To all the ppl who say it is anu's fault FROM THE BEGINNING OF d SHOW

Guys,

All of u who say that anupamaa should have spoken up , anupamaa should have stopped him, anupamaa should have fought with him, anupamaa should have stood up for her RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING itself.

😅😅 guys the purpose of this show is to show that she does not speak up for herself for the past 25 years and then how she after facing her life's biggest betrayal stands up and fights for herself.

So pls i request u all to stop bashing anupamaa's character that she deserves all this humiliation from vanraj even in the latest episodes . That monster mcp vanraj deserves nothing at all

Absolutely, parental conditioning plays a huge role which is why Anupamaa silently bore the insults from Vanraj till VanYa affair was exposed.

But now apparently she is a stronger woman who wants to "move on" and has repeatedly mentioned that. Had the conditioning to be blamed, she would have agreed to reconcile with Vanraj as everybody is already persuading her to do that.

Everyone can be called a victim of circumstances, but not Vanraj as we have seen him persuade Kavya back into the relationship multiple times when she wanted to quit. Also he has not had an ounce of guilt until he was exposed.

If Anupamaa is still sympathizing with him due to him being jobless and letting his harsh words intimidate her, it is totally her fault. If she has taken a stand to move on, she also needs to detach herself from him emotionally, she cannot move on if she keeps cooking for him and attending to him while attaching her not-so-serious disclaimers that this is the last time she is doing it.

She also needs to realize that she is setting a bad example for others. Giving sermons on how others should lead their lives (read Paritosh and Kinjal) is easy, but not if you cannot incorporate them in your own life. Why does she keep claiming that she will protect Kinjal from exploitation when she can't protect herself and let's everyone take advantage of her?

Not once have we seen her actually punish anyone for what they did to HER (she beat Paritosh and scolded Pakhi for misbehaving with Leela and rebuked Samar for calling out Vanraj but never for herself) So how can anyone call her anything but a sacrificial lamb who volunteers everytime for her throat to be sliced open?

I agree. Now that she has become stronger and determined to let go of him she needs to take a stand for herself more strongly .👍👍😊

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Absolutely, parental conditioning plays a huge role which is why Anupamaa silently bore the insults from Vanraj till VanYa affair was exposed.

But now apparently she is a stronger woman who wants to "move on" and has repeatedly mentioned that. Had the conditioning to be blamed, she would have agreed to reconcile with Vanraj as everybody is already persuading her to do that.

Everyone can be called a victim of circumstances, but not Vanraj as we have seen him persuade Kavya back into the relationship multiple times when she wanted to quit. Also he has not had an ounce of guilt until he was exposed.

If Anupamaa is still sympathizing with him due to him being jobless and letting his harsh words intimidate her, it is totally her fault. If she has taken a stand to move on, she also needs to detach herself from him emotionally, she cannot move on if she keeps cooking for him and attending to him while attaching her not-so-serious disclaimers that this is the last time she is doing it.

She also needs to realize that she is setting a bad example for others. Giving sermons on how others should lead their lives (read Paritosh and Kinjal) is easy, but not if you cannot incorporate them in your own life. Why does she keep claiming that she will protect Kinjal from exploitation when she can't protect herself and let's everyone take advantage of her?

Not once have we seen her actually punish anyone for what they did to HER (she beat Paritosh and scolded Pakhi for misbehaving with Leela and rebuked Samar for calling out Vanraj but never for herself) So how can anyone call her anything but a sacrificial lamb who volunteers everytime for her throat to be sliced open?

I love this so much ❤️!

Agree with every single point you've made 👏👏...

If Anu was such a victim of circumstances/society as some here claim, then why did she divorce Vanraj against Baa, Dolly, Pankhi, Toshu's wishes and traditional Indian society's norms??

And why did she more recently argue with everyone in the house to keep Kavya in the house??

Right now, Anupama is just proving herself to be a very poor decision maker, and is setting a horrible example for her daughter and her daughter in law.

Anupama was going great and strong but since this week makers show different Anupamaa which no one understanding what is happening