how is virat getting devkit married different from sai ? - Page 2

For a moment let's forget everything and think this way.... What if virat and sai both trust pulkit... But as shown in serial after some days , due to some proofs sai is against pulkit and virat is in favour of pulkit.... Do you think will virat do the same as sai is doing, making Devi married to pulkit without sai's knowledge, I don't think so, if he did then even he is wrong.... Because according to me ,leave Kaku gang, both virat and sai love Devi equally and care for her happiness equally and virat is not against Devi's happiness, he is only surrounded by misunderstandings which can be cleared if she tries because even he is ready to reinvestigate.... When someone is all along with you in the situation and standing by you, doing something big without his knowledge is so wrong...and as laksh mentioned virat have resources and can handle the situation lot more better than sai... Proof for that is document from college it self... Both virat and sai got to see same documents but virat clicked the picture of it where as sai don't... I am not blaming sai here but thats the difference, virat's experience would have helped to solve the situation alot better. We can't deny sai can shut Kaku gang but that will be only for some time but virat have the capacity to shut them completely ,we can say due to his post or being their son, what ever the reason he can protect Devi and pulkit alot more better than sai from Kaku gang. even though I hate pulkit for not trying himself and hiding himself behind the shield, It would have been better for everyone including sai, Devi and himself if that shield is virat other than sai.... I won't deny sai is strong enough to handle Kaku mandli.... But as virat said " sai Mei dhum bahuth hai but sambalthi Kam hai" again due to her age, experience and nature of putting herself in danger without thinking about repurcurrisons....

Raji,

I agree with what others are saying . If Devi was normal then helping her elope would be ok as it’s Devi’s decision but in this case Devi is not mentally stable and she is deciding on behalf of Devi . She is not her legal guardian so she can land in trouble for helping a mentally unstable girl elope and getting her married in that state . The difference between Sai and Virat is , Virat isn’t helping Devi elope . He was getting her married with families consent . Kaku and gang would have never objected to Virat’s decision hence they tried misleading him . Like many said if something went wrong he would have taken the responsibility of his sitar while Sai is not capable yet to do so .

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

For a moment let's forget everything and think this way.... What if virat and sai both trust pulkit... But as shown in serial after some days , due to some proofs sai is against pulkit and virat is in favour of pulkit.... Do you think will virat do the same as sai is doing, making Devi married to pulkit without sai's knowledge, I don't think so, if he did then even he is wrong.... Because according to me ,leave Kaku gang, both virat and sai love Devi equally and care for her happiness equally and virat is not against Devi's happiness, he is only surrounded by misunderstandings which can be cleared if she tries because even he is ready to reinvestigate.... When someone is all along with you in the situation and standing by you, doing something big without his knowledge is so wrong...and as laksh mentioned virat have resources and can handle the situation lot more better than sai... Proof for that is document from college it self... Both virat and sai got to see same documents but virat clicked the picture of it where as sai don't... I am not blaming sai here but thats the difference, virat's experience would have helped to solve the situation alot better. We can't deny sai can shut Kaku gang but that will be only for some time but virat have the capacity to shut them completely ,we can say due to his post or being their son, what ever the reason he can protect Devi and pulkit alot more better than sai from Kaku gang. even though I hate pulkit for not trying himself and hiding himself behind the shield, It would have been better for everyone including sai, Devi and himself if that shield is virat other than sai.... I won't deny sai is strong enough to handle Kaku mandli.... But as virat said " sai Mei dhum bahuth hai but sambalthi Kam hai" again due to her age, experience and nature of putting herself in danger without thinking about repurcurrisons....

i agree with everything you said. but to what extent would virat go against his family whom he loves a lot. i somehow do not have that confidence in virat. a guy who did not even raise his voice against his father who was ready to hit his wife, would he believe that his family are criminals?

i fear for sai’s life truly. what if they kill sai someday and make virat believe that she committed suicide? he would not even think to investigate because as per him his family are dil ke acche.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Raji,

I agree with what others are saying . If Devi was normal then helping her elope would be ok as it’s Devi’s decision but in this case Devi is not mentally stable and she is deciding on behalf of Devi . She is not her legal guardian so she can land in trouble for helping a mentally unstable girl elope and getting her married in that state . The difference between Sai and Virat is , Virat isn’t helping Devi elope . He was getting her married with families consent . Kaku and gang would have never objected to Virat’s decision hence they tried misleading him . Like many said if something went wrong he would have taken the responsibility of his sitar while Sai is not capable yet to do so .

i truly understand everyone’s point of view. i agree sai hiding from virat about his family’s criminal activities is wrong and it will prove detrimental in their relationship. i also agree that she will only understand virat’s importance in her life after they separate.

but no number of arguments are able to convince me that her helping devi elope is wrong.

Originally posted by: raji02

these are my view points:

1) as far as i remember , pulkit showed document from college files infront of admin.

Oh ok, some relief 😂

2) makers are not considering devi’s mental instability at all. virat and sai were making plans of devi’s marriage knowing bhavani opposes the same right? even if the marriage were to take place infront of all , how can he get a mentally unstable person married without her guardian’s approval?

Because, many a times his decision is also a final one in their house. He knows that Kaku will eventually give up if he decides. She will have to give him solid reasons to refuse to get them married. Whatever happens will happen in front of everyone and if anything goes wrong like if Devi falls ill, everyone will be kept aware of it. Even if Virat's decision goes wrong, family will anyway be there to support Devi.

3) as much as i understand, devi would never be virat’s responsibility even if something were to happen to the elders. there would be no such legal binding on virat. he would take her responsibility out of love just like sai would.

He will be the next kin for Devi. He will be her legal guardian. They are all blood relatives.

4) after everything that sai went through to save pulkit, if he were tk be proved a fraud i think sai would go to any lengths to save devi.

I know what you are saying Raji. She is taking emotional decisions.

She would go to any lengths to save Devi but at the cost of who? Devi? Will she not be putting her at risk? And such a risk that she has cannot help Devi from if she falls into trouble. Does she have any strategy? Will she be able to come up with a strategy? What is her contingency plan?

Truth is, she is getting carried away by emotions and not foreseeing what is about to come. It can cause damage/harm to Devi, herself, Virat because Sai is Virat's responsibility and also Sai and Virat's relationship.

Look what are all at stake.

One should never forget that she has absolutely no rights to take this decision. Sai's action should be accountable. She will own up her actions, then what? What about the consequences or the repercussions that are/about to be faced due to her decision?

Sai is answerable to Virat first. She is also answerable to the entire family.

I have not written many posts about this but the reason behind Virat's anger many a times when Sai is wrong is only because she is his responsibility and he is answerable to everyone at his house for Sai's actions. Obviously they will question only him. Let's not forget that this is a mad family who even questioned Virat how he got food from outside and fed his wife 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Also, just before all this kidnapping Fiasco, Kaku held Sai responsible for Devi's condition and also said that she will throw her from the house but will wait for Virat or something right?

Let's even forget about her being thrown out of the house. What was Sai able to do when Kaku held her responsible for Devi's condition?Did Sai not see Devi's condition herself? How much was that girl getting affected. I don't blame Sai, Kaku was the reason for it and we all know but Sai couldn't even prove herself innocent or couldn't put forth her views that she wasn't responsible for it. What did she have to prove Pulkit's innocence or to prove his character right? She is fighting a battle with no arms/ammunition is what I would say.

Virat has them all and if Virat was here, this would have never happened. They have played her. She was attacked using emotions and she fell fo it. She fell into their trap.

When Sai couldn't understand their manipulation, how do you think she is even ready for a war when the person for whom she is fighting itself has given up? When the person himself has surrendered and is so weak. He is a weak contender and doesn't deserve any help from Sai.

If Pulkit thinks himself to be her husband, that guy should have and even now should be taking some initiatives. He is taking no measures to protect himself, his daughter and on top of it is putting Sai too in danger and risking her life and her relationship with Virat.

See, yesterday she went to this extent to save Pulkit. But was it of any help? He has refused to go against Kaku and gang. Let him have any reasons but where did the fierce Sai go yesterday? She could have scolded him, made him follow what was right, should have put some sense into him and should have left him on his own.

5) i agree that virat is more equiped to react in contingencies .

i mentioned no bashing , because i have observed that some people tend to get nasty while commenting.

Ha ha, I tried to joke by replying to that line

We both know each other anyway 😆❤

Replied in green dear.

Originally posted by: raji02

i agree with everything you said. but to what extent would virat go against his family whom he loves a lot. i somehow do not have that confidence in virat. a guy who did not even raise his voice against his father who was ready to hit his wife, would he believe that his family are criminals?

i fear for sai’s life truly. what if they kill sai someday and make virat believe that she committed suicide? he would not even think to investigate because as per him his family are dil ke acche.

first thing first, its not easy to against family for everyone, even sai didn't doubt kaku intentions untill she hears their conspiracy, so obviously virat would have taken lot more time but for sure he wouldn't have ignored sai altogether, atleast to save her he would have investigated. coming to slap thing, he was distracted by devi's situation, so i don't blame him for that. but he didn't rise his voice in case of devi and harini matter as expected, which i hate... but he did took stern decision to get devi married even without family concern, he even didn't believe letter completely until he get proofs , again his investigation could have been a lot more better. we should not forget , he is the same virat who stood against his family for sai. and coming to sai, his protetive attena will work 10 times faster, if something happens to her , he won't listen to anyone even to manipulate, so even kaku gang think twice before attacking her seriously...

Originally posted by: raji02

i truly understand everyone’s point of view. i agree sai hiding from virat about his family’s criminal activities is wrong and it will prove detrimental in their relationship. i also agree that she will only understand virat’s importance in her life after they separate.

but no number of arguments are able to convince me that her helping devi elope is wrong.

What if Kaku decides to file kidnapping charges against Sai for taking away her mentally ill daughter and getting her married?

How difficult would it for Kaku to prove Devi is not mentally sound? Just last week a doctor visited their house and Devi was in state of panic.

Now Sai can't prove Kaku kidnapped Pulkit, but Kaku can prove Sai and Pulkit kidnapped Devi.

Would you then want Virat to arrest Sai?

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

first thing first, its not easy to against family for everyone, even sai didn't doubt kaku intentions untill she hears their conspiracy, so obviously virat would have taken lot more time but for sure he wouldn't have ignored sai altogether, atleast to save her he would have investigated. coming to slap thing, he was distracted by devi's situation, so i don't blame him for that. but he didn't rise his voice in case of devi and harini matter as expected, which i hate... but he did took stern decision to get devi married even without family concern, he even didn't believe letter completely until he get proofs , again his investigation could have been a lot more better. we should not forget , he is the same virat who stood against his family for sai. and coming to sai, his protetive attena will work 10 times faster, if something happens to her , he won't listen to anyone even to manipulate, so even kaku gang think twice before attacking her seriously...

exactly my point. one of the reasons any officers are not assigned cases of their family members are because one cannot think rationally when family is concerned. he himself has seen multiple examples of their abuse towards sai and his aai. but still believes in their goodness. so i don’t think he would even believe. but according to me , ideal situation would be to tell him and if still doesn’t believe, then take next steps. but then if i were to write the show, chavans would have been a normal family.😂😂😉😉

Originally posted by: sukri

What if Kaku decides to file kidnapping charges against Sai for taking away her mentally ill daughter and getting her married?

How difficult would it for Kaku to prove Devi is not mentally sound? Just last week a doctor visited their house and Devi was in state of panic.

Now Sai can't prove Kaku kidnapped Pulkit, but Kaku can prove Sai and Pulkit kidnapped Devi.

Would you then want Virat to arrest Sai?

yes , atleast then truth would come out. if pilkit turned out to be fraud and sai helped him marry devi, then she deserves to be punished just like chavans deserve to be punished for kidnap.

Originally posted by: raji02

yes , atleast then truth would come out. if pilkit turned out to be fraud and sai helped him marry devi, then she deserves to be punished just like chavans deserve to be punished for kidnap.

Pulkit cannot prove he is legally married to Devi. If he had, he would have shared with Virat already. He is making Sai do all this, coz he has no proof. Having a child out of wedlock,photos outside chavan nivas, videos eating panipuri is not a proof of marriage.

There is no question of fraud at this point, Chavans will twist everything Pulkit says. It will be a case of he says, she says and Devi's statement might not even be considered. Only valid case will be charges of kidnapping.

My point being that ek crime ke badle me another crime is not correct.