Originally posted by: Katy4566
anirudh again and again said bon is going in wrong direction and madness, she has to focus on studies, he has great misconception bon loves him , he has problem with teenager bon not the kiddo bon jo ani ko bhav nahi deti thi, he forgot her behaviour and goals have chnaged because of emotional pain she went through and solace and comfort she finds in him as a mentor,person, unconditonal support as he saved her from hira mandi, he got her educated, he taught her good and bad touch, he saves her from menstrutation problem and she is aspiring feminist,she was moulded into adarsh bahu and wife by kaka and him to focus on realtions, was he not the one to maintain relations at the time of sampoo maa,?? , he thinks love is madness from childhood due to mini ashe and mini were like this but he forgot this is bon,he never once talked about after becoming barrister wont bon need love in her life, someone support she can lean onto, someone arms where she feels safe,someone hands she wants to hold, a family,kids and everything.
bon loves him platonically and makers deliberately showed bon nibbipan to justify ani polygamy but they forgot we as viewers know the real meaning ,it is just bon repsect,admiration and adorartion are overlooked by kaka influence to be adarsh wife when she does not know societal expectation, all the child brides she saw happy plus she is very innoncet if her mom would have been there she could have helped bon to understand this phase and hel her on right path, she never realised the atrocity of child bride,that is it , she was emotionally insecure because she was unable to digest hard truth of her life that she was victim of satp ratha and child marriage when she has not even learnt its mal effects as she found home,support,companion in ani unlike other husbands so she respects him naturally,
bas ani had very narrow definition of husband wife, love for him mini madness and her antics were love but bon love is selfless ,pure and platonic, elder bon isko samjhaa sakti hai ki uski state of mind kya thi , bon faced complicated and hard situations at a very tender age
mano kya krna chahti hai, does she want to support him in this venture saying bon apna dard nikaal degi tum kya karoge,only bon can console him and he can console bon , no one else.
he says bon ki. life ban jaayegi and society mein badlaav laayegi , yeh use heartbreak and emotional scars nahi women condition in society but uska ek track aana chahiye jaha bon khud decide kare kya voh aisi society mein change laayegi par uske emotional pain use aage badhne nahi denge, she is a human with flaws and meotions like ani
they are trying to justify polygamy by bon nibbipan earlier due to blunder of AE attraction and ab anirudh ko god bana rahe hai
just show bon sotry equally