Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 118

Originally posted by: rajiraji14

If stry takes ths turn then the social msg is no women can become strong in their life without hurt,cheat,pain so there is no value fr love,affection ,support,trust,hope and all to become strong in life so makers point is ths to show women empowerment or wat🤣🤣🤣.... fr ths i can watch saas bahu drama thousand times yaar where there villi vl b always villi heroine vl b always heroine good natured👍🏼

Yeah itna naa gire agar karna hai leap ke baad but not right now

Originally posted by: shirin04

Let me ge this straight ani literally married another person to avoid the marital relation topic with bon.

Like just sit down and explain to her decently what it is with that bud and flower example and then bon would have understood

Phir bon is hope mein rehti ki one day we will have which ani does not want I want after this bon remains in front of ani eyes become stone hearted and there comes a new person who loves bon for her individuality,her emotions and makes loving relationship with her beyond any marriage and explain ani real value of true love

Originally posted by: Mugkale

Sachme???? People are praising this track on SM?????? Phir to ani ko akal aane ki koi gunjaish nai!

Yes Mugs hum jaisa soch rahe the shayad waisa kuch nahi hone wala. Most people on social media are happy after yesterday’s track. Now maybe we will see an apologetic and regretful Bon who also realises what all her pati babu went through(second marriage) just to bring her on the right track. Attract hui woh apne husband se isse bada Gunah aur kya hosakta hai.

Originally posted by: Indira12

Very nicely written ❤️

Can you please send this to the makers? 😭

Actually they could have used this situation to portray something really non-stereotypical - the phase of a young teen and what does he/she goes through in such a vulnerable age; that it is NOT a sin or something wrong to have these kind of feelings at this age; how one should address these issues because it acts as the stepping stone of their growing personality, etc. This could have been really something out of the box for ITV where shows are mostly regressive and portrays women as an ideal figure of sacrifice and greatness. Also, it would have been a great message to the viewers because a lot of young parents finds it troublesome to handle a young teen who just entered puberty.

But no, they chose to portray these things as erroneous and in a negative light, which is what a lot of families actually misunderstand. It would have been better if they haven't opted only for a sensitive subject like this because through this they are encouraging the already misplaced ideals of the society.

Thanks for your kind words. ITA with your views that they could have chosen this situation to portray something empowering and educational. After how the makers showed ARC handling the menstruation track, where he was so supportive of Bondita, this was a real let-down. They could have shown ARC's mental anguish and discomfort with the situation of dealing with an infatuated teenage wife. They could have shown awkwardness between the Bondita and ARC, and above all also depicted how Bondita is trying to survive with her own growing feelings and also feeling societal pressure about the marital relationship. So many possibiities ---yet, as you say they went the most regressive route.

Originally posted by: Indira12

Very nicely written ❤️

Can you please send this to the makers? 😭

Actually they could have used this situation to portray something really non-stereotypical - the phase of a young teen and what does he/she goes through in such a vulnerable age; that it is NOT a sin or something wrong to have these kind of feelings at this age; how one should address these issues because it acts as the stepping stone of their growing personality, etc. This could have been really something out of the box for ITV where shows are mostly regressive and portrays women as an ideal figure of sacrifice and greatness. Also, it would have been a great message to the viewers because a lot of young parents finds it troublesome to handle a young teen who just entered puberty.

But no, they chose to portray these things as erroneous and in a negative light, which is what a lot of families actually misunderstand. It would have been better if they haven't opted only for a sensitive subject like this because through this they are encouraging the already misplaced ideals of the society.

+1

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Yes Mugs hum jaisa soch rahe the shayad waisa kuch nahi hone wala. Most people on social media are happy after yesterday’s track. Now maybe we will see an apologetic and regretful Bon who also realises what all her pati babu went through(second marriage) just to bring her on the right track. Attract hui woh apne husband se isse bada Gunah aur kya hosakta hai.

Hadd hai...its unbelievable ke Polygamy, humiliation is sabko support kar rahe hai😣😣 Indira was right, makers jo chahate the wo mil gaya..

Ab jab log hi yahin chahate hai to makers ko bhi kya dosh de?

Kis angle se ani mahan dikhata hai yaar? Just because he cried???? Kya bon galat lagati hai inko?

Originally posted by: Indira12

Yess Mugs (is that okay?😳), all of the SSP shows until now have portrayed relationships in a very beautiful way. They too show romance and all, but their storylines are more focused on the deep meaning of relationships, unlike other love stories or dramas. Plus, their MLs are very faithful and most importantly, have respect towards women. There was a show called Diya Aur Baati Hum in which the ML, himself being uneducated, goes to great lengths to make her wife an IPS officer. Almost all of their shows mainly deals with a concept of the husband fulfilling the wife's dream, even at the cost of their own dreams, unlike other saas-bahu dramas where FL is the ultimate sacrificial devi.

But I don't know what made the makers of this show portray such regressive kind of women empowerment, or maybe in the process of making their ML extremely heroic, they completely overlooked the basic issues with woman and even going to the extent of shaming their FL and portraying them in the negative light.

@bold: very aptly said... Literally it is disturbing mentally... yaar bon ko maafi mangate nai dekhana hai... Nothing is wrong to have crush or soft feelings for anybody in that age... One should not deserve punishment for that... Ulta everyone needs strong emotional support during that phase... Please bon ko nai ani ko samzao pyar ka matlab 😢😢😢

But I think it's clear aise kuchh nai milega..😭😭

Yes you can call me Mugs 🤗