Originally posted by: ltelidevara
Actors learn to cope up with all these discomforts caused by obsessive fans . Stardom comes with a price and aspiring stars are ok to pay the price willingly. The price includes attacks on personal preferences,alliances,choice of life partners,so on and so forth.
Fans live in dream land and get very possessive with their chosen favourites. They won’t compromise a bit. I am not talking about our forum fandom which is far better with good understanding of these things. Same can not be said about teenagers and even others who are highly active on Twitter or Instagram. They just intrude and interfere in everything the stars do. No one can control them ever. The number is so huge that it becomes highly impossible to restrict them or teach them in any way.
I disagree with those who say that an actor star like Neil Bhatt would chose to leave the show if the same things continue. He won’t. He knew how big a success Ghum is ,in his career . The show made him universally desirable for all age groups. Mothers love to have a son like him, father’s also,girls dream about him, sisters want a brother like him.. I am sure he understood this fact. If there are fans who abuse him for being with Aish he has more of them who worship him and love him for his performance.
If he chose to leave this kind of success abruptly to please his partner ,he will lose the good will of the channel and producers. People will hesitate to take him in their shows in future because if he teams up with another heroine and again scores the tag of being a hit pair,the same situation he has to handle.
Any one who marries a star should get prepared to receive fame and abuse side by side. There are no two ways about it. Otherwise that particular someone should not think of marrying a star . This applies to Bolly wood and TV both.
I see many fans who still wish to see SRKajol together in real life. The craze for this pair continued through generations. Gauri handled it with dignity and SRKajol remained good friends till now.
So leaving the show would never be an option for stars. It won’t be an option for Neil also. I am sure things fell in place with channel’s initiative.
I hope that certain some one chose to ignore hate messages and enjoy the precious moments of life that god has gifted her. I know it is difficult for her since she has to witness FL have the cosy romantic angle with her roka partner . Unfortunately her yoga track failed to click with viewers who refused to identify them as lovers even. On top of it she landed up,being vahni to her yoga love.
So whoever thinks fans should behave and be good, they should realise that it won’t happen. No one can control the words of fandom.( not our forum).