The 'knot' in the relationship - Page 4

Originally posted by: Remyavenkat

Janaki awesome👏👏your analysis was so good. Mentioning of the knots and your explanation why sai forgive Virat. Yes there are lot of things they have not closed or analyses properly. Sai also have to apologize she also gone too far. What ever a husband and wife have issues u don’t talk about in public. She has to learn that. That too with this kind of family. Let us wait for the other major drama.

True Ramya. Every husband and wife have a few private things to keep between them so while she raised the question about Kaku and PP's intentions in public given the past they share, she actually did not speak about his "Vaada" part in public. If she had spoken about the secret of the vaada he has given "Someone" about celibacy, it would be a complete breach of spousal trust. Even in her rage, she knew she should not say that. I would not hold her partial outburst against her because everyone in that living room made her feel like an 'unwanted wife' - it was totally not their space to enter. But in their public washing of dirty linen, they both crossed lines and yes, Sai should say a sorry too.

The drama will happen because everyone has picked up new things about them that can be used against them. They are not yet in the 'rock solid' stage of relationship where such things won't affect.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Totally agree with you. The apology and the forgiveness were both like a ceasefire. Her statement about his real daravna self and his slightly sulky face while telling her he had plans...both were an indication. At that point, he wanted to stop her from leaving and Sai, I don't really know. Was it just mental exhaustion? Or as I always feared, the moment she starts falling in love, she will start forgiving him his behaviour.

It's the falling in love-- Isn't it natural? I know some of the strongest spouses, who have actually called out someone else's toxicity giving their own husbands or wives many chances to set things right. As they say, even people who are not animal lovers end up becoming crazy about pets if they are forced to live with one for a few months -- ye dono toh phir insaan hain... But yes, this is more like a ceasefire because both of them want this chance. Somehow they do want this chance for each other...

The post apology was cute but felt somewhere 'trying too hard' to get back to normal.

I was put off by the PP dialogue about "jhagda ho gaya"... i got disconnected after that.

The dialogues were not impactful enough today.

And yes, I too feel Sai needs to apologise for her behaviour. She realised she crossed her limit when she spoke to Aaba. She needs to tell Virat the same.

The line about Pakhi was totally 😑. Why should Sai talk about her and why should Virat say he fought with her too etc etc. And Sai's question....why did you fight with her?? Come on, let's be clear, dearie, you don't like their closeness, and you don't mind P substituting for you? Or you genuinely feel you are of no consequence to Virat.

Pata nahi wo kis din dono ek doosre ko apna sach spashthly batayenge. Uss din ek ghee ka diya main apne patience ke liye jalaungi, only if this guy doesn't offer apology to PP for this again and drive me out already 😆

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

Awesome Analysis janki just loved it

Well I liked the epi, I guess the entire root cause of this fight is the fact that she doesn't consider him as her family apna nahi samajti hai woh ,

What I felt after watching episode is that he want a place in her heart her life , he cannot take it when she tell we are opposite wagera wagera , they have come a long way yet had taken few steps back in this progress ,

For her to say what he wants to hear, he has to move from 'family' to spashthly 'husband'...

Even though talking about pakhi in convo , but virat did ask her to forget these stuff u please forgive , so I don't think he will just run all way to vahinis room to apologise her ,

Bhagwaan kare aisa hi ho 😆

virat gives her pain but also cannot see her in pain , how he tried to apply the balm on her hand but she didn't allow him ,

I found so much 'kashish' in that moment when he grabs her hand to apply the balm and she pulls it back. Thereafter, there was no chance of any 'physical comfort' happening because the crux of the mortification was the use of physical force.

like Ashwini said sai ko agar dil seh samjaneh ki koshish karega she will definitely understand it , the moment she realised hangry man is really hungry her expression changed , she won't forget this day this fight for sure but right now she just brushed it down the carpet for sure which will resurface soon

it's every "wife's" expression when the husband uses this starvation weapon to end a fight 🤣That is why i thought it was 'wife' and not Sai Joshi.

, and haa virat ka yeah vada shayad he will follow like he won't deny food for anyone let's see kal ka continuation definitely bhabhi will see navra baiko feeding session aur room mein jaakeh todh podh karega

Waiseh today they used new version of song for them apart from that Ghajini song

Oh finally the suspense ends on that intro music 😆 today it was obvious it was going to be the Ghajini song

Originally posted by: Roch

Good evening Sister, and it was a lovely analysis. While I absolutely liked the episode, your analysis and the parallel drawn was lovely (I have no words actually).

There were moments which were very nicely presented in todays episode. I saw different opinions and different views but I loved it. Be it the body language, scenes all were good and nicely presented I must say. With the emotional tension between them any Romance was out of question (would have loved to see it but it was not the right moment).

There was a post I read, where someone mentioned a hug. How would a girl hug a man who just hurt her a while ago and vice versa. It will take time for that at least. The tension between them was visible, hurt was visible and both of them I think did a good job of putting the point across.

At that moment, it was only about he did not want her leave. And she wanted him know how much he had hurt her.

My comments in Blue 😉

Lets see how the story moves ahead from here on, the relation has changed, the equation has changed. Some facts have been stated, some have been registered. They have spoken something very clearly, she in anger and he in desperation. It was a good scene, well executed and close to reality.

Aaj ka sawal, last week ka precap scene kithe gaya ??? Did the channel decide to edit it or was it the PH. Not that i was keen on watching but phir bhi. Matlab pura hafta ek scene dikha dikha ke paka diya phir gayab. I wonder why 😕

Originally posted by: msin

Rahiman dhaga Prem Ka ..., is always in my mind when I watch these 2 together

Today I felt they were practicing safe distancing .. both badly needed a hug but were Keeping 1 m

Gap ., I wonder if it was intentional

I think it was intentional because when Virat tried to hold her gently, she was already upset about the force he used and went on to ask "ek din haath todh denge"... The hug evidently not going to happen. There was so much hesitation...

Yes apologies were seeked though not given .. sayi was also wrong today because she initiated the mess ..virat aggravated it

there was no introspection from her end .. she took the moral high ground and preached to virat

what I felt it was just a temporary reprieve .,a lull before storm because maha shuvratri which happens in may is tomorrow ..

So they have skipped holi n guDi Padwa . Or will they show sayi in second year of shadi during those period

True. The issues have largely remained unresolved. But I think this confrontation will open doors to some more 'closeness' while they go about building their days..

Shivratri is usually in February but this time it's delayed to March

what is the need to add festival .. just to bring Devyani n pulkit together ..

they could have simply shown it was Kaku hubby ka birth anniversary and there were doing a Puja in his honour .. Devyani by being his only biological child would have got prominence

any ways .. there is a wariness between navra baiko .. navra acknowledges sayi considers him nothing .. her saying it again n again publicly has driven the point in his heart ..

the Haq attitude was long gone. ..he just wanted to be her family ..

Sayi got bowled over .. by his woebegone face and the wife woke up to hear he did not have food .. why could they not step out if the house for the much needed fresh air eat out abd a stress break

Totally 😆

Candy floss bhel puris could be eaten out also ..abd dress change was long required .. today my hubby saw the episode with me on tv .. he remarked for 1 week they are wearing the same set ofclothes .. isn’t it stinking

You are watching the show with your hubby? And even observing the clothes 🤣🤣 My husband is blissfully and thankfully unaware of this new fixation. It will be like arming him with ammunition to roast me 🤣 Lucky you!

Sayi has not forgiven .. the issues are still there ..if they had hugged intimacy could have started .. so they avoided ..

I think the distance they are keeping is an extremely conscious one to be able to keep self-control... one thing leads to another and the "deal, vaada" parts have not beena addressed yet. today was a different day anyway for a hug - the residue of the 'violence' was too strong in between

Pakhi didi was tired so she got a break tomorrow she will get dinner for virat .. what will she step into .. or that will be skipped let us see

Most likely them feeding one another bhel poori from a tapri

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Like I had mentioned earlier , it’s a dead kick situation. Sai expects something from Virat and vice versa . I don’t deny that Virat confused Sai but at the same time Sai cannot expect him to confess his attraction , feelings unless she makes it comfortable for him . She cannot go on saying it’s a deal marriage , he means nothing to her and bringing Pakhi between them . If not anything she needs to stop saying above .

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree with you Janaki.

Sai did not forgive him yet but

Sai is kind hearted. She can’t see even Pakhi suffer. So she also decided to make truce with the situation and move on.

Virat did feel bad for his behaviour but still I am not sure whether he Understood the need to change his dynamics with Pakhi.

Sai’s happiness and relief will be of a matter of days. He will break his promise. I feel sad for her thinking of that moment.

@bold: That is something that needs clarity now.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

And well I confused about what virat was going to tell sai when she asked him why do he care about her planning he said kyomki tum then swallow rest 😆

Waiseh iam glad he moved on from zimmedari to bahoot maina there is lot of progress from virats side looks like deep down banda is already in love aur yeah upcoming separation will help him realise his feelings for her

Originally posted by: SathyaT

Am a kind of person who don't read mails from organisation as it used to be lengthy 😂😂 I used to check with colleague what was that all about 🤣🤣

But I read your post daily word by word with utmost sincerity 🙌🏻 you have an amazing write up skills 😊😊 keep doing ❤️❤️

Also watching the episode again after reading your post makes the same episode better than before 😜😜

Omg, what a compliment that is ! It is going to help me go to bed with a wide smile ☺️🤗❤️

Though Virat asked her to forgive her I couldn't connect to it totally somehow. Maybe because he hasn't realised the crux of this issue or he isn't ready to go into that territory. But shouldn't it be easier for him to voice out that his pyaar for vahini has expired now. When he could communicate it clearly with his brother's wife yaha toh it's sai who has twice raised this issue.

I also don't think sai has forgiven him but yeah the wife did melt. I found his maine bhi nahi khaaya dialogue off. It should have come out as an answer but it felt like he wanted to lessen his share of galti by voicing it out !!!

Though I was offended by pakhi wala comment first then when I rewatched it felt like more of sharing his day with her and she questioned with same intensity. It might not have been that way but this is the best I could deduce of it .

The better part for me is that sai has not vocalised that she forgave him. Now it's like she gave him a chance and is not going to forget this incident anytime soon.

Ohhhh the vaada again !!!!!! I am not one bit hopeful about him living to it. Virat chavan has been a serial vaada breaker 🤦.

Yeah yess sai also should apologise. She already Realised her mistake so I think she will apologize tmrw. Let's see !!!!!