Understanding Pallavi & Raghav in current situation

If we are analyzing Pallavi then we need to understand her situation.

She is orphan. She is widow. She thinks there is something wrong in Mandar's accident. Police is not helping her. Her in-laws always supported her but now angry and doubting her character. Her shop is at losses. Her baba is heart patient. Raghav is torturing her with 30 days challenge. People are fooling her with vinegar and baking soda.😆 People are kidnapping her.😆 Lion pichhe padaa hai. Jail bhi jaakar aayi. She loves her sister mansi but her wedding is at stake because of her. Asha hates her. People are tagging her with Raghav jisko baba nafrat karte hai. On top of that, this abortion drama.

Also, Raghav is 'torturing' her financially, mentally by cancelling orders, 15 days notice. Raghav is 'helping' her mentally, physically by fighting gundas, giving business knowledge, nursing her wounds.😆 She is not getting her equation with Raghav because of his weird behaviour. This guy wants to throw her out of Hyderabad but also helping her grow her business. Matlab, what is he doing?🤓

We need to understand that Mandar ke baad she is feeling/experiencing 'something' for Raghav which she never experienced with Mandar. Yes! Remember that under the table scene, her expressions says it all. Usske baba ussko na bolte phir bhi woh Raghav ke ghar jaaati thi.🤔 I think she likes him par usse pata nahi hai.🤓 That day she actually thaught that they can be friends. But he crushed her hope by saying "meri insaniyat ko meri dosti mat samazna." 🥺So, she is confused. She's not getting it.

She is in a mess I tell you.🤣

She tried to prove her innocence in this abortion drama. But Raghav messed up by declaring it in front of Rahul's family.😆 I think she knew about Amruta's abortion. She must have thaught abhi chhupaate hai. Shaadi ho jaane dete hai. Par aisa nahi hai ke Rahul ki family ko pata nahi chalta. Obviously gossip karne waale logo se pata chalta hi. But there is difference in gossip mongers and person with a proof. Agar Raghav proof leke nahi aata toh may be situation thodi alag hoti. And that's why she was angry.🤔

Abhi shaadi cancel na ho isliye socha chalo waise bhi log usse besharam vidhwa aurat samazte hai, asha ji pasand nahi karti, aai-baba are struggling in finding rishta for her, blood relation nahi hai so nobody will blame Mansi & Amruta, Amruta ki puri life padi hai, Mansi truly loves Rahul, Samaaj ko lagta hai ke ussne abortion kiya... So she accepted that blame.🤓

Is she 'mahaan'? Maybe.

Is she 'dumb'? No!

She is just weak in current situation.

Why is she living with such people? Well she wants it. She thinks it's her family. And that is enough for her. We are fortunate that aisa humaari life me nahi hua hai. But I have seen such scenario in real life too. And no, people don't leave their parents for some misunderstanding. Not everyone!

But she forgot about Raghav Rao and his reputation.😛 I mean main bhi ek ladka hu aur humaari bhi izzat, abru hai bhai!🤣 So I'll blame her here. Ussne Raghav ke baare me, usske amma ke baare nahi socha. May be jab woh shaanti se baad me sochti toh usse samaz aata.Tab woh amma ko sach bataati?! 🤔Woh karti... Remember she is mahaan?! So I will give her some time.

By the way, where is amma? I mean isn't this abortion ka khulaasa for his amma?😆 I mean Raghav called everyone including asha but not his amma? Prove kisko karana hai?🤣 I don't know I felt it's not for his amma. And about his reputation, I think he hardly cares!😆 I may be wrong. Also, people still thinks it's Pallavi who aborted Raghav's baby. He is not gonna disclose Amruta's truth in society. No, he is not Sulochana.

Yeh ladka ek number ka chaalu hai.😆 I'm telling you he did this only for Pallavi.😲 His "usski ankhon me mujhe disgust dikha" says it all. And fun fact is ussko pata bhi nahi hai ke ussne kiske liye kiya. Bhram me hai ladka!😆🤣

So, Pallavi is wrong - ussne Raghav, usski reputation aur family ke baare me nahi socha.

Raghav is wrong - ussne Pallavi ki sister Mansi ke baare me, usske wedding ke baare me nahi socha.

I think CVs came up with this abortion drama for Sharda to understand Raghav. I may be wrong.🤔 But she may think Raghav hates her but he still cared about her reputation.

There will be more MUs and I'm ok with it because I truly believe, jitni zyaada nafrat, utni zyaada mohabbat!❤️

Aur karo zagda, jab regret karoge tab maza aayega! It will be very very intense love story.❤️

Let's see shaadi tak aur kyaa kyaa hota hai!

Thanks for this wonderful write up. Good to see it from a guy's perspective.

I agree that when they do fall in love it will be intense, and I want to see the fire on both sides and the quirky things they'll both do to hide and express their love.

Yes i think both have theur faults. I think the hate directed toward pallu is coming mainly from shitty writing.. because as females we want to break away from the abla naati females constantly portrayed on ITv. Hopefully the writers do better. But i def see where pallavi is coming from personally. I still like her.

Nice analysis!!! I never thought that i will add my two cents to this but I really want to after this to the point analysis!!

Both are very lonely from inside! Raghav is longing for his family and trying to forget his past and his loss (he mentioned that he lost his brother and father because of some girl!).This might be the reason he hates the girls.In real life too one bad experience turn the world upside down.

And raghav’s loss is huge where he lost smile on his own face,lost his sister and amma as well that too because of a girl.so he has protected himself with bad boy shield which he is not as we have already seen.

After such incidents we usually hesitate to take initiatives specially when it comes to love and try to protect ourselves from getting hurt again and try to hide good side/intentions!

Same is the case with pallavi.she too scared to marry again because she has fear that she may face the same fate again.so she has accepted mandar’s family as her own and has protected herself with this family shield and do not want to leave them.also she feels responsible towards the family after mandar left!

But after meeting raghav,one thing is for sure that her relationship with mandar was not that deep. As mansi mentioned in initial episodes there was no physical intimacy between them as they never were together and met each other on wedding day!

Many people accused that mansi mentioned about pallavi”tu suhaagraat se pehele hi unki vidhwa ban gayee” was the sentence which is hinting her verginity. But it was not about verginity but the fact about any relationship which she is not aware and thats what she has been experiencing recently.

Relationship is not about just having s**.but the perfect blend of physical intimacy with emotional intimacy..

She is more inclined towards raghav after the accident scene where she experienced her very first physical closeness of her life with raghav.

And after that she never hesitated going 2 steps closer to him!! Which she had earlier. Now she has started expecting from Raghav now!! Because she now wants that care,that someone who will jhelofy her tantrums/her nakhra/who will manaofy her!!

Even during saree competition scene (with abhijit )at raghav house she was expecting that raghav will drop her or atleast offer a car and driver to home which he did during holi scene ,but he didn’t and she was extremely disappointed! they both want other to listen to them care for them!!

Raghav feels she is different and not like other girls .that trust in relationships,loyalty,genuine love which pallavi can offer him and pallavi needs care,love ,and want to get her expectations fullfilled,also physical closeness (which she is not aware of) which raghav can give!!

So in short this will happen only after marriage 🥰

After marriage she will know the real raghav and also raghav will throw away his shild.

Akhir mil jaye aur ho jaye ek duje ke sang...........

Originally posted by: -RoadsideRomeo-

If we are analyzing Pallavi then we need to understand her situation.

She is orphan. She is widow. She thinks there is something wrong in Mandar's accident. Police is not helping her. Her in-laws always supported her but now angry and doubting her character. Her shop is at losses. Her baba is heart patient. Raghav is torturing her with 30 days challenge. People are fooling her with vinegar and baking soda.😆 People are kidnapping her.😆 Lion pichhe padaa hai. Jail bhi jaakar aayi. She loves her sister mansi but her wedding is at stake because of her. Asha hates her. People are tagging her with Raghav jisko baba nafrat karte hai. On top of that, this abortion drama.

Also, Raghav is 'torturing' her financially, mentally by cancelling orders, 15 days notice. Raghav is 'helping' her mentally, physically by fighting gundas, giving business knowledge, nursing her wounds.😆 She is not getting her equation with Raghav because of his weird behaviour. This guy wants to throw her out of Hyderabad but also helping her grow her business. Matlab, what is he doing?🤓

We need to understand that Mandar ke baad she is feeling/experiencing 'something' for Raghav which she never experienced with Mandar. Yes! Remember that under the table scene, her expressions says it all. Usske baba ussko na bolte phir bhi woh Raghav ke ghar jaaati thi.🤔 I think she likes him par usse pata nahi hai.🤓 That day she actually thaught that they can be friends. But he crushed her hope by saying "meri insaniyat ko meri dosti mat samazna." 🥺So, she is confused. She's not getting it.

She is in a mess I tell you.🤣

She tried to prove her innocence in this abortion drama. But Raghav messed up by declaring it in front of Rahul's family.😆 I think she knew about Amruta's abortion. She must have thaught abhi chhupaate hai. Shaadi ho jaane dete hai. Par aisa nahi hai ke Rahul ki family ko pata nahi chalta. Obviously gossip karne waale logo se pata chalta hi. But there is difference in gossip mongers and person with a proof. Agar Raghav proof leke nahi aata toh may be situation thodi alag hoti. And that's why she was angry.🤔

Abhi shaadi cancel na ho isliye socha chalo waise bhi log usse besharam vidhwa aurat samazte hai, asha ji pasand nahi karti, aai-baba are struggling in finding rishta for her, blood relation nahi hai so nobody will blame Mansi & Amruta, Amruta ki puri life padi hai, Mansi truly loves Rahul, Samaaj ko lagta hai ke ussne abortion kiya... So she accepted that blame.🤓

Is she 'mahaan'? Maybe.

Is she 'dumb'? No!

She is just weak in current situation.

Why is she living with such people? Well she wants it. She thinks it's her family. And that is enough for her. We are fortunate that aisa humaari life me nahi hua hai. But I have seen such scenario in real life too. And no, people don't leave their parents for some misunderstanding. Not everyone!

But she forgot about Raghav Rao and his reputation.😛 I mean main bhi ek ladka hu aur humaari bhi izzat, abru hai bhai!🤣 So I'll blame her here. Ussne Raghav ke baare me, usske amma ke baare nahi socha. May be jab woh shaanti se baad me sochti toh usse samaz aata.Tab woh amma ko sach bataati?! 🤔Woh karti... Remember she is mahaan?! So I will give her some time.

By the way, where is amma? I mean isn't this abortion ka khulaasa for his amma?😆 I mean Raghav called everyone including asha but not his amma? Prove kisko karana hai?🤣 I don't know I felt it's not for his amma. And about his reputation, I think he hardly cares!😆 I may be wrong. Also, people still thinks it's Pallavi who aborted Raghav's baby. He is not gonna disclose Amruta's truth in society. No, he is not Sulochana.

Yeh ladka ek number ka chaalu hai.😆 I'm telling you he did this only for Pallavi.😲 His "usski ankhon me mujhe disgust dikha" says it all. And fun fact is ussko pata bhi nahi hai ke ussne kiske liye kiya. Bhram me hai ladka!😆🤣

So, Pallavi is wrong - ussne Raghav, usski reputation aur family ke baare me nahi socha.

Raghav is wrong - ussne Pallavi ki sister Mansi ke baare me, usske wedding ke baare me nahi socha.

I think CVs came up with this abortion drama for Sharda to understand Raghav. I may be wrong.🤔 But she may think Raghav hates her but he still cared about her reputation.

There will be more MUs and I'm ok with it because I truly believe, jitni zyaada nafrat, utni zyaada mohabbat!❤️

Aur karo zagda, jab regret karoge tab maza aayega! It will be very very intense love story.❤️

Let's see shaadi tak aur kyaa kyaa hota hai!

Put in a lot of thought.

Good write up. I hope CVs to have a monologue of Pallavi regarding this fiasco or an open discussion with someone close to her like Krishna or Manasi so that we can know why she is willing to be close to Mandar's family over her brothers family and also why she don't want Raghav to come up with his truth proving track and what she thinks of Raghav etc.

Originally posted by: xxMATSxx

Yes i think both have theur faults. I think the hate directed toward pallu is coming mainly from shitty writing.. because as females we want to break away from the abla naati females constantly portrayed on ITv. Hopefully the writers do better. But i def see where pallavi is coming from personally. I still like her.

Thanks. I understand that.👍🏼

Originally posted by: dhara88

Nice analysis!!! I never thought that i will add my two cents to this but I really want to after this to the point analysis!!

Both are very lonely from inside! Raghav is longing for his family and trying to forget his past and his loss (he mentioned that he lost his brother and father because of some girl!).This might be the reason he hates the girls.In real life too one bad experience turn the world upside down.

And raghav’s loss is huge where he lost smile on his own face,lost his sister and amma as well that too because of a girl.so he has protected himself with bad boy shield which he is not as we have already seen.

After such incidents we usually hesitate to take initiatives specially when it comes to love and try to protect ourselves from getting hurt again and try to hide good side/intentions!

Same is the case with pallavi.she too scared to marry again because she has fear that she may face the same fate again.so she has accepted mandar’s family as her own and has protected herself with this family shield and do not want to leave them.also she feels responsible towards the family after mandar left!

But after meeting raghav,one thing is for sure that her relationship with mandar was not that deep. As mansi mentioned in initial episodes there was no physical intimacy between them as they never were together and met each other on wedding day!

Many people accused that mansi mentioned about pallavi”tu suhaagraat se pehele hi unki vidhwa ban gayee” was the sentence which is hinting her verginity. But it was not about verginity but the fact about any relationship which she is not aware and thats what she has been experiencing recently.

Relationship is not about just having s**.but the perfect blend of physical intimacy with emotional intimacy..

She is more inclined towards raghav after the accident scene where she experienced her very first physical closeness of her life with raghav.

And after that she never hesitated going 2 steps closer to him!! Which she had earlier. Now she has started expecting from Raghav now!! Because she now wants that care,that someone who will jhelofy her tantrums/her nakhra/who will manaofy her!!

Even during saree competition scene (with abhijit )at raghav house she was expecting that raghav will drop her or atleast offer a car and driver to home which he did during holi scene ,but he didn’t and she was extremely disappointed! they both want other to listen to them care for them!!

Raghav feels she is different and not like other girls .that trust in relationships,loyalty,genuine love which pallavi can offer him and pallavi needs care,love ,and want to get her expectations fullfilled,also physical closeness (which she is not aware of) which raghav can give!!

So in short this will happen only after marriage 🥰

After marriage she will know the real raghav and also raghav will throw away his shild.

Akhir mil jaye aur ho jaye ek duje ke sang...........

Thanks for commenting. Totally agree with you.