was given.

She was right, Virat always shut her up when she wanted to talk about whats in her heart, coz from his POV its like insulting his brother. How can he talk about love with his brother's wife and he in time stopped himself from thinking about Pakhi in any other way except a friend, luckily coz Sai was around him.

Also she needs a job, something anything other than making chai.

All her thoughts are on Virat and Sai coz she has nothing else to do.

I don’t think Virat ever realise that Pakhi was always looking for way to have an ema.

He got an inkling when she did the drama mein akeli hoon. But the non confrontational attitude made him say mera sach wala dialogues. And he said I don’t know your sach and not interested.

I don’t think it will help if she gets a job because she is constantly in competition with a 19 yr old!

She wanted work remember when Sai joined college?

Sudharne wale mein nahi hai didi.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

I don’t think Virat ever realise that Pakhi was always looking for way to have an ema.

He got an inkling when she did the drama mein akeli hoon. But the non confrontational attitude made him say mera sach wala dialogues. And he said I don’t know your sach and not interested.

I don’t think it will help if she gets a job because she is constantly in competition with a 19 yr old!

She wanted work remember when Sai joined college?

Sudharne wale mein nahi hai didi.

I feel that it is also her ego that is hurt.Despite her beauty and qualifications, he chose to fall for Sai who she considers in her eyes , less than her in all aspects.

I really want to ask the makers about why they keep butchering the word MATURITY A🙈😂.

What would she have done if she was chucked out of the house in the middle of the night with no place to call her own, taunted and insulted 24x7, being called gold digger and pagal ? She will come back running as soon as Virat apologises.

she is the one living the life of luxury. She can do as she pleases, waltz into Virat’s room, taunt the person she hates the most freely and openly without any restrictions to satisfy her ego, instigate Virat anytime she wants , and all with the comforts of being the favourite Bahu, getting praised for the very same acts which in any normal family would have been vile.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

There is no realisation that her decision is the reason too that ruined her life. It’s all blame game at this point.

Thats how delusional she is

And what friendship honestly?

They didn’t spend enough time to even be known as friends. That was such a flimsy plot. Just claiming best friends doesn’t make them one.

I would say we are better friends than Virat and Pakhi claim to be. Although our interactions are just based off IF discussions 😂

❤ definitely

Sorry, I cannot take a balanced approach when I talk about Pakhi's POV. Her actions seem reasonable only if she is suffering from any known conditions. If they want to claim her to be this mature , independent woman, sorry to say, all this is plain zidd for not getting what she wants
It is ofcourse zidd.

The friendship was offered by Virat and even now he wants to be her friend. That shows his tolerance level. He feels that he had failed to marry her, had not fought for his love back then and so he thought that he should atleast be there for her if she needs any help from him during bad times. She didn't understand it.