Imlie's resolve is tested - Page 11

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Becahre sundar ki insult kiye jao by comparing him to that loser Prakash somehow..

I second you it is not about usefulness or being nakara.. the point is the vibe the bonding the warmth..all of that sundwr evokes a genuine sound voice 3rd party who has no benefit of his in anything but he still wants good for jhalli as they are peers without any motive or personal gains.. while this Prakash is just plain shady and has no care in the world for imlie ki bhalai he only wants to break her with imlie so he can have her so for that he keeps doing non stop bakwaas.. .

Koi competition hai hi nahi doni ko

Sorry late to the party but why are we talking about Prakash and Sundar??? Or are we just comparing them??😒

Originally posted by: pamk06

Sorry late to the party but why are we talking about Prakash and Sundar??? Or are we just comparing them??😒

Some of us find sundar more genuine friend of imlie and a good sane 3rd party but others ended up minding ke Prakash has the most Nobel intentions😆 and is the bested while sundar is useless .. bas itna hi 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Sorry late to the party but why are we talking about Prakash and Sundar??? Or are we just comparing them??😒

We are comparing the relations and support they bring to imlie and how they both are crucial to her. How one will be more of an anchor to her then the other so forth. With most of use agreeing I think that Aditya is already providing her that role. That’s where I have caught up on so far 🥱

Another aspect of the difference in relationships that the makers reiterated today - Imlie’s protectiveness towards Aditya vs. Malini’s willingness to air their supposed dirty laundry in front of everyone again. Imlie was loath to even discuss their equation. However many shikayatein she may have with him, no one will know about them. Whereas Malini went off again about how he lied but I will be all mahaan because I am not going to do the same thing. I mean you want to go to Mussorie, go. Message him, do not message him. But you do not need to say to all and sundry I will or will not do something because he did or did not do something.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Some of us find sundar more genuine friend of imlie and a good sane 3rd party but others ended up minding ke Prakash has the most Nobel intentions😆 and is the bested while sundar is useless .. bas itna hi 😆

But they are both at different levels.

Prakash has feelings for her so any suggestions or advice that he gives her will always be clouded with his own selfish intentions. He did not come out as a person who will be happy if his love is happy. He was all about sabotaging so unless they do a 360 degree turn with his character, his advice or suggestions would never come across as genuine.

Sundar can be genuine friend but he sees her as "naukrani" of the house and his advice would always be to keep that distance between them and not cross that border. As he does not know the truth, he will never understand the situation enough to give her the advice that she requires. He might always think that she is going the wrong way for even thinking of interacting with Aditya because of malik-servant relationship.

Originally posted by: pamk06

The only thing that came to my mind at the end of the episode was "Ohh Aditya". Every person was questioning him, his mom, editor, AC, Imlie, Malini and Prakash and the theme of the episode was of " wavering trust"😆

Imlie still does not completely believe his words that he has feelings for her, Malini is not sure that he will come back to her, AC does not believe that he cares about his daughter, his mom is not sure that this is the same person that she raised, editor is not sure that Aditya knows what he wants and Prakash is questioning if Aditya has given Imlie the right and the status.

The thing is all of them are wrong. Aditya is sure of his feelings for Imlie, he did go to bring Malini, he does care about her enough to be worried that she is sick, his parvarish is the only thing that made him take care of Imlie when he could not have been bothered and now Malini when he could have said "good riddance", he is very sure who he wants and he has given Imlie all the rights and status in their relationship.

But they are also all right in the sense that something is not right and that something is what is putting Aditya in the guilt mode where he is not able to answer any of their questions in the manner that he should. He wants to but he has no clue how to do it.😆 For me, I am really not sure if I should enjoy his state right now when karma has started hitting him from all sides or feel bad for him. 😛

LOL yes, the main theme was everyone's lack of trust in Adi😆.....yehi hota hai jab zindagi mein itne jhoot bol lo😆. Everyone was finding it difficult to trust the words coming out of Adi's mouth....chaahe woh sach bole ya jhoot.

And the truth as always was somewhere in the middle. Adi does know about his feelings for Imlie right now but it's also true that he doesn't know how to go about solving the mess he's in...how to fix things vis a vis the Malini angle.....and his dithering about taking a clear stand out of whatever guilt or hesitation just adds to people's inability to fully rely on what he's saying😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Another aspect of the difference in relationships that the makers reiterated today - Imlie’s protectiveness towards Aditya vs. Malini’s willingness to air their supposed dirty laundry in front of everyone again. Imlie was loath to even discuss their equation. However many shikayatein she may have with him, no one will know about them. Whereas Malini went off again about how he lied but I will be all mahaan because I am not going to do the same thing. I mean you want to go to Mussorie, go. Message him, do not message him. But you do not need to say to all and sundry I will or will not do something because he did or did not do something.

LOL yes, this was also a notable contrast yesterday.....and I feel like it all keeps tying back to that fundamental thing about Imlie that Adi has just not found in anyone else before.

When he was sitting in that bus thinking to himself that Imlie's himmat makes him feel safe....this is what he was talking about....he is just surrounded by SO many emotionally weak people who are constantly ready to make a tamasha out of any problems between them.....bas ek Imlie hi hai with whom no matter how big the mess is, he feels a sense of assurance ki she has the himmat, the courage to see them through......what an amazing irony. The girl he derided for so long as being the one creating all the mess in his life is now the only one he actually feels has the strength to hold HIM up.

This is the main theme I'm noticing in every epi aajkal....Imlie's strength of character is just getting more obviously established since she maintains that sense of protection and regard for her relationship with Adi while Malini keeps demeaning her own relationship by making a spectacle of it even when she's being handed everything on a silver platter.

Imlie ko jo thoda bhi milta hai, woh usko sahej ke rakhti hai....she's ready to fight the world for the respect of that sliver of a rishta.....while Malini is ready to flush it all down the drain even when it's all being handed to her on a platter.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL yes, the main theme was everyone's lack of trust in Adi😆.....yehi hota hai jab zindagi mein itne jhoot bol lo😆. Everyone was finding it difficult to trust the words coming out of Adi's mouth....chaahe woh sach bole ya jhoot.

And the truth as always was somewhere in the middle. Adi does know about his feelings for Imlie right now but it's also true that he doesn't know how to go about solving the mess he's in...how to fix things vis a vis the Malini angle.....and his dithering about taking a clear stand out of whatever guilt or hesitation just adds to people's inability to fully rely on what he's saying😆

Adi is facing the dilemma of how to even begin with revealing the truth. Itna raita faila chuka hai ye banda ki use sametna kaha se start kare ye usey samajh nahi aa raha😆

This is making him look indecisive & hence all the added guilt piling up from all directions. The only truth that he is confident about right now are his feelings for Imlie. Baaki sab kaise resolve kare usey samajh nahi aa raha.

Upar se seeing today how he was getting scolded by everyone & no one was even giving him some benefit of doubt or even asking about his own well being be it his mom who didn't even bother to ask him the truth or be it his boss who even after knowing the truth that he was forced to get married at gun point didn't even enquire about his feelings about it, I felt bad for the guy. Bas ration paani lekar chadh rahe the San uspe jisse uska confidence & himmat aur kam ho gaya hoga. Only Imlie can give him the emotional strength to start this process. That is why she needs to be back with him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

but baahar aa gaya Editor saab ka phone😆....who proceeds to tell him that he's ashamed of how he's conducted his personal life🤣. Editor Saab ne li Malini ki side.....lol and Adi was defending Imlie more that it's not her fault either😆....but phir yeh bhi bol diya ki Imlie ke saath ki shaadi jhooti thi but feelings sacchi hain🤣.....this dude won't be able to solve this problem in this lifetime😆. Beta agar shaadi jhooti thi toh yeh kaise sach hai ki you keep calling her your wife all the time? Dumbass😆

This is exactly what i was thinking when he said shaadi "jhooti" thi.....means shaadi illegal/legal, jhooti/saachi, all according to his convenience. 😆😆And if he really thought that shaadi was jooti then why go declaring to every Tom, Dick Harry that she is his wife.....and if Shaadi is jooti then why ask Imlie to come back....Isse kuch nahi hone wala hain and if he really wants to solve the issue he first needs be clear to himself on what path he needs to walk and the steps he needs to take to clear it out ........warna with him, he will taking all of us on merry go round circle. ....Atleast he is firm on the feelings part.....lets see what he tells Malini today.

I think like you said once, he still has to have that "Oh Damn" moment where he realizes that he has actually committed bigamy....and that would be one scene to watch and it would be even more interesting if he realizes that his PD marriage is registered and the "asli" one. 😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Adi is facing the dilemma of how to even begin with revealing the truth. Itna raita faila chuka hai ye banda ki use sametna kaha se start kare ye usey samajh nahi aa raha😆

This is making him look indecisive & hence all the added guilt piling up from all directions. The only truth that he is confident about right now are his feelings for Imlie. Baaki sab kaise resolve kare usey samajh nahi aa raha.

Upar se seeing today how he was getting scolded by everyone & no one was even giving him some benefit of doubt or even asking about his own well being be it his mom who didn't even bother to ask him the truth or be it his boss who even after knowing the truth that he was forced to get married at gun point didn't even enquire about his feelings about it, I felt bad for the guy. Bas ration paani lekar chadh rahe the San uspe jisse uska confidence & himmat aur kam ho gaya hoga. Only Imlie can give him the emotional strength to start this process. That is why she needs to be back with him.

Exactly. Isse akele se nahin hone waala.....he's dug himself into too deep a hole. And this is not to say that he needs Imlie to handhold him or walk him through the whole process...he's a grown up and does need to take responsibility for his actions and decisions. But where he does need Imlie is to help anchor him.

He himself is not that emotionally strong and iske aas paas ke log toh aur bhi useless hain.....ek Imlie hi hai who can give him the emotional strength he needs to try to gather his thoughts atleast cuz left to his own devices, he is quite emotionally ill-equipped to manage his family and Malini ke tamaashe by himself....and waise bhi andar se ghut ta rahega while they all get busy planning agli parties.....lol....He needs Imlie around to atleast function....even if Imlie also keeps frustrating him with her "Go to Malini didi" jaap😆.

The others don't seem to care about his feelings regarding this situation cuz he's waited so long to tell the truth na....so the longer it gets dragged, people will become more desensitized to whatever trauma he may have gone through at one point. Especially now when his feelings for Imlie have turned genuine and he clearly wants to be with her....toh phir toh log aur bhi bolenge ki ghanta trauma😆.....you seem pretty happy being married to Imlie, so that must mean you cheated Malini.

Jab tak yeh muh khol ke dhang se clarify nahin karega, ppl will jump to such conclusions only.