Kismat ka Likha - Page 18

Originally posted by: water_83

Agreed right now woh relax hai because imlie pass bhi hai aur uske ghar bhi ...but I want to see itna hi patience when he will know pari's marriage proposal to his beloved wifey.

Delhi mein bomb blast karwana hain kya? 😆 No place on earth will be safe for Pari if Aditya finds out about the proposal. He might as well move to Mars. 🤣

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

I can only imagine how layered and rare the story would be if the writers went the route of Aditya realizing not that Malini is a bad person but just that with or without his feelings for Imlie, him and Malini are just not compatible for marriage...hence the break up need to happen. As of now, the audience can clearly see Adi-Malini are not compatible. The only reason they lasted for 7 years is because Aditya was busy with his career, paying minimal attention to his relationship and Malini was ignoring all the glaring signs and living in her lala land. But now they should not/can not ignore the elephant in their relationship - no compatibility or understanding. Aditya's one of the biggest flaws is his anger and Malini after 7 years has no idea how to calm him down. And Aditya misunderstands Malini's deep emotional dependency on him as love. He has no idea how messed up her mind is and how it really works.

As of right now, the story is that Aditya realized he loves Imlie, realized that he never was in love with Malini and that she was a replacement for Nishanth in his life, and that he wants to get out of the marriage with Malini. But this is just the step 1 of untangling the mess he has gotten himself into. It is like he wants to go from step 1 to step 100 and skip all the steps in between. If only life was so easy as Aditya thinks it will be. 😆

I do not think the writers will take the route of Adi realizing his relationship issues with Malini. As of right now, he does not see 1 flaw in her. He does not see the Malini that we are seeing. Heck even the audience here in the forum have had deep discussions about Malini's character and there have been so many different POVs about her. 😆 But keeping aside Malini's personality, because no one is perfect, the problem is inherently in their relationship. Malini with all her flaws can have a happy ending with a guy who is happy to invest his time in the relationship, Aditya is just not that guy for her. As Aditya interacts more with Imlie like a husband, lover, partner, it will be interesting to see if he can compare both his relationships and see why Malini is not right for him and Imlie is, keeping aside his feelings for Imlie. Only if he realizes this can he help Imlie see it too.

Aditya has a longggggggggggggggg way to go before he untangles the mess he has created. No way is IMlie going to go with him in telling the truth to everyone right now. I found it kind of funny how he was all set to tell his family yesterday. I am like Aditya beta do you realize the mess you have created. Do you think Malini will just walk out or your family members will bring aarti tray? 😆First of all Imlie needs to know the depth of his love for her. Just few months ago he was aaraam se romancing Malini in front of her. Dhindora pith raha tha ki he belongs to Malini only. 😆 Imlie needs to know what the heck was he doing for 7 years if overnight he is able to let go of this relationship and move on. Why is it so easy for him to let Malini go, they have so much history together. And what is the guarantee he will not do the same with Imlie. Again, we have the answers to all these questions, can probably write a book about it but Aditya-Imli don't have the answers to all this.😆 We all know that most of what Aditya did with Malini after forced marriage was out of guilt. Heck he even married her because he felt guilty and angry. But Imlie does not know all this. I think even Aditya does not know the reasoning behind half of his own actions.😆 And Aditya can communicate this with Imlie only if he realizes that his actions have deep consequences. And Imlie too needs to learn the depth of her own feelings for Aditya. They love each other, no doubt about it, and they have a beautiful relationship. But still there need to be a lot more realizations for them and conversations about those realizations before the truth is revealed.

Writers have created such a fantastic story here. I really hope they do not mess up their own work.

@bold: Agree with these points in particular.

Re: the variety of opinions on Malini....a lot of it feels like projection to me in some ways😆....cuz if anyone was evaluating her on the basis of her behavior, there is only one logical conclusion to draw rather than making excuses for her twisted behavior.

I absolutely agree that no one is perfect and heck, I never asked for Malini to be perfect either😆. I very much said this same thing a couple of pages back....Malini needs someone who can manage her emotional dependency and Adi is not even REMOTELY that guy.....lol the fact that neither of them realized this as they dragged this relationship on for 7 years is really amazing. Adi's basic personality has been one of emotional detachment in all that time....but Malini seemed to have no clue that he wasn't really understanding her emotional insecurities properly as they both stayed in their bubbles and did bare minimum socializing for their relationship.

Malini chhodo, Adi barely gave his own family that kind of investment.....and I feel he loves his family more than Malini....even then, he couldn't be bothered to push himself out of his comfort zone for them also😆.....cuz he never got understanding from anyone else in his life before. That is why what he shares with Imlie has pulled out a whole other Adi out of him who will go to extreme lengths to invest his emotions, his time, his everything into a person and a relationship. It's not like Imlie changed him into someone else....she basically unlocked the potential inside him to express the love he is capable of....it never found its home before Imlie, that is why no one ever saw this in him before.

Malini can absolutely have a good relationship with any regular guy who can fulfill her emotional dependency needs.....she's made a mistake in attaching herself to a guy who was so detached.....maybe because she also only picked him based on surface things - his looks, him showing her basic chivalry/sincerity....but he could never really give her that emotional assurance even in 7 years....still she carried on cuz it got convenient for her too. That's the part that needs to be exposed in the long run....the fundamental failure of their relationship from both sides....but again, dunno if the writers will manage to do that cuz they insist on trying to only paint her as a gullible victim to Adi/Imlie.

So yes, the journey can be long and interesting if the writers want to take care to unfold every layer of this complicated/convoluted set of dynamics. The way the story has gone so far, Malini's failures also need to be addressed in the larger scheme of things or it would be a cop out......hopefully they will address it at some point as Adi also gradually starts to compare the compatibility issues more directly....they have so far been tiptoeing around how perfect Imlie actually is for Adi as compared to the perception everyone has that Malini is the ideal partner for him😆.....toh pehle Adi himself needs to realize why it is so and how his relationship with Malini was always doomed....and then yes, he does need to explain it to Imlie too. Not everyone is about the 0 to 100 approach like him😆.

Edit wrong thread sorry

Oh sorry AY you read my comment already.😆

Yeah basically wanted to say I’m scared of making Didi related comments.🤣 Kya pata show mein Didi ko mahaan Devi na banaa de based on criticisms lol

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Oh sorry AY you read my comment already.😆

Yeah basically wanted to say I’m scared of making Didi related comments.🤣 Kya pata show mein Didi ko mahaan Devi na banaa de based on criticisms lol

LOL yep you were too slow to edit....pakdi gayi😛😆

Arey itna bhi kya khauff Didi ka😆....Writers ne jo karna hoga, wohi karenge....but my funda in general is to avoid wasting energy on Didi and focus on the good Adi-Imlie scenes we get😆....that's why I try to focus my threads on them only😛.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I think that is probably the long term goal....but I don't think any of this will be achieved unless he feels that sense of assurance that he has her in his life for good.....until he feels this sense of uncertainty about being able to give Imlie her due place in his life, he will oscillate between trying to become that more calm/patient person and the volcano that bursts out in restlessness without Imlie to anchor him.

Imlie makes him want to connect to life, his own family....Imlie ke bina he is basically lost now....but I don't think even Imlie realizes to what extent😆....it will probably overwhelm her to think of that. Heck yes imlie doesn’t have ittu sa bhi ideas about the magnitude.. I mean yeh jhalli toh abhi bhi isi khayal main hai ke iske bina reh paayega adi.. given how she was under that delusion hi ke waapis jaa kar khush hi gaya mujhe bhool gaya hoga and life will be all good for him.. and abhi bhinshe came back and heard him say too ke he can't function without her but she still isn't taking it as seriously and takes it as hmm jeh dia in the flow while for him it is very much his reality and koi kehne ko nahi kehta hahah

Word on him never bothering with his camera inside his own house until Imlie made him want to photograph those moments.....his life, his home, his family....nothing had charm before Imlie....that's his ultimate truth now. In his own words apne khud ke ghar main reh nahi paate hum.. imlie se pehle it was easy he would come home to eat and sleep mostly but ab iska ghar se bahar mann bhi nahi lagta and he is mostly here only . Also ab adi is discovering apne hi ghar ke aur hisse if you notice 😆 warna it was adi and his room mostly haha

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Heck yes imlie doesn’t have ittu sa bhi ideas about the magnitude.. I mean yeh jhalli toh abhi bhi isi khayal main hai ke iske bina reh paayega adi.. given how she was under that delusion hi ke waapis jaa kar khush hi gaya mujhe bhool gaya hoga and life will be all good for him.. and abhi bhinshe came back and heard him say too ke he can't function without her but she still isn't taking it as seriously and takes it as hmm jeh dia in the flow while for him it is very much his reality and koi kehne ko nahi kehta hahah

In his own words apne khud ke ghar main reh nahi paate hum.. imlie se pehle it was easy he would come home to eat and sleep mostly but ab iska ghar se bahar mann bhi nahi lagta and he is mostly here only . Also ab adi is discovering apne hi ghar ke aur hisse if you notice warna it was adi and his room mostly haha

Haha so true....apne hi ghar mein isko khud ke kamre se aage duniya nahin dikhti thi😆.....aur ab he's looking at everything with new eyes....khud ko, apne ghar ko, duniya ko, zindagi ko....Imlie has opened his eyes to all that was around him that he just wasn't interested in before her.....and it's like now he wants to discover everything with her....cuz woh hi jaan daalti hai har cheez mein iske liye😆.

LOL Imlie doesn't dwell on his grand declarations as much I think for her own sanity😆....bechaari sochne baithegi toh dimaag chakra jaayega....and she likes to keep things simple na😆....uske liye itna kaafi hai that she can see he now cares for her😆.....woh sochna bhi nahin chahti that he can be this attached to her ki woh jee na paaye uske bina😆....cuz for her own sanity, she needs to believe na ki woh Malini ka hai....lol....yeh sab sochne baithegi toh phir woh point will be proven wrong😆. She will also get a zor ka jhatka about this at some point as she realizes that he means it when he says he can't survive without her now.

Waise as I was updating the pic gallery abhi, I was struck by this thought again ki much as he complains and grinds his teeth in frustration ki Imlie uski baat nahin maan rahi😆, this very quality of hers to withstand him, withstand his entreaties, withstand his emotional atyachaar😆, withstand his daant, withstand his gussa....withstand all the TEJ of this "Suraj" as she calls him😆.....and still stick to her own stance ekdum like a rock in many ways.......that is exactly why he's so madly in love with her😆.....the strength of her convictions even if they are against what he wants😆. He can fight with her over it but doesn't mean it isn't the basic cause of his attraction towards her too....he is utterly fascinated by this core quality of hers.....it's not even like she's trying to deliberately challenge him all the time....she literally just sticks to her convictions, that's all😆....aur itne mein hi Babusahib ghaayal😆.

ROFL I was just revisiting this scene since they talked about it in this epi.....

I'd forgotten ki it was Malini's call that had distracted Adi when he banged that scooty into Imlie ka rickshaw😆.....and phir Didi ka phone seedha jaakar gira GOBAR mein 🤭🤣

God, sometimes I forget ki shaadi se pehle bhi kitna pakaati thi Malini with her 100 phone calls a day to him *cringe*😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha so true....apne hi ghar mein isko khud ke kamre se aage duniya nahin dikhti thi😆.....aur ab he's looking at everything with new eyes....khud ko, apne ghar ko, duniya ko, zindagi ko....Imlie has opened his eyes to all that was around him that he just wasn't interested in before her.....and it's like now he wants to discover everything with her....cuz woh hi jaan daalti hai har cheez mein iske liye😆.

LOL Imlie doesn't dwell on his grand declarations as much I think for her own sanity😆....bechaari sochne baithegi toh dimaag chakra jaayega....and she likes to keep things simple na😆....uske liye itna kaafi hai that she can see he now cares for her😆.....woh sochna bhi nahin chahti that he can be this attached to her ki woh jee na paaye uske bina😆....cuz for her own sanity, she needs to believe na ki woh Malini ka hai....lol....yeh sab sochne baithegi toh phir woh point will be proven wrong😆. She will also get a zor ka jhatka about this at some point as she realizes that he means it when he says he can't survive without her now.

Waise as I was updating the pic gallery abhi,I was struck by this thought again ki much as he complains and grinds his teeth in frustration ki Imlie uski baat nahin maan rahi😆, this very quality of hers to withstand him, withstand his entreaties, withstand his emotional atyachaar😆, withstand his daant, withstand his gussa....withstand all the TEJ of this "Suraj" as she calls him😆.....and still stick to her own stance ekdum like a rock in many ways.......that is exactly why he's so madly in love with her😆.....the strength of her convictions even if they are against what he wants😆. He can fight with her over it but doesn't mean it isn't the basic cause of his attraction towards her too....he is utterly fascinated by this core quality of hers.....it's not even like she's trying to deliberately challenge him all the time....she literally just sticks to her convictions, that's all😆....aur itne mein hi Babusahib ghaayal😆.

Exactly 👏 woh challenge karti bhi mahi as such and he feels challenged 😆 ya nahi bhi toh isko bhi toh raub jhadne main maza aata hai ke yeh bhi aise nakhre sirf imlie ko hi dikha sakta hai zid kar sakta hai 😆 bacha ban sakta hai. Nobody else indulges him she does uthaoes his naaz and takes his tantrums.. and then bickers back with equal enthusiasm and fun banter .. we all need that one person jiske saamne apne saare moods dikha denge without thinking of how the other will take it kabhi aise hi pointlessly just caz kuch acha nahi lag raha adi gets to do all that with imlie .. and he enjoys that.. baat wohi hai ke aap ussi ko dikhao ge yeh sab jo aapko dikhayega ke woh aapke saath rahega toh phir adi kyon na feel kare woh pull and apnapan

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL I was just revisiting this scene since they talked about it in this epi.....

I'd forgotten ki it was Malini's call that had distracted Adi when he banged that scooty into Imlie ka rickshaw😆.....and phir Didi ka phone seedha jaakar gira GOBAR mein 🤭🤣

God, sometimes I forget ki shaadi se pehle bhi kitna pakaati thi Malini with her 100 phone calls a day to him *cringe*😆

Hahahah yes phone main ghussa hua tha adi🤣 so she was right when she said sadak pe bhi mahi thi aankhein 🤣 PD and adi ka phone na lagna bhi ek continues arc hai kabhi toot jaata hai kabhi he himself switches off kabhi network nahi aata🤣 hahaha at didi ka crazy behavior then too rofl.tab bhi OTT drama larke ghar se nikal rahi thi for PD and jaake adi ke ghar sab ko rulaya tha 🤣🤭