Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 101

Originally posted by: NoraSM

If he wasn't ready for this reform, he shouldn't have filed a petition, he is looking like an idiot now, all big talks of reform but when it comes to changing himself, he won't follow it then why does he expect society to change their ways for him?

When he took the decision, he should have thought this through, what is his plan after the law comes into force and he has to end his marriage? How will he help Bondita? It was his decision, now it can't be like "Sabka Child marriage is wrong, mera sahi hai"

Bondita is a child, he is just putting whole blame of decision on her, if she ends relationship when she thinks about it in future as she is attached to him, she'll blame herself for the decision and if she says she doesn't wish to end it, he'll put the blame of continuing child marriage on her so when she grows up and understands what young girls go through in child marriage, again she blames herself

Anirudh got out of it, just like that, How is he going to take her responsibility if he doesn't have anything other than his idealistic talks to back him?

Exactly if bon grows being a future barrister and she fights for girls rights and no marriage they will say u are married in childhood and happy with it she would sound hypocrite

If she breaks now then whole family will blame her as on what grounds she took decision

Bon is stuck and she is clueless about right or wrong for her losing ani is losing her emotional support then what she would do ??stay or not in this marriage but in new look she is u married either she is pretending to be like this in college or she completely broke off her wedding

If she says tomorrow I am finishing it she does not know consequences

Anirudh should have said I am finishing child amrriage but I will sponsor bon legally but with what grounds

Originally posted by: NoraSM

If he wasn't ready for this reform, he shouldn't have filed a petition, he is looking like an idiot now, all big talks of reform but when it comes to changing himself, he won't follow it then why does he expect society to change their ways for him?

When he took the decision, he should have thought this through, what is his plan after the law comes into force and he has to end his marriage? How will he help Bondita? It was his decision, now it can't be like "Sabka Child marriage is wrong, mera sahi hai"

Bondita is a child, he is just putting whole blame of decision on her, if she ends relationship when she thinks about it in future as she is attached to him, she'll blame herself for the decision and if she says she doesn't wish to end it, he'll put the blame of continuing child marriage on her so when she grows up and understands what young girls go through in child marriage, again she blames herself

Anirudh got out of it, just like that, How is he going to take her responsibility if he doesn't have anything other than his idealistic talks to back him?

Also makers can’t show future barrister rooting and being in child mairrage and regarding society bon should not care as she suffered a lot at hands of society why nobody considers bon is actually victim of all these ,she still does not understand husband wife relation then how come she would say nullify it

Rishte ka kya mod hoga bon decide kargei child brides can’t be allowed to say Antioch as they don’t know what is right for her or not

If she says yes let break this if we forego societal taunts on growing up bon knows what is her future

Ani is known and grown up he needs to decide as last time he in nick of saving bon life did this but now he needs to see bon is conscious it is her decison

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

Sumati being her mother has legal right on her, if she can't live with them, she can do something for Bondita, it seems like her mother is a stuck up who would rather see her child dead than do anything for her, if her ego is more important than life of her child, I think she is in dire need of a reform, she surely can see how her daughter needs education and help her in any way she can, she did help Anirudh in last track when she knew he is sending her to dalhousie, which he can do now, with consent of Bondita's legal guardian

Anyway, One can come up with thousands of excuses in support of child marriage, it wouldn't have been easy for Bondita to go to school as society is against it, but when has Anirudh been a champion of the society, I thought he is here for better future of women, not to succumb to pressure of society, which has no legal power and RCs are obviously way more influential consider the status of Zamindars in British India

Looking at current track and Anirudh leaving the decision of divorce on a 12 years old, relinquishing responsibility, putting the blame of every decision on her - The wrong side of child marriage, a child should not be burdened with responsibility of a household, look at this man giving her responsibility of divorce, the whole point of ending Child marriage is that young girls can't consent to it

This is not the Anirudh who filed petition for betterment of women

Unfortunately Sumati is portrayed as a weak person unable to protect her daughter. She has seen her daughter being sold to a brothel by her brother and sister in law. Still she forgave them and was living with them. Do you still expect anything more from her?

This is not supporting child marriage simply because their's is not a marriage in the right sense. It is just a name tag used by Anirudh to protect Bondita. Majority wants Bondita under Anirudh's protection because we know she doesn't have a good and strong family which will protect her.

One man cannot be an army against society all the time. If you look at the story line, you will realize that Anirudh failed most of the times against society. Marrying Bondita is the best example. He didn't want to do it because of his social reformer beliefs. But what happened, at the end he had to succumb to societal pressure and had to marry a child.

Zamindars were powerful. But Anirudh is not even getting the support from his own family. Look at Kaka's attitude. He is alone all most all the times.

Sending Bondita to Dalhousie might be the middle path.

It is not divorce but annulment. Personally I liked him giving Bondita the right to decide her life. She is 12 but still it is her life too. So definitely she has a right to say what she wants.This is the first time he is taking her opinion into consideration. May be because of the promise. Earlier he used to take decisions on behalf of her without asking her opinion.

I liked his explanation saying women have greater right to decide whether to break or continue marriages. Still our patriarchal society doesn't give this right to women most of the times. This explanation indicates that the Anirudh who filed the petition is not that different from the present Anirudh. Only difference is earlier Anirudh was only rational and present Anirudh is slightly emotional too over the possibility of losing the most important person in his life.

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Also makers can’t show future barrister rooting and being in child mairrage and regarding society bon should not care as she suffered a lot at hands of society why nobody considers bon is actually victim of all these ,she still does not understand husband wife relation then how come she would say nullify it

Rishte ka kya mod hoga bon decide kargei child brides can’t be allowed to say Antioch as they don’t know what is right for her or not

If she says yes let break this if we forego societal taunts on growing up bon knows what is her future

Ani is known and grown up he needs to decide as last time he in nick of saving bon life did this but now he needs to see bon is conscious it is her decison

Worst thing is that he announced in front of everyone that he is ready to break the relationship and Bondita has to decide on spot after his declaration

I feel he should have called her mother, spoke to them about what young girls go through in Child marriage and why he is taking this decision of ending it, explain it to them, think about what are you going to do to help Bondita after annulment, give her assurance that this relationship won't end after it, it was a marriage in name only for her protection, nothing changes for them.

If a child is going to take the decision of her divorce, I mean "Consent" is the key, is she really old enough to take any decision? That's the whole point

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

Unfortunately Sumati is portrayed as a weak person unable to protect her daughter. She has seen her daughter being sold to a brothel by her brother and sister in law. Still she forgave them and was living with them. Do you still expect anything more from her?

This is not supporting child marriage simply because their's is not a marriage in the right sense. It is just a name tag used by Anirudh to protect Bondita. Majority wants Bondita under Anirudh's protection because we know she doesn't have a good and strong family which will protect her.

One man cannot be an army against society all the time. If you look at the story line, you will realize that Anirudh failed most of the times against society. Marrying Bondita is the best example. He didn't want to do it because of his social reformer beliefs. But what happened, at the end he had to succumb to societal pressure and had to marry a child.

Zamindars were powerful. But Anirudh is not even getting the support from his own family. Look at Kaka's attitude. He is alone all most all the times.

Sending Bondita to Dalhousie might be the middle path.

It is not divorce but annulment. Personally I liked him giving Bondita the right to decide her life. She is 12 but still it is her life too. So definitely she has a right to say what she wants.This is the first time he is taking her opinion into consideration. May be because of the promise. Earlier he used to take decisions on behalf of her without asking her opinion.

I liked his explanation saying women have greater right to decide whether to break or continue marriages. Still our patriarchal society doesn't give this right to women most of the times. This explanation indicates that the Anirudh who filed the petition is not that different from the present Anirudh. Only difference is earlier Anirudh was only rational and present Anirudh is slightly emotional too over the possibility of losing the most important person in his life.

They are going with divorce, it seems from tonight's episode

If Sumati is weak then Anirudh should manage her, like he did last time for Bondita's good future

Bondita should not have been burdened with a decision like this, it is her life but what does she knows about Child marriage or marriage? Does she understands consequences of annulment? Does she understands implications of not getting an annulment?

It is Anirudh and her mother's responsibility, she can take decisions and be responsible for her actions when she grows up, not now, that's the whole point of Child marriage being illegal, Kids cant consent to it

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Worst thing is that he announced in front of everyone that he is ready to break the relationship and Bondita has to decide on spot after his declaration

I feel he should have called her mother, spoke to them about what young girls go through in Child marriage and why he is taking this decision of ending it, explain it to them, think about what are you going to do to help Bondita after annulment, give her assurance that this relationship won't end after it, it was a marriage in name only for her protection, nothing changes for them.

If a child is going to take the decision of her divorce, I mean "Consent" is the key, is she really old enough to take any decision? That's the whole point

exactly does bon know what is her future?? when she is victim of situations,if she says i wont then she is stuck in marriage and on growing up she would be blamed and even now also that ani did this if people taunt him,if she does then what will rc tell her??

Originally posted by: NoraSM

They are going with divorce, it seems from tonight's episode

If Sumati is weak then Anirudh should manage her, like he did last time for Bondita's good future

Bondita should not have been burdened with a decision like this, it is her life but what does she knows about Child marriage or marriage? Does she understands consequences of annulment? Does she understands implications of not getting an annulment?

It is Anirudh and her mother's responsibility, she can take decisions and be responsible for her actions when she grows up

exactly anirudh thinks bon has grown up when after lockdown he said children get affected but now he thinks she is grown because she hit puberty or is it because of molestation,her getting educated,facing polygamy, being huumiliated and pressurised by society,bon has till now no knowledge of marriage,she is sturggling to come to terms,makers did not even once show bon anger on being sati by society,it is a big thing for her ,how she feels for being a victim,agar ani ka relation man se nahi tha,bon ka bhi nahi hai like ani backed off makers bon ko back off karvvaaye where she questions society why they made her sati

Originally posted by: NoraSM

They are going with divorce, it seems from tonight's episode

If Sumati is weak then Anirudh should manage her, like he did last time for Bondita's good future

Bondita should not have been burdened with a decision like this, take her opinion into consideration but take responsibility of the decision, as she is a child, don't leave the responsibility on Bondita

Bon searched meaning of divorce instigated by Sampoorna and had an emotional discussion of its implications. But the Brahmo Samaj people and in precap child marriage is being described as illegal. If it is illegal, how can divorce happen? Legal acceptance is required for divorce. It will get annulled.

Anirudh will not be able to manage Sumati now because she is in her in law's place now. She will only obey them. She is very submissive

I agree Bondita is young. But isn't it better to ask her opinion too instead of just deciding what she has to do? What the child wants matters , even in our present legal system.

Eventhough society doesn't have any legal authority, sometimes it becomes much more lethal than laws. Legally women are free to go anywhere alone at any time in present day India. But will we roam freely at some random place without a second thought at mid night alone? We will not . We will think a thousand times about our safety before doing that because we know how our society behaves. This is just one instance showing legal protection will not ensure safety in society always

Originally posted by: Indira12

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