He deserved a Sorry atleast - Page 4

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry, below is my view.

Sai has been apologetic since she returned. She had tried to talk to him so many times, tried to explain but his only words were get out, out of the house, you have no place in this house anymore, just go to the place from wherever you belong, taje her along with you pointing at Usha Maushi.

You remember when she was about to tell about Pulkit and stopped herself. She stopped herself only for the sake of Virat, not for the promise she gave Pulkit. The girl is ready to take all insults for Devi and for Virat, and yet she looks wrong in many ways?

Her saying, she will leave the house is same as him asking her to go find roof for her like this, closing the door on her face? She didn't use that she will leave the house as a weapon, that was of a girl who reminded herself, that this house didn't belong to her and she has to leave it one day.

She had clearly told him at the end, that I would have left if you had asked me to leave. But, the way you have insulted me, my self respect and the way you have humiliated me, I wouldn't leave, you guys will have to face the consequences.

Was she wrong? Why didn't he ask her to leave the way he could have? He has rights to be angry on her for her behavior, to have broken his trust, but please check just a part of the dialogues from the previous day episode. If, she was unapologetic, she would have started to fight after 2 or 3 lines after how he spoke.

Only the person who is stopped at the doorstep like this, will know how it feels and that too for an action, which was not taken for her own benefit.

Initially yes, he deserved a sorry, and she tried to too, not when he has behaved liked this. His family joined and made it worse.

After what Ninad said, it was clear as what they expected. Also, you think Virat would be okay if she had told sorry to just Virat and Aai. No, he wanted sorry to have gone against his family, he is under the influence of the family too at the moment. She could see that clearly.

She could have said, I am sorry that I didn't tell you but the flow of the conversation took an ugly direction that she didn't feel like, but only at the end.

Check the below dialogues. This wasn't the end at all. And even at that last line, she tried Virat sir and yet, he did not think it was necessary to let her tell something. She was being apologetic and tried all the while only because she was at fault.

"Wahi ruk jao"

"Ab iss ghar mein tumhare liye koi jagah nahi hai"

"Kuch sunnna ya samajhna nahi hai mujhe"

"Chup chap yahaan se chali jao"

"Iss ghar mein sirf bharose mand log reh sakthe hain, tumhare jaise dhokebaaz nahi"

"Koi farq nahi padta hai ki kaun sun raha hai ya kaun nahi aur hume tumse koi sawaal nahi karna hai aur na hi yeh kadve zeHar jaise jawaab sunna hai"

"Kyunki main tumhari kahaan ka anth likh chuka hoon"

"Aur anth yeh hai ki ab tum is ghar mein kadam nahi rakhogi"

"Is ghar mein tumhare liye koi jagah nahi hai"

"Chal jaane do pata, aa jaane do sab par aanch koi farq nahi padta mujhe aur agar zaroorat padi na samjha doonga logon ko kyun itni rat gaye apne patni ko usi ke ghar mein ghusne nahi de raha hoon main"

"Afsos toh mujhe hai ki maine tum par bharosa kiya, tumpar tumne har baar apni hadh paar ki aur har baar mein tumhare liye lad gaya hoon sabse, mauke pe mauke diye maine lekin ab nahi bass bass ho gaya; abh tumhe mauka toh kya iss ghar ke dehleez bhi paar karne nahi doonga main. Nikal jao yahaan se. Humesha humesha ke liye. "

"Sirf Pulkit ne dhokha nahi diya hai, tumne bhi iss parivaar ko dhokha diya hai, mujhe dhokha diya hai, koi anjaan dhokha de na sabak milta hai lekin jab koi apna, koi kareebi jab dhokha deta hai na zindagi bhar ka dard milta hai, bas

Sabbit kar chuka hoon tumhe lekin tumne usse pehle hi milkar use sab kuch bata diya

"Tumhare saath milkar planning kar li, sab jaantha hoon main"

He brought it upon himself. He had many wake up calls and he is not behaving like a human, forget police officer.

With Aai and Usha maushi, it is just how a teenage girl with show some kind of a tantrum, also it is only so that they don't break her resolve, they don't make her weak.

She wants to stand strong for Devi Tai's welfare. Won't we take liberty on moms and speak, she could be a little more polite, but the girl who has been humiliated like this, whom can she show her frustration on? Only on the people whom she thinks is her own. I haven't watched the entire episode but from the clippings, it only looked that she is acting that way to Aai so that she doesnt force her to eat food from this house.

Laksh you are much right.

I totally respect your view point

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

You are 100% correct. You have penned everything to the point. I have pointed this many times that Sayi never apologises. But, whenever Virat makes a mistake he always apologises upon realisation. But, our Sayi never asks for forgiveness. Isn't she egoistic? She points out everyone's mistake, but when it comes to her, she forgets everything. The fact is she takes Virat for granted. If she had apologised to Virat, half of the problem would have been solved. And, maybe Virat would have listened to her. But, no why should she apologise? And, where are those people who have created this mess? Why can't she should at them? Every time Virat tried to make her realise that this marriage has gone the deal she's the one who reminded him that after she becomes a doctor she would leave. And now when Virat asked her to leave her ego got hurt. It seems as if only Virat's mistakes are counted and he's the one who should apologise. But, Sayi's mistakes should be turned a blind eye and hence no need for her to apologise. Because she's a saint who never makes any mistakes.

Thamk you so much

During the trip thing, Virat apologized and Sai spoke whatever came to her find

Even today Virat apologizes her for holding the hand forcefully

All Sai's mistakes are ignored. She is no saint

Originally posted by: bubbly12

Both are having their own POV, misunderstandings. Clearly neither took correct decision. I would appreciate makers if they make both of them feel guilty and apologize to each other.

That is much needed. If this happens, I will be satisfied

I think i mentioned it long back, this is not Virat v/s Sai and never was.

Its a clash of their thought process, she is challenging everything he has lived with. So i never said she is right and should not apologize.

But her actions may be out of impulse are not meant to hurt anyone, she did not hide things purposefully from him. Should she apologize yes, but did he give her a chance no.

What he did was also wrong, did not listen, in anger took a decision. The decision was to hurt her cause he was hurting now that's the difference.

Well should he apologize for what he has done? He should and he will.

Right now, his one reaction as ruled out her mistake. He feels betrayed agreed and he is right at his place. But she isn't wrong either.

Originally posted by: amaya01

I think Sai was ready to apologise him for not informing him before taking such big step and kept him in dark but he wanted her to accept that what she did was wrong and Pulkit is a imposter ( which is not true) so her sorry would hv been taken in different way. Virat was ready with his verdict and what all he said was so humiliating so we can't expect someone to say sorry after being called gold digger .Her sorry would hv been considered as a trick of staying in luxurious Chauhan house by all these clowns of Chauhan niwas . Sai was ready to explain everything to Virat but not at the cost of her self respect. Yes her behaviour with Usha mausi and aai was quite rude but not out of Sai's character.

I am not saying that she should apologize to Chavans but just Virat.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

We're laughing. But it might actually be true😆

Yesterday I thought , I am hearing you for the last time. But your comment here made me feel happy.

Thanks for staying

Originally posted by: _charu_

What sai did is ok but her methods r horribly wrong . What virat did is insaniyat se giri hui harkat as his aayi said. When time comes both will apologize to each othrr . For now I am enjoying the rounds of beizzati😆Virat to pakhi, sai to virat, sai to chavans👏 no I don't enjoy virat doing sai ki beizzati , I hope this is it and he learns the truth soon enuf.

You know isme Pakhi didi ki zabardast beizzati ho rahi hai

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Well I know how people change their stance with facts. First when Sai was to marry her off, people told that she's not insane or have any illness, she's just PTSD patient. But now if they to prove that the point, they may use this point that she's insane so she doesn't understand.. I don't care!

Secondly, Kumu was more ill than Devi. She was ill for 30+ years still cared for Imon at that point and Devi was ill (oops sorry have PTSD) for 10 years...sigh..

You' re right. Bolded lines: People change facts

I will only focus on Pulkit. People say he got what he wanted and left Sai to her fate.

I don't agree. First of all, he asked her to stay with them until things got solved. He even reminded her of how dangerous the situation is, but Sai wants to go home and wouldn't have it any other way. He ask her to call him immediately she needs to. Secondly, she just got home and he and Devyani too just got home. He is doing her welcoming rasam. I am sure he will call the check on her immediately after. Let's give him a little time. I believe he knows Virat will never or let anyone harm Sai, and his presence there will only make things worst.

It's just my POV

Originally posted by: Roch

I think i mentioned it long back, this is not Virat v/s Sai and never was.

Its a clash of their thought process, she is challenging everything he has lived with. So i never said she is right and should not apologize.

But her actions may be out of impulse are not meant to hurt anyone, she did not hide things purposefully from him. Should she apologize yes, but did he give her a chance no.

What he did was also wrong, did not listen, in anger took a decision. The decision was to hurt her cause he was hurting now that's the difference.

Well should he apologize for what he has done? He should and he will.

Right now, his one reaction as ruled out her mistake. He feels betrayed agreed and he is right at his place. But she isn't wrong either.

I actually did not know what to say here, so chose to ignore it , but the since you have tagged me. I will just say that Virat deserves an apology for being put in the dark by Sai. He did not deserve to see his sister's marriage like that. However did he give her a chance to say Sorry? No, not all . She was not even allowed to put a foot inside. In the marriage hall the time was not to discuss that, Virat was absolutely possessed to get Pulkit jailed, without even proper evidences and while Sai came home, well we all know he was busy gloating that uske sr par chath nahi rahega ab. He was adamant on not letting her enter. He decided that , he doesnt care what she has to say and he is has decided her "ant", her end. Apology for a mistake is needed, but before you apologise, without listening to you if you are mistreated, you guilty side takes a back seat and you self respecting face takes the fore front and thats what happened to Sai. Not only she was insulted, she was called gold digger, selfish, after Virat's money, her mother was insulted. (She was insulted even today when very politely she said we will leave). Virat owed an apology but commanded disrespect.