How will you handle this? - Page 3

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I do know..they are called Nibba and Nibbi for a reason...They are teenagers...if they fancy themselves in love with someone..One should understand that this feeling will change when they you know "GROW UP"

Any way, A child should not be encouraged to act on these feelings and if an adult is in love with a child then primary responsibility of a guardian is protection of the child from this adult...

This is not romantic or beautiful in any way...

yes i blv there is nothing like a love relation between a adult and child . parents should take responsibility of there kids 

but

then why balika vadhu was a hit drama. they take leap and trp gone. 

and why people like andita? he is a adult man and bondita is a child.  why people like there relation.

if anirudh wants to end this relation why people not liking it? 

Originally posted by: ahmedlone

my finel words makers are killing their own creation. 

To watch an ideal case of husband pushing and sacrificing for his wife's education, please watch Aanandi Gopal on Zee5. It is in Marathi but with subtitles.

• Gopaldas is a widower who lost his first wife to sickness but still loves her dearly and remembers her often.
• He deliberately agrees to marry a child, after trying to look for a widow to marry, but no family would let a widow remarry. But put a very strong condition that she should study after marriage.
• He doesn't come to pick her up till she "came of age" and let her stay at her parents, inspite of objection from a lot of people.
• He threatens her and her parents after marriage that he will leave her if she doesn't study and learn English by the time she is ready to leave her home with him.
• Transfers from his village to the city so that she can study without issues.
• Quizzes her about academics all the time, ensures their new house should have a big library.
• Uses all kinds of tactics to get Aanandi admission in an all-British girls school.
• Faces taunts of his villagers and garbage dumped at his door for educating a woman, Aanandi also faces torture and discrimination from her British classmates.
• Aanandi doesn't like his obsession with her education one bit and even hates him for it. 
  She even cribs about it to mother of Gopaldas' first wife who is also a widow and lives with them to take care of Gopaldas' son from his first wife, so that Aanandi can study.

• But she gets pregnant and faces complications due to infection and early pregnancy. Her child also dies shortly after birth. Then she decides to be a doctor.
• After that Gopaldas goes to so many lengths like writing letters to Woman's Medical College of Pennsylvania (there were no medical colleges for women in India), collecting money for her travel to the US, even agreeing to convert to Christianity to get a seat at college.
• His efforts bear fruit and she becomes the first Indian female doctor of Allopathy.

The point is, he did threaten her with abandonment when he was not taken seriously.

Ani went on that route too, but CVs here are not treating this track right for it to be an inspiring story. Maybe to appease audiences who think however high a woman flies, she should never forget her ultimate goal is to be a good wife. This is why Bon was not made to realize her mistakes sooner or even study just to please Aniruddh.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

To watch an ideal case of husband pushing and sacrificing for his wife's education, please watch Aanandi Gopal on Zee5. It is in Marathi but with subtitles.

• Gopaldas is a widower who lost his first wife to sickness but still loves her dearly and remembers her often.
• He deliberately agrees to marry a child, after trying to look for a widow to marry, but no family would let a widow remarry. But put a very strong condition that she should study after marriage.
• He doesn't come to pick her up till she "came of age" and let her stay at her parents, inspite of objection from a lot of people.
• He threatens her and her parents after marriage that he will leave her if she doesn't study and learn English by the time she is ready to leave her home with him.
• Transfers from his village to the city so that she can study without issues.
• Quizzes her about academics all the time, ensures their new house should have a big library.
• Uses all kinds of tactics to get Aanandi admission in an all-British girls school.
• Faces taunts of his villagers and garbage dumped at his door for educating a woman, Aanandi also faces torture and discrimination from her British classmates.
• Aanandi doesn't like his obsession with her education one bit and even hates him for it. 
  She even cribs about it to mother of Gopaldas' first wife who is also a widow and lives with them to take care of Gopaldas' son from his first wife, so that Aanandi can study.

• But she gets pregnant and faces complications due to infection and early pregnancy. Her child also dies shortly after birth. Then she decides to be a doctor.
• After that Gopaldas goes to so many lengths like writing letters to Woman's Medical College of Pennsylvania (there were no medical colleges for women in India), collecting money for her travel to the US, even agreeing to convert to Christianity to get a seat at college.
• His efforts bear fruit and she becomes the first Indian female doctor of Allopathy.

The point is, he did threaten her with abandonment when he was not taken seriously.

Ani went on that route too, but CVs here are not treating this track right for it to be an inspiring story. Maybe to appease audiences who think however high a woman flies, she should never forget her ultimate goal is to be a good wife. This is why Bon was not made to realize her mistakes sooner or even study just to please Aniruddh.

Anandi-Gopal is a wonderful film!! The show gave me Anandi-Gopal vibes when it started. I think Ani's love for Bon and his intentions are correct, but his methods are completely stupid. All he needs is someone to explain that to him.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

To watch an ideal case of husband pushing and sacrificing for his wife's education, please watch Aanandi Gopal on Zee5. It is in Marathi but with subtitles.

• Gopaldas is a widower who lost his first wife to sickness but still loves her dearly and remembers her often.
• He deliberately agrees to marry a child, after trying to look for a widow to marry, but no family would let a widow remarry. But put a very strong condition that she should study after marriage.
• He doesn't come to pick her up till she "came of age" and let her stay at her parents, inspite of objection from a lot of people.
• He threatens her and her parents after marriage that he will leave her if she doesn't study and learn English by the time she is ready to leave her home with him.
• Transfers from his village to the city so that she can study without issues.
• Quizzes her about academics all the time, ensures their new house should have a big library.
• Uses all kinds of tactics to get Aanandi admission in an all-British girls school.
• Faces taunts of his villagers and garbage dumped at his door for educating a woman, Aanandi also faces torture and discrimination from her British classmates.
• Aanandi doesn't like his obsession with her education one bit and even hates him for it. 
  She even cribs about it to mother of Gopaldas' first wife who is also a widow and lives with them to take care of Gopaldas' son from his first wife, so that Aanandi can study.

• But she gets pregnant and faces complications due to infection and early pregnancy. Her child also dies shortly after birth. Then she decides to be a doctor.
• After that Gopaldas goes to so many lengths like writing letters to Woman's Medical College of Pennsylvania (there were no medical colleges for women in India), collecting money for her travel to the US, even agreeing to convert to Christianity to get a seat at college.
• His efforts bear fruit and she becomes the first Indian female doctor of Allopathy.

The point is, he did threaten her with abandonment when he was not taken seriously.

Ani went on that route too, but CVs here are not treating this track right for it to be an inspiring story. Maybe to appease audiences who think however high a woman flies, she should never forget her ultimate goal is to be a good wife. This is why Bon was not made to realize her mistakes sooner or even study just to please Aniruddh.

wow what a great man

but our anirudh choose to bring second wife for this cause

.

Originally posted by: ahmedlone

what if a child fall in love with a adult?

what would u say then?

i think every child has had a crush on a teacher one point in life! lol the teacher is an adult.