The Past Comes Calling - Page 37

I just got caught up the episode and ranting and raving here. 😊

What I thought important was- Imlie recognizing Bhoora Daku ki gaadi. What a pathetic job Pari did to stall Imlie. Like banda didn't even try! Why do I think she will also know the truth. Infact again, she will be the one who will stop the truth revelation. Knowingly or unknowingly the truth is not paving its way because of Imlie, atleast pretty much up till now she has deterred it. First to save Adi in PD and then when Aparna says there could be no one better than Malini for Adi.

What does that mean for Adi and Imlie? Lets keep vishwas! Logic lagaya toh logic ka definition change karna padega Imlie serial ke chalte! Only thing that can put this all off track is the IPL and new restrictions due to pandemic..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Lol that is really exaggeration as if imlie bolti toh adi permanently PD ruk jaate🤣 he does have a life beyond his wives in Delhi btw.. yahan chahti imelia toh kya yeh kisaan ban jaata.. Delhi toh usse jaan hi tha aaj nahi toh kal regardless imlie kahe ya nahi caz his life is there his Ghar is there.. saari zindagi ke liye PD nahi aa gaya..😆

Imlie has been Salty about lack of haq but she has accepted it as a fact too ke nahi toh na sahi phir leave me alone am not going to beg .. jisko jo dena hai do humka chod do.phir woh bui isse nahi hota 😆 she just resigned herself from.his lack of decision making in this mudda.. caz she is tired of hanging around and wants more clarity then this.. malini didi toh filhaal iss equation Kan kinds non existent hain and I mean the equation we have set in PD.. woh toh secondary hai for both..primary toh they need to decide khud ka and woh bhi ho nahi paa raha adi se

@bold: Same. I've also just been getting a general sense of exhaustion from Imlie regarding his confusions and aadhe-adhure se answers😆....mujhe yeh sense nahin aaya that she's stepping back because of Malini yet. Yeh sab hota toh woh kab ka Delhi chhod ke aa gayi hoti. She left cuz he insulted her own devotion to this marriage. She felt insulted cuz she felt he made her feel like a burden in his life. And yahaan aake bhi I just sense a general disillusionment in Imlie about the city....I don't see her thinking all the time ki main waapis nahin jaa sakti, woh Malini didi ke suhaag hain blah blah.

This can all happen in the future, sure ki Imlie will step back cuz of Malini. But abhi kahaan hua hai yeh....mujhe toh nahin dikha aisa clearly kuch.

One of the lines I keep coming back to is Imlie telling him ki jab aap sach jaan lein toh humein bhi bataa deejiyega, hum use bhi sar jhuka kar maan lenge......that is kind of what happened in the hut scene....he told her his truth - she kind of knew then also ki this truth alone is not enough to resolve their issues, but she accepted it with this kind of heartbroken smile and gave him the promise he wanted to hear.

Originally posted by: PPak

Did you not answer this question already? Till the hug scene - Imli thought only Malini has haq of wife. Now hut scene tells her Adi has also given her haq. Not sure if he knows this - because even during the kaali night - Imli says by joining her name with his - he gave her the haq - but lets say hut was an absolute confirmation - since he acknowledges the realtionship. So logically now Imli also has the haq - next comes the part where she chooses to give it away - which she will when she realizes her relationship to Malini. Can't wait to see if Imli will find out or not today.

If you want to get really technical😆.....Adi acknowledged to Imlie that he is her husband. He has nowhere told her that she has the haq of a wife over him.....so I don't think that part is clear yet. We need to wait to see what they show of his thought process on this in the coming days regarding where he feels Imlie and Malini are in his life.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Same. I've also just been getting a general sense of exhaustion from Imlie regarding his confusions and aadhe-adhure se answers😆....mujhe yeh sense nahin aaya that she's stepping back because of Malini yet. Yeh sab hota toh woh kab ka Delhi chhod ke aa gayi hoti. She left cuz he insulted her own devotion to this marriage. She felt insulted cuz she felt he made her feel like a burden in his life. And yahaan aake bhi I just sense a general disillusionment in Imlie about the city....I don't see her thinking all the time ki main waapis nahin jaa sakti, woh Malini didi ke suhaag hain blah blah.

This can all happen in the future, sure ki Imlie will step back cuz of Malini. But abhi kahaan hua hai yeh....mujhe toh nahin dikha aisa clearly kuch.

One of the lines I keep coming back to is Imlie telling him ki jab aap sach jaan lein toh humein bhi bataa deejiyega, hum use bhi sar jhuka kar maan lenge......that is kind of what happened in the hut scene....he told her his truth - she kind of knew then also ki this truth alone is not enough to resolve their issues, but she accepted it with this kind of heartbroken smile and gave him the promise he wanted to hear.

Basically she wanted a break from all thr twisted things and following around for real bina coming to an answer. One can ses how zich kar dia hai adi ne isse and iski himmat tod si di thi by just going round and round and not giving any concrete answers to any of her questions and still not giving her space that she needed in his own need to find sukoon.. yeah isko toh some.sort of sukoon mil gaya yahaan aake.saamne imlie ko dekh ke chalo granted ke.itna manane ki himmat bhi aa gayi ke rishta toh hai but iske aage toh abhi bhi becahri imle hi piss rahi hai by still having any thing as stamp and deal done way.. she had such a tooth hua voice ke bata den awoh bhi I will accept like every other thing you say.. caz ultimately it is your wishes your sachs your majbooris your dards your haqs.. it is painful to accept but adi despite showing his care and concern sach main bhool jaata hai ke kisi aur ki bhi koi apni wajah ho sakti hai..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Aww HE's the real bechara in all this. I see I see😆.....thanks for enlightening me😆

🤣 Far from it

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: I think we are skipping some steps ahead regarding that. Let Imlie first get to the point where it's a CHOICE for her to accept the standing of a wife or refuse it because of Malini. Adi never even shows any inclination to give her that choice, but keeps demanding that she show how much he matters to her. I see Imlie right now stepping back from this relationship more cuz she says he can't give her any rights, rather than her thinking these rights only belong to Malini.

To me, the fact that Imlie keeps saying things like, "You want to be rid of me", "You treat me like a burden" and Adi doesn't ever fully negate that is a factor in all this. And I don't think the hut convo has put all that to rest. It's step 1 as of now....not all the answers.

And finally, to clarify, cuz I feel like you're making it sound like I'm not giving Adi any of his due😆, this isn't really about that. This discussion for me is regarding his wishi-washiness....which I don't think the hut convo has fully resolved. But I guess you think it has😆. For me, that clarity is yet to come....the makers haven't touched that topic since the hut convo either in Adi's head or Imile's head....ki how do you call yourself someone's husband, act like a husband with her, and then just keep carrying on in life as another person's husband? 😆. Imlie ka "I'll go it alone" still makes sense cuz she's accepted the relationship on a solo level and letting go of rights for that reason. Adi's stance is very muddled right now.

@bold1 : Didn't she already make a "Choice" that she wants to walk solo? Wasn't accepting her decision, his way of letting her know that she has equal rights in this relationship (marriage) and if this is what she wants, he will accept it.

Re: Adi wishi-washiness is not going to get resolved till he clarifies in his head, his stance about Malini and where her place is in his life. That is not going to happen in PD and till he does that, we are not going to get a clear answer of where he stands. I have said this before that till the comparison happen, till he realizes how wrong Malini is for him, how way more important Imlie is than Malini, we are not going to get a "firm" Aditya. He would need a lot more jhatakas😆 and "dhulai" too from Bunty uncle 😊 to dismiss a 7 year relationship and PD is just the beginning of that journey.

For me the hut convo was welcome and goodbye, nothing more nothing less. Previously, Imlie thought she was just a burden for him and with the hut convo , he told her that she is not burden but a part of his life, someone he cares for in his conscious frame of mind. Subconsciously she is at a different level in his mind and to get all that out from him , is going to take a long time. 😊

@bold 3: yes its very muddled right now and hence I want him back in Delhi to see his new roop. He will not be the same Aditya that left but he might not be a completely different version too. So I have prepared myself for the moon jaap that might happen in some limited capacity though I sincerely hope that he totally rants out at Malini for leaving the house. 😆

Laachari for Aditya has become a choice. I said this once before as well I think. He wants to wallow in self-pity. The only finality during that rainy night was his bechaini supposedly found an answer in being intertwined with Imlie’s happiness. He did call himself her husband in the present tense but then went on to talk about other rishtas in the same breath. He knows on a certain level that Imlie is his answer, but to what extent will be determined in the coming days hopefully. In all the muddle however, the one thing he gave Imlie was his honesty. To whatever extent he himself has clarity on.

He needs to get the hell out of PD to even get the r of repercussions that his mistakes have wrought. Until then we’ll not know if his fanboying SK is of any use at all or not. We know on a certain level he is not a Dev but how long will the makers go with that comparison is yet to be seen.

Imlie does not care about Malini being a part of the equation. She gave up on it the day Aditya and Malini got married. That is why she was ok living how she was in Delhi - her mann has always been saaf. Aditya questioned the only thing she was left with - her faith so that gave her some clarity on what she needed to do. Cut ties. She is in no mood to entertain anything other than her own studies at this point. If she ever brings Malini back into the equation it may be before going back to the T house. Even then Aditya will have to give her a reason to bring Malini into it, as in he says something so drastic that she feels the need to draw a line. On her own, she has always included Malini and the family as a single entity.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Joote khane aaya tha😆

SK ke ho gaye..ab AC ki baari hain... 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Basically she wanted a break from all thr twisted things and following around for real bina coming to an answer. One can ses how zich kar dia hai adi ne isse and iski himmat tod si di thi by just going round and round and not giving any concrete answers to any of her questions and still not giving her space that she needed in his own need to find sukoon.. yeah isko toh some.sort of sukoon mil gaya yahaan aake.saamne imlie ko dekh ke chalo granted ke.itna manane ki himmat bhi aa gayi ke rishta toh hai but iske aage toh abhi bhi becahri imle hi piss rahi hai by still having any thing as stamp and deal done way.. she had such a tooth hua voice ke bata den awoh bhi I will accept like every other thing you say.. caz ultimately it is your wishes your sachs your majbooris your dards your haqs.. it is painful to accept but adi despite showing his care and concern sach main bhool jaata hai ke kisi aur ki bhi koi apni wajah ho sakti hai..

@bold: This. And you know, it's ok, it's HUMAN to fixate on your own pain more than that of someone else....it takes an extraordinary person like Imlie to be able to think beyond yourself. Adi is an aam insaan so I can understand that human flaw in him.....it's part of his journey here. It makes it all the more interesting if we can accept Adi and Imlie both with all their mistakes....in Adi's case especially he has a strange ability to be selfish and good at the same time😆.....so he both frustrates me and makes me laugh. And at the end of the day, I still keep rooting for his Bailbuddhi to get some akkal and find his way to his Jhalli😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Laachari for Aditya has become a choice. I said this once before as well I think. He wants to wallow in self-pity. The only finality during that rainy night was his bechaini supposedly found an answer in being intertwined with Imlie’s happiness. He did call himself her husband in the present tense but then went on to talk about other rishtas in the same breath. He knows on a certain level that Imlie is his answer, but to what extent will be determined in the coming days hopefully. In all the muddle however, the one thing he gave Imlie was his honesty. To whatever extent he himself has clarity on.

He needs to get the hell out of PD to even get the r of repercussions that his mistakes have wrought. Until then we’ll not know if his fanboying SK is of any use at all or not. We know on a certain level he is not a Dev but how long will the makers go with that comparison is yet to be seen.

Imlie does not care about Malini being a part of the equation. She gave up on it the day Aditya and Malini got married. That is why she was ok living how she was in Delhi - her mann has always been saaf. Aditya questioned the only thing she was left with - her faith so that gave her some clarity on what she needed to do. Cut ties. She is in no mood to entertain anything other than her own studies at this point. If she ever brings Malini back into the equation it may be before going back to the T house. Even then Aditya will have to give her a reason to bring Malini into it, as in he says something so drastic that she feels the need to draw a line. On her own, she has always included Malini and the family as a single entity.

@bold: Same. I've gotten the same impression from Imlie.....she bundles up both Malini and the family into one package as she talks about Adi's responsibilities right now. Malini will become a factor only when she feels she needs to draw a line if Adi gives her some overt indication that he is neglecting Malini for her. So far, Adi has done nothing of the sort so Imlie has no reason to think that either😆

And yes, Imlie right now is in a determined frame of mind to focus on her studies than try to solve the muddle of Babusahib ka mind with it's constant confusions and half-baked answers😆.

Also word on Laachaari and self-pity becoming a choice for Adi😆. He's quite the champ at it now😆

Anyways, we can all agree we need some story movement to get out of this rut yesterday's epi has left us in regarding whatever the hell Adi is thinking or about to do next😆