The Facade begins to unravel - Page 15

Originally posted by: pamk06

Exactly...relationship need a lot more than haq🤣😆especially trust 😛. Aditya sach bol raha that but Malini ne believe hi nahi kiya na importance

Trust to tab karti na jab sunti😆 she didn't even hear him

About the clip.. I am sorry Pam but the edit made me uncomfortable 😕 people really are putting it in a different intent by editing and feeling it is funny mm they are getting cheap thrills caz adi ne finally aona POV rakha and caz ladayi hui inki.. I I sorry as much as I troll malini .. there was hardly anything funny about this 😐 and I am not seeing any fun I them fighting like this.. I know a lot of people enjoyed it for God knows whatm. I enjoyed it for the performance for the execution and conceptualization of that the writing and online with the characters ka graph and reaching this much awaited fall out.. but I still can't laugh at it and be happy about it that it happened. It's something wrong with me or people.. and no I don't feel anything for didi still but this was not at all something to be happy about in anyway

P.s none of it for you personally it is just the way the clip is edited and made to look like it is something funny plus I read that in the forum ke bihat funny hai and iss liye maza aaya klcaz adi malini ki ladayi hui and bohat entertaining tha like excuse me...

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Trust to tab karti na jab sunti😆 she didn't even hear him

About the clip.. I am sorry Pam but the edit made me uncomfortable 😕 people really are putting it in a different intent by editing and feeling it is funny mm they are getting cheap thrills caz adi ne finally aona POV rakha and caz ladayi hui inki.. I I sorry as much as I troll malini .. there was hardly anything funny about this 😐 and I am not seeing any fun I them fighting like this.. I know a lot of people enjoyed it for God knows whatm. I enjoyed it for the performance for the execution and conceptualization of that the writing and online with the characters ka graph and reaching this much awaited fall out.. but I still can't laugh at it and be happy about it that it happened. It's something wrong with me or people.. and no I don't feel anything for didi still but this was not at all something to be happy about in anyway

P.s none of it for you personally it is just the way the clip is edited and made to look like it is something funny plus I read that in the forum ke bihat funny hai and iss liye maza aaya klcaz adi malini ki ladayi hui and bohat entertaining tha like excuse me...

I understand... I put the clip only to show that he was telling the truth but she did not believe him nor heard him.... Did not know about this whole other factor.. will take it out. 😊

Edit - Personally, I also do not think that there was anything funny about that fight... For me the way they did the fall out was exactly like you said in the bold. hence it was so much more impactful... The on spot response, the talking over each other, situation, circumstances all of it made it real like an actual argument that happens.

Yet to see what clip is being talked about but here’s the thing about the fight - it was real, as real as it can get on TV. There was no pause in between. Both Aditya and Malini were almost talking over each other, the body language was extremely defensive. This is how fights are. It was an extremely sad scene. My dislike for Malini is well known but fights like these are just plain unfortunate and should not be the butt of jokes.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL aisa hi kuch hoga most likely.....Adi may end up blurting out some portion of the truth and Didi will promptly fall ill taaki dono Adi-Imlie guilt mein aur tadpein that they are the cause of her health getting affected😆

Of course this is what is exactly going to happen. We are only at the beginning of Malini’s arc. She has not even doubted Imlie yet. She is definitely going to feign illness. And none of it is going to be for Aditya. She will guess her guilt tripping him is not working any longer by then. Everything is going to be for the family so that they can turn the screws on Aditya and Imlie

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Yet to see what clip is being talked about but here’s the thing about the fight - it was real, as real as it can get on TV. There was no pause in between. Both Aditya and Malini were almost talking over each other, the body language was extremely defensive. This is how fights are. It was an extremely sad scene. My dislike for Malini is well known but fights like these are just plain unfortunate and should not be the butt of jokes.

Concur with this totally.

Pam, I know it wasn't your intention at all and I think Fary was also speaking generally only. We all use humor to point out the strangeness in Adi-Malini's relationship many times too but none of us here relished that fight yesterday....it was absolutely a very sad thing to watch two such unhappy people fighting with each other. You could feel the suffocation in that fight almost tangibly. It was effective TV but nothing to rejoice over.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Of course this is what is exactly going to happen. We are only at the beginning of Malini’s arc. She has not even doubted Imlie yet. She is definitely going to feign illness. And none of it is going to be for Aditya. She will guess her guilt tripping him is not working any longer by then. Everything is going to be for the family so that they can turn the screws on Aditya and Imlie

I am dreading that even more....cuz Adi in a sense handed her more ammo yesterday by telling her directly that he fears her reactions and the way she has fainting/low BP reactions over any sign of stress. So I don't think Malini is going to be above using this piece of information to her advantage in the future as she gets more desperate😕.

If not feigning, she will definitely exaggerate illness deliberately if she can....and she is twisted enough to do it without even consciously realizing but still expecting the "reward" for her delicate flower act😕

Originally posted by: Lodestar

@AY @ MuteButton

Regarding Imlie's ability to distance herself from Aditya- do you think she will be able to distance herself from Adi the way she has convinced herself that she can do when required?

Personally I think she is not capable of staying away from Adi now. We make fun of how Adi cannot stay away from Imlie but I think Imlie is also in the same boat as Adi. The feelings have deepened for eachother on both sides & I believe their intensity & fierceness is on the same level. The only difference is in the way that they express their feelings.

For Adi, it is his restlessness, his Defcon1 level protectiveness for her even on the smallest of things, wanting to stay behind her as her support in her journey, etc. For Imlie, it is her devotion to him, appreciating his gifts & gestures so whole heartedly even if she has to hide them, her unconditional understanding towards him as a person, etc.

Bacchi bhi apne BS ke bina nahi reh sakti hai ab. She was able to leave him before because he denied her the right to even nibhao their relationship on her own. It was because she thought it was his wish that she leave him. So she was able to gather the strength & leave him. But the time spent with Adi in PD totally changed their relationship. Where there was no haq then, there is haq today. It is she who is not accepting the haq because of her own selfless moral code. But she knows he loves her, he shows it to her in many little ways everyday & she cherishes these gestures & things even if verbally says she can't accept them.

We have to remember how listless & restless she was in PD after Adi left. She herself had sent him away telling him that they cannot meet or act on their feelings for each other because of Malini. But she was the one who was calling him to know whether he has reached safely. She initiated the first move of keeping in touch with him. Also she returned back to Delhi the very next day when the admission process was still away. It was actually because she missed him & could not stay away. I don't think BS's confidence in him being the reason for her return was misplaced. It actually was true however much she denies it.

Similarly now as well when Adi is not following his vachan to keep Malini happy, she is yet to confront him. More than confronting him, she has yet to draw a hard line which he cannot cross. Hopefully we may see this convo very soon with her witnessing Adi-Malini arguments constantly. But whatever that discussion will be I don't think Imlie will be able to distance herself from Adi. Only something drastic would be able to give her the strength to go away from her BS for his own good. Otherwise I don't think Adi-Malini fights are going to be enough to motivate her to distance herself from Adi. She can do token protests or opposition but no concrete action.

When I meant distance, it was about invoking the vachan in a way that Aditya cannot come out of it without actually attempting to stand by it which he is not doing right now. Both Aditya and Imlie are where they need to be I.e in the same house and that I doubt will change right now. And their relationship can only progress now onwards but we also tend to underestimate Imlie’s resolve where her emotions are concerned. Yes, she feels as deeply as Aditya does including the same amount of intensity but what we tend to forget is that she cares about the family and Malini in a way that Aditya does not. I am not saying he is uncaring but he is ready to dole out pain once if it means that he need not live his lie anymore. But Imlie is terrified of hurting the family and Malini because she considers them to be innocent bystanders undeserving of any pain that the reality might cause.

At the end of the day though we all know that neither one of them is capable of maintaining any kind of meaningful distance anyway. So that’s why I mentioned temporary truce kind of.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

rishton main Sauda nahi hota it is not a freaking business ke tum mujhe yeh do main woh doonga and is she thinks that toh am not sure yeh kahan se mila hai isse caz yeh toh AC ka bhi thought process nahi hai despite her classist elite attitude she also wants love and admiration and not transactional love from DC .. maybe meri perception galat ho ac ke maamle main.. but yeh didi ka apna hi hai kuch.. just caz 7 saal saatg rahe toh you owe me something .. uhh didi you were free to leave then and now too..

LOL well, I do think AC ka way of approaching relationships is transactional too....she has also many times jataaoed to Dev that my father helped you set up your career warna tum kya the....that's not just elitism....she feels Dev is indebted to her for all that she brought to this marriage vis a vis her wealth/status that helped him establish himself....that is the core problem in their marriage too.

Malini now seems to be setting out on the same path....but she is in for a rude awakening cuz Aditya is no Dev😆.....woh kaanch ka tukda tha.....yeh toh blazing sun hai😆....he is not going to take kindly to this transactional approach.

for all her tell me(s) she cannot even hear once what he actually is trying to say. So much adjustments BRAVA. Goonge se shaadi karti devi

LMAO at Goonge se shaadi kar leti🤣....but woh bhi nahin manzoor na....cuz a goonga guy usko mushy mushy baatein nahin sunaata ki hum sirf aapke hain, Malini....aap sabse achhi hain, sabse mahaan hain....yeh sab bhi toh daily dose chahiye Malini ko to feel good😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

A follow up would be nice though but idk if today would be the right time due to the heated argument I think thida cool down ho jaaye adi before imlie approaches her in this matter.. warna toh dobara ladega hi ke ab tum bhi mujhe hi dosh do😆

Yes adi needs to replay this in his head and try to figure the answer ab toh iske dimmaag ki bati jalni hi chahiye. He should ponder ke sach main kyon ki.. an toh itna direct pooch lia didi ne. And usually his bulb turns on when someone asks so saamne se hi. Dekhte hain

This exactly😆....this is why I'm thinking shaayad iski dimaag ki batti jale cuz first time someone asked him directly why he married Malini....he has gotten so used to the understanding between him and Imlie ki woh shaadi kyun hui that he's forgotten ki any other person would ask this saamne se aise hi and he needs to come out of his bubble and reflect on why he actually married Malini.

Cuz he did pause for a bit when Malini asked him that directly....thodi der ke liye taken aback hua....so I'm hoping kuch toh dimaag mein soche iske baad beyond his usual, "hum kaise samjhaayein Malini ko ki humein khud nahin pata tha"😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I am dreading that even more....cuz Adi in a sense handed her more ammo yesterday by telling her directly that he fears her reactions and the way she has fainting/low BP reactions over any sign of stress. So I don't think Malini is going to be above using this piece of information to her advantage in the future as she gets more desperate😕.

If not feigning, she will definitely exaggerate illness deliberately if she can....and she is twisted enough to do it without even consciously realizing but still expecting the "reward" for her delicate flower act😕

Absolutely! And even if she does not gin it up on her own, AC toh hai hi. Aditya’s fear is going to be definitely used one way or the other against him. There is scope for a lot of drama. Aakhir haq ki baat hai and for the world, she supposedly has called dibs over it.

I sometimes think the only reason she will decide to divorce Aditya, whenever that happens, will be because a) Imlie’s shadow and b) that she was not first. I do not see any behen prem or logic coming in to it.