Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 14. - Page 27

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Guys, I am taking a break from the forums , won’t be as active as now.

Will drop by to read updates but won’t be as active as before. Next two weeks are super crucial for me. Will resume with full josh after ❤️

Thanks in advance for the updates siya and deepiku

Tussi jaa rahe ho temporarily😭

Theek hai, par aajana time pe pls,aur beech beech mein,plsssss, didi ki beizzati karenge saath mein😭

Pls comeback for hospital waale scenes at least 🤗

This is me. https://twitter.com/SarahBethSmoak/status/1380446432071589888?s=20

Originally posted by: Andy3456

This is me. https://twitter.com/SarahBethSmoak/status/1380446432071589888?s=20

We should have just re kidnapped caterpillar ,sach mein this would have not existed 🤣

Pehle kab aayega kar rahe the,ab kab jaayega kar rahe hai😆

Virat going full-Vanraj was...interesting.

To those saying that Sai should've waited until Virat's investigation, I totally disagree. The mistake was that Virat required an investigation in the first place off of absurdly flimsy information via absurdly transparent actors (until this point, he was happy to have Pulkit marry Devi). Everything that came after that was his fault for opening the can of worms.

From Sai's perspective, CN gang is clearly not above committing crimes to ruin Devi's happiness and railroading an innocent man, so waiting would either make this worse, or they'd never have this chance again. Sai clearly made the right move given the circumstances.

But again, all this started because Virat thinks a stupid anonymous letter warrants further investigation. Imagine anyone trying this - a family member is getting married, but others in the family don't want it to happen. So on cue, an anonymous untraceable letter shows up in the mailbox saying "X is bad...don't marry him/her". Which sane person would look into this at all?

Originally posted by: laksh

Hey, my comment was only a reply to the question. It is not a justification to Virat's actions or anger. I was only trying to show why the difference.

To be frank, even if I can understand why, his actions are not justified and I do not approve of his anger or his behaviour out of anger.

I just replied to your comment in your other post and found this notification.

Today he was not just angry, he was enraged. Whatever reasons he can have for his anger, not letting her in was not something I expected.

I thought that he wont turn her out of the house and here he has not even let her in.

Sai is wrong, that doesn't mean that she is treated like this. Where did his promise go now? Her Dad asked him to take care of her and this is how he does? He fought with himself as how to fulfil Kamal's promise, he broke the promise he had made to Pakhi by marrying Sai only to be able to take care of her. Then all those turmoil, that promise which is the reason for all this chaos, is broken for this? I don't even care whether he loves her or not, whether he wants to make her his wife or not, this is something that always runs in my mind. I just want him to fulfill his duty, his responsibility.

Yes, she went behind her back, I understand, but would he have done the same if Pakhi or anyone else had done? He called Sai his family, asked her to accept him as her family. Is this what one to do a family member? I am made to think if he ever considered her his family now.

Also, if he felt betrayed, can't he had asked for divorce after she returned home? Is that not what anyone would do when there is a really big issue between couples?

As much as I support him, I also know where all he went wrong and saw a few things coming. It is not because of KD or other versions, it is only because of Virat.

To tell you frankly, I have never felt a need for him to get married to her, never was for the proposal. Who sets such conditions? I felt that it was very unfair right that day. He knew her position and he himself said that if you can stop the marriage, wouldn't you have stopped it, why would you come to me asking me to stop it.

So he knew Sai had to succumb to circumstances and get married to him. How fair is it to marry such a young girl, who had just turned an orphan saying I can never become your husband and this is not an actual marriage, but an arrangement for me to fulfill my responsibility.

See, I keep both the characters separate and look and assess their actions. Just because she is or has been wrong, his misdeeds cannot be ignored or forgotten. I think the forum has to look at their actions independently sometimes. The very basic, fundamental things are going wrong. That has to be condemned.

One's mistake cannot be used as a defense to another's mistakes. He can grow angry, react, but not this.

About this family and his partial behavior, I think we need to have it as a separate discussion. I have never been happy. You have mistaken me. I only share my understanding of why he behaves that way, that's not a justification to his behavior.

Sorry 2 quote ur post .

Bold : It's actually sounding as he took advantage of her situation & put condition before her so that he can put her in love less relationship in short he plotted against her . Really ?

Was it fair for kamal sir to take promise from virat ? It's better it had taken from pawar or kale then sai would in better position as pawar was hid friend & kale was his close associate

Was virat dying to marry sai or finding a replacement for pakhi ?

I can also say sai Knowingly married virat that's why she accepted his condition coz she knew GC people r not ready to keep her with them , if not virat then they would have married here to some other person , to avoid such situations she agreed to virat .

If virat would had been married won't he would told he is married & he can't marry sai

If sai was in low phrase then even virat was also not in very good phrase he was guilty which increased after sai attempted suicide , after UM said sai has no one & after that virat realised sai can't be left alone .

If sai was not dying to marry virat then virat 2 was never dying to marry her .

Regarding his condition , what if he had not told sai about his feelings , same after marriage sai & her supporters would bash virat non-stop that virat cheated sai. He knew that time sai might start expecting husband things from him which be was not ready to give her that time coz he dint knew his feelings will change .

How could virat fulfill KJ promise ?

Regarding virat family dialogue .

Yes I agree virat is 100000000% wrong from all sides nor I m supporting his action of sai throwing out

Answer would sai has done same thing with KJ 2 ?

Would she dare to lie to him or betray him like she did 2 virat . Do she even consider virat as her family or even respect virat ?

Do sai consider virat as a person who should be informed before planning devkit elopement .

I should clear I m not asking these thing to cover up virat's crime

will not answer anything more beyond this. You know why? Because you haven't understood my points. You seem to have no clue what I think about Virat. This is an insult for me as a person who supports Virat, I am not going to explain myself anymore. After all the posts that I have made about Virat, someone is asking me this. Thanks.

U don't want to answer ur choice but I still clearing I dint meant to insult u as a person

Sorry if i sound to u like this.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Guys, I am taking a break from the forums , won’t be as active as now.

Will drop by to read updates but won’t be as active as before. Next two weeks are super crucial for me. Will resume with full josh after ❤️

Thanks in advance for the updates siya and deepiku

Even I am planning to take a break. Won't be active anymore. I hope I stick to my own words 🤣.

Will drop by to read updates but won’t be as active as before.

Thanks Deepiku and Siya in advance.

Bye guys.

Originally posted by: laksh

Even I am planning to take a break. Won't be active anymore. I hope I stick to my own words 🤣.

Will drop by to read updates but won’t be as active as before.

Thanks Deepiku and Siya in advance.

Bye guys.

Whyyyyyyyyyyyyy? Wait ,I'll PM you,you better reply 😭

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

will not answer anything more beyond this. You know why? Because you haven't understood my points. You seem to have no clue what I think about Virat. This is an insult for me as a person who supports Virat, I am not going to explain myself anymore. After all the posts that I have made about Virat, someone is asking me this. Thanks.

U don't want to answer ur choice but I still clearing I dint meant to insult u as a person

Sorry if i sound to u like this.

Please don't say sorry. My point was to tell that you are asking questions to a person who supports and defends Virat. Doesn't look like you are able to understand my understanding of Virat.

Just because I support Virat, the character, it doesn't mean that I will support every action of his.

I have pointed out Sai's mistakes, condemned her actions too, Sai's fans, who knows me do not doubt if I even know Sai or not. They only see that I am condemning her actions that are wrong.

And Sai's fans who don't know me, might ask me, but I would not encourage anyone to defend a character or a particular action of a character is wrong.

I won't defend Sai if she is wrong.

This also doesn't mean that if Virat is wrong in this one thing, I am going to find fault with all his past actions, NO.

I have been understanding him for a long time and whatever action I am bringing from the past, is the opinion that I had always carried. There has hardly been any opinion that I have about Virat, which I had to change because I had misunderstood him. He was a character who was crystal clear in many ways from the start. Whatever I have not liked about him, I have always been frank about it from the start. Same goes with Sai.

I was trying to find a reply I had give you in one of the threads recently, so took a while to reply to you. Please check the text below in blue font, if you want to understand what I meant when I spoke about, why Virat need not have married Sai. Even afted this, if you doubt that I am doubting Virat's intentions to marry Sai, I have nothing more to say.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Marriage is not a relationship which can be sacrificed this easily u r insulting d marriage & person u r married.

Didn't Virat insult marriage? Please, if I did not understand him well or if I do not look at his good qualities, you and me would be debating about Virat. I would have never supported him. I always believe in looking at good qualities to let go of a few flaws in people. He is a very good and nice person but the way he married Sai wasn't right.

And if you have questions as why Sai agreed to marry, I had already created a post on it, shared my views and everyone including you shared why and how she married him.

It was he who insulted marriage and I don't think I will ever be able to forget that move of his. I have mentioned below why I think that way.

As much as I like Virat, this is one thing that I can challenge him or question him. I don't doubt his intentions, I know he did with the best interest in his mind for Sai.

- - Virat made fun of marriage by setting those conditions.

- - If he wasn't in a position to get married to her, he could have told the villagers that he is committed to someone else. Let's assume he was in a relationship with Pakhi and she was not married to Samrat. What would have Virat done? Would he have still married Sai? Or would he have disclosed about his relationship to the villagers? Only because his commitment was in the form of promise to some girl, he came up with such an absurd and pathetic proposal.

I have mentioned time and again in my posts that he had long hurt Sai by making such proposal.

Sai insulting him in GC is completely different, it was wrong on her part, wasn't one bit right, but she had her reasons initially, but that cannot justify her behavior with him. But that was with a person who can put up a fight with her. Virat could have fought with her, insulted her in return, punished her, done anything.

The insult Virat did was a man (groom) insulting a woman (bride) by making such a proposal. And that woman who had lost her father just 2 or 3 days before, who was in her most vulnerable state. How much ever we think that he took her responsibility or did a favour on her or was generous, it actually isn't. She had all reasons to reject it and I have mentioned all the reasons why she couldnt in my post. Even if you are not convinced with Sai's decision, it was Virat who even made such a proposal in first place.

Put such ideas into her head that he had someone else in his life, kept telling that he can never be her husband, that she is only his responsibility, also giving an option of exit, leaving once she finishes her studies.

Let us not forget that, though it all worked in favour of Sai like we all think, it was in favour of Virat too. It was how he liked it.

His conditions were set as a solution to his problem.

Fulfill his promise to Kamal sir and take the responsibility of a girl.

At the same time fulfill the promise given to Pakhi by not falling into love with his wife.

Not giving the girl whom he is marrying the status of a wife.

And the most important part, get rid of the guilt of including someone in his life/keeping his promise made to Pakhi by giving the girl whom he proposed to marry, an option of deal, to walk out.

As I have said earlier, his good qualities and actions has made me ignore these. That doesn't mean he has and not been u mistakes.

If u ask pakhi sacrifice samrat she will do in flick of d moment .

If u ask virat to sacrifice his marriage or sai for some reason he will never sacrifice it coz he has respect for this relationship from day one thou he knew it's deal marriage

Which he himself didn't know until he started to live with Sai. Need for her in his life, changed him. If we look at this action as a generous act, there was no need because he had anyway promised to help her fulfill her dreams. He needed her in his life. He started fo become emotionally dependant on her. He loved her.

I don't deny he respects this relationship but it has also got to do with his need for Sai to be in his life. I am sorry, I am speaking this way, but it somewhere an ugly truth. I will be happy if you prove me wrong. I am not happy with myself to think this way. Until today, I have not let these thoughts surface. When Sai is questioned and challenged, like this, it is only fair to bring everything out. Why Sai is not able to do it, is something many are failing to see.

They have got married only for a few months and where is it written that this girl should fall for him? I agres with you that she should be more polite with him.

I know virat ne bhi bahut kuch galat kaha or kiya hai jo ki usse nhi karna chahiye tha vo bilkul galat tha lekin in compare 2 sai Virat had taken pain for this relationship even before he fell 4 sai .

Even in some other post recently, I had mentioned that Sairat is Sairat mainly because of Virat. Whatever be the reason, deal marriage or not, he is the reason where they are now. May be things would have been different if there was no deal marriage at all. But I do not want to assume and tell. I want to go only by what we have seen, the facts.

Sai ke easy isiliye hai coz she take virat for granted she is well aware virat always make amendments after every fight , virat will come after her , she understand virat very well .

You are mistaken. When has she expected that he run behind her like a puppy? Roothna manana chalta rehtha hai between people. Even between friends, in a budding relationship or a couple. She might not accept that she feels for him, but that is the way she takes liberty on him, she feels close to him.

DIG fight

After how he spoke to her that morning in front of Pakhi, she asked some valid questions. Their marriage was being questioned. He was questioned if he had forcefully marry Sai. Didn't Sai stand right there, listen to all that he had to share? Didn't she at the end ask him, why he couldn't share this with her? The reason she asked was mainly, because when she was looked at as a victim, it would and can only be her who can help him come out of this issue. And she did that too. She freed him from all the allegations right? Or did Pakhi do it?

Did she wait for Virat to plead her to accompany him to DIG office to speak on his favour?

DIG night at UM room

He hurt her and her self respect by saying that he wouldn't have been in this position if he had never gone to GC.

Don't ask me if only she has self respect. I am talking about their marriage. She also was hurt that he had felt that if he had not gone to GC, he wouldn't have got himself in a situation where he would have been forced to marry Sai. And that hurt her. If we all feel bad for Virat now and for the past few tracks, does it mean we should forget the pain that Sai had to go through?

It was him who married her to take her responsibility and he made her look like an unwanted person in his life.

So, is it wrong if she had refused to go to his room that night? Would you call her refusal as a plan to make Virat apologise to her?

In the room too, she only wanted to know if he was doing it for others or he himself wants her to stay back in the room. That is also mainly because she was hit by the reality that he considers the marriage to be a mistake.

The night Pakhi left to her parents place

When he was upset after he returned from work, did she not ask him if he too wants her to apoligise to Pakhi?

Did she not try to get his opinion about he issue? She kept trying to know if he considered her to be at fault for Pakhi to have left the house.

He fought with her and she was hurt and yet what did she do?

She was worried if he had his food or not. She then heard his conversation with Sunny over phone and understood how important was Pakhi in his life.

That same night, did she gain attention? Did she not keep thinking, that Virat was growing restless because Pakhi hasn't returned? She never cared about him? She not just cared for him, was so generous to accept his feelings for Pakhi too. She didn't want him to miss Pakhi, even though it was her assumption, can we discard such concern of her for Virat?

Was her cough or speaking politely to him a manipulation? How are you saying that she expects him to make amendments? Did she not ask him why Pakhi did not return? When he asked her if she was upset that he shouted at her, didn't shs say no?

The next day, she went to Pakhi's house and apologised to her, though she wasn't at fault. She convinced her to return only for Virat's sake. She didn't want him to feel restless. This same girl was actually jealous of Pakhi, felt a little possessive for Virat even without knowing why she felt that way.

The night she returned from Paakhi's house

That night when she asked him to hit her, it turned into a fight? Was it not nakhre? Was it not a cute fight or a banter? Was she expecting Virat to request her to not go to UM room? She left the pillows in the room, once they started to speak. He never apologised and there was no need for him to too. Didn't she even then ask about him and Pakhi subtly?

On the day of results

That night, she threw a tantrum. That was all wrong. She was upset with him or disappointed thinking he left to work because Pakhi asked him to. Was that a tantrum or making Virat plead her?

On the road when she got lost

She got worried, started to panic. Did she want him to make any amendments or was that just a complaint that she lost him? She was fighting with him and couldn't tolerate anyone accusing him and atlast shared who we was to the public.

Amay's first phone call

She was being disrespectful and fought with him without thinking how he would feel. She had lost it. But did she not call want to call him to ask him to have food as soon as he said, both couldn't eat together, atleast you eat?

The day Amay visited their house

The day after Amay's fight, if she had not acted childish or played or teased saying, okay now I won't talk to you, he wouldn't have got ruled up.

But she was upset with him for how he behaved. Wasn't he wrong? Doesn't he get easily influenced by his family? Doesn't he start to shout at her without knowing the entire truth?

Also, though she was upset, she actually was only playing that let her give him a silent treatment, it turned out ugly that's all.

You can even check their sbs segment of that episode where Neil and Ayesha tell that it was like a small tiff between couples, started as something silly and ended up to become serious.

If Virat had not grown angry looking at her remaining silent, it would have turned into a cute banter. He had an emotional outburst. He was going through a lot of emotions and couldn't express it. He needed a lot from.this relationship and it hurt him that it wasnt working the way it could be.

He started to develop feelings for her, had been suppressing his feelings for a long time, and one fine day, he expects that his feelings has to be reciprocated in some way? I understand his frustration, but his anger was not only because of her fights with his family, it was because the previous day morning she had said she will.move to hostel, that same day she flirts with someone for fake and he couldn't help but feel insecured.

His insecurity started to take over him and he started to fight. I do feel for him, but I am not sure how did Sai go wrong other than the fact that she had not withdrawn from arguments with his mad family and taking a stupid decision to handle Amay on her own.

Dance night/Aniket

That night, he got jealous and started to act crazy. She shouldn't have brought Pakhi into picture, but she asked it genuinely and not as a taunt. Did she not ask him about his food even though he grew angry on her? Did she not try to understand what was bothering him?

After he left the room shouting Pakhi Pakhi, did she not realise that she was wrong jn bringing up Pakhi?

The next day, did she expect him to reconcile with her? She had applied Alta for him though she had an allergy. As soon as she heard that it is for the good of him, she applied it for him. If she always expects him to make amendments and take him for granted, which girl who has an allergy, will apply Alta for a husband who yelled the name of his ex Pakhi Pakhi and left the room in anger? I am sorry, I don't think any of her acts are being visible. No one has to see her applying Alta, I only saw a girl who applied it for a guy who called his ex name and left the room.

The same ex, whom she saw was feeding him food on the night of Amay's incident.

The same ex who kept hurling insults at her when her husband kept looking on without stopping his friend.

The same girl who was humiliated by his ex in his presence.

Ladakh trip

After whatever happened the day the trip was cancelled, after how Sai was humiliated by Palhi, insulted by the family, what did Sai do? She was only studying and when he said sorry, she told him that she anyway didn't want to come. Was it to hide her disappointment ir hurt or you think even that was manipulation by Sai? If she wanted him to make amendments always, why would she confront him after he anyway apologised? The confrontation wasn't as a result of her hurt?

Why should only Sai's accusation on him be remembered, I hated her behavior that night, no doubt, for various reasons. But can we ignore the fact that Virat's stupidity and his mistake was the reason she got humiliated? His ex refusing to, by shouting, humiliating throwing tickets in the air because his wife was accompanying them? Even if he had fought there for Sai, he also started to act there too as if he was a victim. Mera gala kaat dena? Really? And why did he stop Aai or Sai from asking questions to Pakhi?

But no, anything happens Sai is the selfish, arrogant, wicked, ungrateful person who takes her husband Virat for granted. Sai had got such an easy life is what you said right?

And even after all this how can Sai not see what Virat is doing, isn't it? First let him correct his ex's behavior and not stop Sai or Aai from correcting his friend.

That night, after confrontation Sai was weeping in pain but that's not visible. She had insulted Virat, accused him to be having feelings for his friend.

The next day Virat took her tea, did she wait for him or make him get her tea by playing games? Even after that, did she not pour water on his hands, though that was stupid.

PD lunch day

Her packing the suitcase and leaving to her maayka was a joke? A drama? An attention seeking technique or she really planned to leave? I agree she shouldn't have spoken about his past in front of all and should have apologised but did Sai do a drama so that Virat comes and apologises to her and feed her? I am sorry, I am getting lost with what you are even claiming.

If I have missed any fight where Sai kept making Virat plead her, please let me know.

She has got virat easily she get his attention easily that's why she don't value him.

Please check the above. To, an audience it looks that way because the generous and kind Virat took her responsibility.

She never got him easily, ask Virat to live her life one day, he wouldn't survive it even for a day. It is only because of how strong she is that she is surviving his mad family, his moodswings (the reason she is unaware of), his friendship jaap, his so called friend who never leaves an opportunity to insult/taunt/put down Sai and most importanly the truth that he had loved Pakhi once and that same ex living with them.

Virat has got a wife easily who is tackling a mad family (in a right or wrong way) and who is also tolerating his ex who still shows her affection towards him and love (right in open). Though he has forgotten that it is a deal, he has got a wife whom he now loves, who had agreed to all his stupid conditions because of the circumstances she was in.

Every relationship be it any kind of deserve respect & respect is a 2 way road .

I agree, but sometimes one has to set the foundation right and things might keep going wrong how much ever we do along the way.

Only because she has no high opinion of him, she called uo DIG in the middle of the night or she told his Aai that I know he would never beat me?

Just because she has fought with him, acts disrespectfully or impolite, doesn't mean he hasn't done the same. In this 2 way road, both have failed. His feelings for her helped him in many ways. She was anyway stubborn, not used to live with anyone other than her Aaba, is impulsive and also egoistic many times. Her behavior only has fo change over a period of time. He is a person who easily gets influenced by his family and gets way too emotional even at times he is not supposed to.

I still remember how sadly virat said mein janta hoon meri tumhari zindagi mein koi kadar nhi hai I saw d sadness in him , saw how sai stood uneffected.

Unaffected? Just because she has a veil.on her face, doesn't mean it doesn't affect her. Also, the minute she starts to show it to him or melt,.it would also mean that she might give away her emotions which she doesn't want to. She feels like a 3rd person in her life. Doesn't want to get close to him and then realise that she is no one to him.

See, I have felt his pain, his yearning, all I am saying is that because he feels that way, let's not call her heartless.

Sai can't respect virat who gave d right to insult him.

Who gave Virat to insult Sai? Please check all the above said things. I haven't even listed out the insults he has actually hurled at her.

Sai owe her life to virat it is coz of virat she is breathing not coz of caterpillar Deshpande , she has time to open her mouth & tell truth to virat lekin phir devi ki shaadi kaise hogi caterpillar mar jayenge coz kasam jo toot jayegi

Who are we to say this? You are being extremely harsh on Sai.

Everyone donates blood to people who are in need of blood, they become indebted to them. But would it be right to say that she owes him her life? After you have said this, I only want Sai to owe him her life but not stay with him as his wife. I am sorry.

Even if Kamal did not follow orders, one cannot deny the fact that Kamal did save Virat's life. Kamal didn't take the bullet thinking he had made a mistake by not following Virat's orders, so let me take the bullet. He genuinely saved Virat, put of care. Even if he had followed Virat's orders and if Virat was about to get shot, Kamal would have still saved Virat's life. You too know it.

I agree she need not have got Devi Tai married like this and need not have listened to Pulkit. She made her mistake, let her face the consequences.

Yahi kaam virat pakhi ya phir kisse aur ladki ke liye kare to 1001% galat khelayega.

Will answer whenever this situation arises.

Sorry laksh

Have replied in green.

It was from the below thread.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5219313?pn=13#156484201

Been busy with course work but been reading all your comments and love them🥰

.. Whats next? Now that sai knows she is in trouble and finds out that the door has been locked although she was prepared for the worst like moving out to the hostel, .. do you think she will call the neighbours ? I would love to see that as Bhavani is afraid of what community would say .. sai will be like “ you worry about your reputation? Let me make you worry for real” 😂🤣 Sai has no way of getting her stuff like cloths, books? Will virat keep her stuff outside and lock the doors or will he open the door and chuck all of it at her? Where is Maushi? Isnt she supposed to be with her? Is she locked in?

Virat has made sure everyone is on lockdown like Sai is the covid 19 virus on its way to spread 🤣😂

Virat is clever but the producers have made him the most dumbest police officer i have ever come across.. just like Rono🤣 .. but his acting skills are much better than Rono for that I commend him 👏👏🙌🏽 Well To act stupid you need to be clever😂..

More questions than answers am getting 🙄