Originally posted by: laksh
Your guess is right. He considers her to be close. It is not because she is his wife, he feels he can be himself with her. This is the Virat, one who need not be controlling his emotions, need not act conditioned. He always act in a particular way with his family, has been conditioned to act that way. He know how Sai is, bindaas. How she just speaks her mind and is not worried what someone would think. He knows she wouldn't judge him.
Also, her actions always upsets him. He has faith that she wouldn't do anything wrong. And if she proves him wrong, basically proves his belief wrong, he gets very upset.
He vouched to his family that she wouldn't have gone against his word but she has gone against him.
He doesn't want her to go wrong and doesn't want her to get insulted by anyone due to her wrong moves. But this time, he is feeling betrayed. His emotions are also overpowering him.
See Lakshmi I understand both of your points here about Virat unleashing his side when it comes to Sai. But for me as a woman that is problematic. When you have controlled all your emotions towards one part of your family, it all needs to come out and will come out for one person in abundance, be it love or anger. To be loved and then to be treated in anger in that way with so much extremity is something that I find problematic. Just for instance thinking on the precap,
Being a police officer, Virat very well knows how much threat is posed on a woman who is at the streets at night. Forget about an angry husband , is he being a responsible officer, whose duty is to protect the city , by letting out a woman of the house to fetch for herself, knowing very well that she is not well versed with the city. Even if she is, is it responsible of him to let that happen? That's plain inhuman. For me this is where he fails as an officer, this is where they butcher his character where he was to chose farz over jazbaat always. Jazbaat always wins over Farz when it comes to sai and family. His dialogues chut de rakhiye , ab dekhiye main kya karta hun are disappointing if I look at it from a woman's perspective, he is being a chauvinist there. But him letting the lady of his house out in the is his failure as a dutiful officer. He failed today many times as a police officer , not as a brother or husband for me.
They are life partners, they would fight, at times fight where they would reach at the brink of losing it all. Is he going to behave everytime this way, whenever he loses his sh*t. Takes me to Sai's dialogues, aap kuch aur , aapka gussa aapka asli roop dikhata hai? I wanted to contemplate on that .. does his anger really brings out the real him that is extremely dangerous and scary?
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