What's the problem with a platonic relationship?

I know what Aniruddh is doing is wrong by getting attracted to Manorama and not sensitively explaining why he doesn't want romantic involvement with Bondita right now.

But isn't Bondita being equally irritating? Instead of concentrating on her studies for which Anirrudh has sacrificed so much, she is taking up KSG's guidance and venturing on getting her husband "back". Like really?? Is this the empowerment CVs want us to see? After pushing for consummation in loveless relationship for adults, make children do it as well??

Why can't both of them go in a direction of settling for a platonic relationship of friendship till Bondita becomes an adult? Why the emphasis on extremes? I want to hope Manorama's entry to have a positive intervention and make them realise this.

Also I get totally disturbed by people supporting Bondita's gimmicks of suhaag n stuff?? Expecting Aniruddh to melt at her antics is totally creepy. Let her grow mentally first and stop thinking that asking for romance is same as asking for a toy and that throwing a tantrum will help.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I know what Aniruddh is doing is wrong by getting attracted to Manorama and not sensitively explaining why he doesn't want romantic involvement with Bondita right now.

But isn't Bondita being equally irritating? Instead of concentrating on her studies for which Anirrudh has sacrificed so much, she is taking up KSG's guidance and venturing on getting her husband "back". Like really?? Is this the empowerment CVs want us to see? After pushing for consummation in loveless relationship for adults, make children do it as well??

Why can't both of them go in a direction of settling for a platonic relationship of friendship till Bondita becomes an adult? Why the emphasis on extremes? I want to hope Manorama's entry to have a positive intervention and make them realise this.

Also I get totally disturbed by people supporting Bondita's gimmicks of suhaag n stuff?? Expecting Aniruddh to melt at her antics is totally creepy. Let her grow mentally first and stop thinking that asking for romance is same as asking for a toy and that throwing a tantrum will help.

Agree to few points bt i take ths track as guidence in teenage is mre important one, bt guidence is not yhe point where we keep on our points it should be like we must allow them to speak up their points and lead them crtly.... till now tat speak up phase is not gvn to Bon.... ARC oneside forces his POV on Bon eventhough ths only needed to Bon fr her brightful future.... bt its forced to Bon she herself now adopted tat to win ARC's heart she should become Barrister, bt if ARC allowed her to speak up thn it would be her passion too.... and other side Kaka and society enterly misleading her vth pati patni relationship, if she never win ARC heart as patni thn mistake is wth her ..... so its peak stupidity that prevailed in that period .... so its completely not Bon's fault at ths age, and even not ARC too becoz still he see her as bed wetting child who obeyed his each and every word, bt teen Bon is not the same.... so now its time fr ARC too understand Bon frst and her age related issues wat she s facing .... thn if he speaks up fr sure Bon vl b in track .... hope ths track to go well vthout much melodrama....

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I know what Aniruddh is doing is wrong by getting attracted to Manorama and not sensitively explaining why he doesn't want romantic involvement with Bondita right now.

But isn't Bondita being equally irritating? Instead of concentrating on her studies for which Anirrudh has sacrificed so much, she is taking up KSG's guidance and venturing on getting her husband "back". Like really?? Is this the empowerment CVs want us to see? After pushing for consummation in loveless relationship for adults, make children do it as well??

Why can't both of them go in a direction of settling for a platonic relationship of friendship till Bondita becomes an adult? Why the emphasis on extremes? I want to hope Manorama's entry to have a positive intervention and make them realise this.

Also I get totally disturbed by people supporting Bondita's gimmicks of suhaag n stuff?? Expecting Aniruddh to melt at her antics is totally creepy. Let her grow mentally first and stop thinking that asking for romance is same as asking for a toy and that throwing a tantrum will help.

Exactly, jab tak sab kuch platonic tha we were connected with them but now.... I feel like puking watching episodes.