Why didnt Urmila go?

I dont know if I missed some portion - did they explain why Urmila did no go with Ram/Sita/Laxman? I didnt see any explanation for it...

you r right, no explanation has been provided neitehr has the interaction between laxman and urmilla before parting shown
laxman will not take along urmilla
he will leave her to take care of kaushlaya and sumitra

But why leave her... There were Shrutkirti and Mandavi to take care of them... 😕

because laxman was a fool 😡
if he had taken along urmilla all 4 would ahev ahd nice 14 uyear long party but no
actually urmilla was more docile tahn SIta, sita had made up her mind to follow rama nd nothing ram said to deviate her
but urmilla obediently followed laxman's orders at expense of her sacrifice

actually laxman ordered her to stay back and take care of kaushalya and sumitra and that time he dont trust bharat so that why he leave urmilla so that atleast she will take care of them and will provide them hope to live

my point: urmilla was much more obedient
nothing could ram ahve said to stop sita from following him

Originally posted by: camella

acutally urmila insisted on going with lakshman as tht was what rani sunaina had taught as 'stree dharm'..so she wanted to adhere to tht like sita..but lakshman told her tht there had to be sumbody to take care of the elders so as a daughter-in-law it was necessary to carry out tht duty and he says tht there wudnt be netime for him to spare for her..and the greatest thing was tht lakshman had taken a promise from her tht she wudn't shed a single tear for 14 yrs and she actually fulfilled her promise and lakshman told her tht nobody may know her sacrifice but lakshman would always remeber what she had done for him for 7 lives..por urmila..her job was really tough and she carried it out well 👏 ..but shez not noticed ..n yes one more peice of info is tht lakshman even got a boon from nidra-devi ( godess of sleep) tht he wudnt sleep for 14 yrs as he had to guard over his brother and bhabhi..amazing na??😊

ya it true wat ever u share i think laxman and urmilla play the toughest role of sevak

Originally posted by: its me tan

my point: urmilla was much more obedient
nothing could ram ahve said to stop sita from following him

laxman leave urmilla because he want to be sure that kaushlya and suitra will not be mistreated by kaikey and bharat he want someone close to him to take care of them and at that he only trust urmilla

Originally posted by: camella

..n yes one more peice of info is tht lakshman even got a boon from nidra-devi ( godess of sleep) tht he wudnt sleep for 14 yrs as he had to guard over his brother and bhabhi..amazing na??😊

yup you r absolutely right

but i heard laxman had requested nidra devi to trabsfer his sleep to urmilla so that she will not lay nights wide swake alone

soem good thought on his part😉