Two Helpless Hearts - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, Malini is a victim of the larger situation since Adi dragged her into this by marrying her after marrying Imlie.....but what she is doing right now isn't even about a WIFE feeling neglected or slighted😆....woh hota toh phir bhi she would get more sympathy I suppose.....but no, she is playing up her martyr mode by once again claiming that Adi is going away from her, distancing himself from her.....she still really doesn't sound like a wife, more like a clingy girlfriend......where has she exhibited the right of a wife to say that Adi, you owe me this as a HUSBAND? No, it's always about the same tired spiel regarding "aap mujhse DOOR jaa rahe hain, aapne mujhe samjha nahin, aapne meri baat nahin maani" blah blah blah.

You're both talking about the larger storyline of whatever will happen to Malini when she starts to reach the realization that her and Adi aren't going to work out.....I'm talking about the immediate short term situation where the sympathy is fast eroding for her given all her current antics which are about pouty childish insecure tantrums more than a hurt wife.

Sure, they can still keep playing sad bg music on her pity party and whining scenes with any of the family members, but it's looking more and more artificial daily.....lol the makers lost their balance on Malini a while back or maybe it's deliberate only to show why she isn't right for Adi.....what the flaws are in their relationship. They both clearly aren't capable of maturely introspecting what's lacking b/w them so it's being played up through this martyr act melodrama of Malini's.

All I can see with these recent scenes is a more and more desperate Malini who will likely start doing more outlandish things in her insecurity....yeah Adi may come back, give her some pampering and she may be mollified for a bit again but the way he's left her this time and hasn't called her either is something that I think will remain in her and keep building up for whatever the next drama is......cuz the Adi that comes back doesn't seem like he's going to be able to be the same with her.....and she is showing a tendency now to be hyper about every little perceived change in him.

The family may try to push them together, guilt Adi as usual that he is not being fair to Malini who is his wife but I think Adi's eyes/heart will still keep seeking Imlie out....and Malini is not going to be fully satisfied anymore with whatever random mush/pampering facade he gives her short term.

I guess we all are saying the same thing. That her characterization from this past four episodes is gone down the drain. The makers are deliberately showing her as this petulant kid who is crying in front of every "Tom, Dick and Harry" just because her favorite toy has gone away which is really not needed. There are many ways to do show her incompatibility and the way they are doing it is really cringeworthy.

I would have been able to digest it but my issue is two fold. First, I just cannot understand what the problem is. Him going away even though she said "No". Like Fary said in one of her post, if they would have replayed the bridge FB, then atleast her insecurity or her current drama would have made sense but her dialogues for the FB of Aditya's outburst is just so extreme. Its almost seems as if she is losing it with every moment that is passing that he is not there. I would be even Ok if those were internal conversations but airing it out in front of family and that too Nishant who has just landed at the T's is just so weird. That is where my second issue is that how a person as private as Aditya could miss such a big character trait and still believe himself to be in love with her. Nobody is that blind.

Anyways, I guess its better to ignore her because right now, I cant understand her. I do agree Aditya is going to pamper coddle etc but her this behavior will be increase daily because as I mentioned in my other post, she will be watching it. Her clinginess is also going to increase and as its gets to us, hopefully it gets to Aditya too and he feels as awkward as possible 😉May be that's the whole purpose. 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

I guess we all are saying the same thing. That her characterization from this past four episodes is gone down the drain. The makers are deliberately showing her as this petulant kid who is crying in front of every "Tom, Dick and Harry" just because her favorite toy has gone away which is really not needed. There are many ways to do show her incompatibility and the way they are doing it is really cringeworthy.

I would have been able to digest it but my issue is two fold. First, I just cannot understand what the problem is. Him going away even though she said "No". Like Fary said in one of her post, if they would have replayed the bridge FB, then atleast her insecurity or her current drama would have made sense but her dialogues for the FB of Aditya's outburst is just so extreme. Its almost seems as if she is losing it with every moment that is passing that he is not there. I would be even Ok if those were internal conversations but airing it out in front of family and that too Nishant who has just landed at the T's is just so weird. That is where my second issue is that how a person as private as Aditya could miss such a big character trait and still believe himself to be in love with her. Nobody is that blind.

Anyways, I guess its better to ignore her because right now, I cant understand her. I do agree Aditya is going to pamper coddle etc but her this behavior will be increase daily because as I mentioned in my other post, she will be watching it. Her clinginess is also going to increase and as its gets to us, hopefully it gets to Aditya too and he feels as awkward as possible 😉May be that's the whole purpose. 😆

@bold - 😆 cannot agree more. If and when they decide to get back to being a straight line, I’ll try to start looking at her character again. This week left me cringing.

Yet another terrific episode. Hats off to the writing team. I had been expecting a typical romance where the hero is all mad and lots of eye locks etc, but this story is so much better.

Sumbul and Gashmeer are just excellent. What a terrific casting. Such flawless delivery and acting. We are so lucky for this casting. The actress who plays Malini is good but the things that come out of her mouth are so needy and clingy. She is complaining of Aditya to who ever would listen. "Oh he doesn't love me anymore. Poor me". Poor Nishant looked annoyed and misplaced. Contrast Imlie has internalized her pain and finds meaning in life in little things. She hasn't shared her state of being with anyone except our own BS.

Now to the episode... It is wonderful to see Adhi interacting with Imlie's mom and how they kept it real. They showed how much poverty that Imlie and her mom have to deal with. The teaching scenes were so flawless. He cares so deeply about Imlie, and visa versa. This is so much better than sappy eye locks and silly romance.

This romance will be slow but worth it. It will not be based on attraction but affection. Adili will set a trend to ITV. At this point I am so excited for the whole year 2021 to see how this plays out, it has just been excellent writing, casting, acting etc. The monologs given to Sumbul and Gashmeer are to die for. I repeatedly play their dialogs over and over again.

The snake bite will play out tomorrow and from the SBB clips Imlie will miss her exam. This will make BS so angry and upset tomorrow once he recovers. Hope that plays out tomorrow. I hope she can make up the exam. Maybe BS himself will talk to the head of the college where she needs to write. Because I wouldn't want to wait 1 whole year for her to go to College. I just cant stand her at Tripati's cooking and cleaning. I don't mind her there but she needs a purpose.

Originally posted by: pamk06

That is where my second issue is that how a person as private as Aditya could miss such a big character trait and still believe himself to be in love with her. Nobody is that blind.

Lol really? You still think Adi couldn’t be that blind? Come on 😆....after all we’ve seen of his character, this totally lines up. Malini was a convenience cuz she gave him space for his work and it doesn’t hurt that she’s beautiful. 😆....how much will the average guy think beyond that? Lol I feel like people have such high imaginations for Adi here just cuz he has the “serious patrakaar” title. Lol but he’s a regular guy in many ways who was going about his average life without deep thought about any of his relationships until Imlie came into his life.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol really? You still think Adi couldn’t be that blind? Come on 😆....after all we’ve seen of his character, this totally lines up. Malini was a convenience cuz she gave him space for his work and it doesn’t hurt that she’s beautiful. 😆....how much will the average guy think beyond that? Lol I feel like people have such high imaginations for Adi here just cuz he has the “serious patrakaar” title. Lol but he’s a regular guy in many ways who was going about his average life without deep thought about any of his relationships until Imlie came into his life.

Yup, I guess it does seem like it did not go beyond that, plus her "no complain" attitude must have really appeased to him and he must have thought she is the right girl.

I guess this is a prime example that meeting for a date once in a while and talking on the phone really gives you no insight to a person character and behavior, however long the relationship ...Well, he is in for a surprise now...

I think it’s best to accept that Malini is not as deeply sketched a character as Adi and Imlie are. Her main purpose in the story is to show how insecurity and lack of communication ruins a relationship and to guilt trip Adi.

At this point, all we can be thankful for is that she isn’t a typical scheming third angle character. She’s an insecure mess and her guilt tripping is very irritating but that’s how it’s going to be. Itna dimaag kyun lagaana about WHY she is the way she is 😆....this is just how she is and this will ultimately impact all her relationships. The facade of Malini’s maturity has always been in question....she’s just having an excessive phase of tantrums right now but they will again try to show her mahaanta in supporting Imlie later most likely. Lol I’ve just generally stopped taking both her good and bad actions seriously. She’s just a mess. Period. Lol

Ideally Adi and Imlie should both help her stop being a mess in the long run but they themselves are emotionally messed up right now toh isko kya manage karein. Lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh tha aaj ka supposed "Paap"🤣.....bechaare do itne maasoom, phir bhi inko sab galat samajhte hain😆

Doosro ko kya dosh dena when one is calling it galti and the other paap 😆... Hand holding pe itna reaction......Wonder what will they call it when they hug?🤣🤣Ghorpaap? Gunha?😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Doosro ko kya dosh dena when one is calling it galti and the other paap 😆... Hand holding pe itna reaction......Wonder what will they call it when they hug?🤣🤣Ghorpaap? Gunha?😆

Gunaah. And fervent praying to sita maiyya. 😆Even if one ends up dreaming about it 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Doosro ko kya dosh dena when one is calling it galti and the other paap 😆... Hand holding pe itna reaction......Wonder what will they call it when they hug?🤣🤣Ghorpaap? Gunha?😆

LOL well in all seriousness, it wasn't just hand-holding, right? They were sleeping close to each other and that has a different connotation especially for two people who are married/attracted to each other. They have the baggage of Malini in the back of their mind always so they won't consider it right to be in close proximity of that nature with each other yet.

A hug, a general holding of the arm while walking are different things....sleeping with your head on someone's arm who is like inches from you is different.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL well in all seriousness, it wasn't just hand-holding, right? They were sleeping close to each other and that has a different connotation especially for two people who are married/attracted to each other. They have the baggage of Malini in the back of their mind always so they won't consider it right to be in close proximity of that nature with each other yet.

A hug, a general holding of the arm while walking are different things....sleeping with your head on someone's arm who is like inches from you is different.

Good you brought attraction up...I was going to put it in my post and then did not.... Imlie, atleast, I can see with emotional sickness and gudgulli etc that there is awareness but thoughts on when its going to prakat for Aditya? Right now he is such a mess in his head and his first thought always is Malini.... There is an deep emotional connect with Imlie but he is still seeing her as a responsibility (I dont want to say bacchi and I am not able to find the right word)......Will it go hand in hand with his emotional awareness of her or will it just come as a bolt of lighting?