how is virat getting devkit married different from sai ?

We all know the upcoming track of devkit marriage. for a second if we forget about the effect of devkit marriage on sairat’s relationship, i wanted to know all of your views how virat getting them married against family different from sai getting them married.

sai loves and cares for devi as much as virat does if not more. if virat can consider pulkit a fraud seeing sangeeta’s name on a document, why can’t sai trust him to be genuine depending on the same document?

virat is neither devi’s legal gaurdian nor her actual brother. how much ever he loves devi , at the end of the day he is just a cousin. so if him getting them married against devi’s guardian is not wrong why sai doing the same is wrong?

no bashing please, just give your views on this.

Two wrongs can never make things right. Yes Virat is wrong in not understanding the whole picture. But he will if he is given enough time and space. Sai has all the right intentions but she is doing things in haste. Right actions by Sai could have been...( withstanding her forest escapade. )

1. She should know what to tell Virat and what to hide. Giving promise to Pulkit to hide from husband is a big no no. May be she doesnt realize what is trust in marriage yet but no promise made to other people can bring her to hide things from her husband especially when he is an understanding one. He would have listened to her.

2. Devi is mentally unstable and no one in right mind, being new to the family herself will take such a drastic step of falicitating an elopement.

3. Apart from all this, she should have given responsibility to Pulkit to lead this effort. It will make her see how driven Pulkit is to get this done.

Except Virat, I dont see a matured person here. However bad his initial investigation is, he thinks! nobody understands that. :D

Not an answer to your question, but I suggest you go through this thread once

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5217628/i-feel-very-sorry-4-devi

Will come back to this post shortly

Originally posted by: raji02

We all know the upcoming track of devkit marriage. for a second if we forget about the effect of devkit marriage on sairat’s relationship, i wanted to know all of your views how virat getting them married against family different from sai getting them married.

sai loves and cares for devi as much as virat does if not more. if virat can consider pulkit a fraud seeing sangeeta’s name on a document, why can’t sai trust him to be genuine depending on the same document?

virat is neither devi’s legal gaurdian nor her actual brother. how much ever he loves devi , at the end of the day he is just a cousin. so if him getting them married against devi’s guardian is not wrong why sai doing the same is wrong?

no bashing please, just give your views on this.

Virat will not make marry devi chori chupe but he will make her marry with full knowledge of family members this is d difference.

If kaku can then she can stop virat.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Two wrongs can never make things right. Yes Virat is wrong in not understanding the whole picture. But he will if he is given enough time and space. Sai has all the right intentions but she is doing things in haste. Right actions by Sai could have been...( withstanding her forest escapade. )

1. She should know what to tell Virat and what to hide. Giving promise to Pulkit to hide from husband is a big no no. May be she doesnt realize what is trust in marriage yet but no promise made to other people can bring her to hide things from her husband especially when he is an understanding one. He would have listened to her.

2. Devi is mentally unstable and no one in right mind, being new to the family herself will take such a drastic step of falicitating an elopement.

3. Apart from all this, she should have given responsibility to Pulkit to lead this effort. It will make her see how driven Pulkit is to get this done.

Except Virat, I dont see a matured person here. However bad his initial investigation is, he thinks! nobody understands that. :D

i understand your pov , but these are my observations.

virat’s behaviour in this whole track did not make sense to me at all. first when pulkit came he did not try to find out anything about what happened 10 years back or what happened to devkit’s child , how and why she was separated from her mother? isn’t he a responsible and mature ips officer? shouldn’t those be the first questions he ask?

also, makers are not at all taking into consideration devi’s mental instability. because if they had virat wouldn’t have any right to get her married without bhavani, her guardian’s approval.

yes, as a wife , sai should disclose everything to virat. she will know the value of trust and virat’s importance in her life once they separate. but i don’t for a second think virat will believe sai if she were to disclose that his family is behind pulkit’s kidnapping without any proofs and lets face it, she doesn’t have any.

In real world, if Sai just takes Virat to Pulkit, then as an IPS officer it will be cake walk for Virat to figure out everything. Police has technology!!

But we are in ITV world, so that is ruled out. I still think Virat would listen to Sai if she explains him the truth.

Originally posted by: laksh

these are my view points:

1) as far as i remember , pulkit showed document from college files infront of admin.

2) makers are not considering devi’s mental instability at all. virat and sai were making plans of devi’s marriage knowing bhavani opposes the same right? even if the marriage were to take place infront of all , how can he get a mentally unstable person married without her guardian’s approval?

3) as much as i understand, devi would never be virat’s responsibility even if something were to happen to the elders. there would be no such legal binding on virat. he would take her responsibility out of love just like sai would.

4) after everything that sai went through to save pulkit, if he were tk be proved a fraud i think sai would go to any lengths to save devi.

5) i agree that virat is more equiped to react in contingencies .

i mentioned no bashing , because i have observed that some people tend to get nasty while commenting.

also, i agree pulkit is spineless. i would never love such guy. but who are we to decide if he is worthy of love or not. but i think there are many such people who take help of courageous friends to elope. seen some cases personally.

Sai is making emotional decision based on her love for Devi and blind trust on Pulkit. Kaku could just play her like fiddle, even yesterday. Sai couldn't handle Kaku without Virat in past 2 weeks.

She saw first hand how Devi's condition deteriorated in just 1 day and how kaku put the blame on Sai very easily.

Virat is making informed decision based on whats in front of his eyes/ evidences/ based on life experience. (he fell for emotional decision on Shiv Ratri, but letter and fake evidence put a stop to it).

No matter what, Kaku eventually gives in to Virat's logical argument. His decision is kind of final in many situation. So him doing something vs Sai doing something is not the same.

If Devi was of sound mind and she wanted Sai's help in eloping, that is different from taking a life changing decision that impacts a mentally unbalanced person's life just coz she feels like Pulkit is trustworthy.

Did she think how it will be for Devi to live with her husband suddenly or if she finds she has 8 yr old daughter? What if it further creates issues?

How does she know for sure Harini is Pulkit's and Devi's daughter? How is she so sure Pulkit is a good guy?

Will we let 18 year old who knows nothing of the past to make such a life changing decision in our home based on their beliefs? Forget bahu/ damad, if my 18 year old cousin tries to do something like this with their own life, they will be blasted left right and center.

The very fact that she has to resort to a tactic like elopement means that she has no right to get them married.

Virat could announce it in front of the family means he has the right to do it. Even if family opposes it, he could still make it happen.

Originally posted by: raji02

i wouldn’t blame anyone helping any person eloping from a family of criminals like chavans. she knows to what extent they can go to stop the marriage. they did not care about their own daughter. how is her helping devi escape from such family who are harming her wrong?

Not trusting Chavans is one thing.

Just coz they are wrong doesn't mean Pulkit is right.

She is being emotional without knowing the full story.

Ofcourse in the show they will eventually prove her decision to be right.

So all our discussions and arguments are moot.