The 'knot' in the relationship - Page 2

Janaki awesome👏👏your analysis was so good. Mentioning of the knots and your explanation why sai forgive Virat. Yes there are lot of things they have not closed or analyses properly. Sai also have to apologize she also gone too far. What ever a husband and wife have issues u don’t talk about in public. She has to learn that. That too with this kind of family. Let us wait for the other major drama.

Totally agree with you. The apology and the forgiveness were both like a ceasefire. Her statement about his real daravna self and his slightly sulky face while telling her he had plans...both were an indication. At that point, he wanted to stop her from leaving and Sai, I don't really know. Was it just mental exhaustion? Or as I always feared, the moment she starts falling in love, she will start forgiving him his behaviour.

The post apology was cute but felt somewhere 'trying too hard' to get back to normal.

The dialogues were not impactful enough today.

And yes, I too feel Sai needs to apologise for her behaviour. She realised she crossed her limit when she spoke to Aaba. She needs to tell Virat the same.

The line about Pakhi was totally 😑. Why should Sai talk about her and why should Virat say he fought with her too etc etc. And Sai's question....why did you fight with her?? Come on, let's be clear, dearie, you don't like their closeness, and you don't mind P substituting for you? Or you genuinely feel you are of no consequence to Virat.

Awesome Analysis janki just loved it

Well I liked the epi, I guess the entire root cause of this fight is the fact that she doesn't consider him as her family apna nahi samajti hai woh ,

What I felt after watching episode is that he want a place in her heart her life , he cannot take it when she tell we are opposite wagera wagera , they have come a long way yet had taken few steps back in this progress ,

Even though talking about pakhi in convo , but virat did ask her to forget these stuff u please forgive , so I don't think he will just run all way to vahinis room to apologise her , virat gives her pain but also cannot see her in pain , how he tried to apply the balm on her hand but she didn't allow him , like Ashwini said sai ko agar dil seh samjaneh ki koshish karega she will definitely understand it , the moment she realised hangry man is really hungry her expression changed , she won't forget this day this fight for sure but right now she just brushed it down the carpet for sure which will resurface soon , and haa virat ka yeah vada shayad he will follow like he won't deny food for anyone let's see kal ka continuation definitely bhabhi will see navra baiko feeding session aur room mein jaakeh todh podh karega

Waiseh today they used new version of song for them apart from that Ghajini song

Rahiman dhaga Prem Ka ..., is always in my mind when I watch these 2 together

Today I felt they were practicing safe distancing .. both badly needed a hug but were Keeping 1 m

Gap ., I wonder if it was intentional

Yes apologies were seeked though not given .. sayi was also wrong today because she initiated the mess ..virat aggravated it

there was no introspection from her end .. she took the moral high ground and preached to virat

what I felt it was just a temporary reprieve .,a lull before storm because maha shuvratri which happens in may is tomorrow ..

So they have skipped holi n guDi Padwa . Or will they show sayi in second year of shadi during those period

what is the need to add festival .. just to bring Devyani n pulkit together ..

they could have simply shown it was Kaku hubby ka birth anniversary and there were doing a Puja in his honour .. Devyani by being his only biological child would have got prominence

any ways .. there is a wariness between navra baiko .. navra acknowledges sayi considers him nothing .. her saying it again n again publicly has driven the point in his heart ..

the Haq attitude was long gone. ..he just wanted to be her family ..

Sayi got bowled over .. by his woebegone face and the wife woke up to hear he did not have food .. why could they not step out if the house for the much needed fresh air eat out abd a stress break

Candy floss bhel puris could be eaten out also ..abd dress change was long required .. today my hubby saw the episode with me on tv .. he remarked for 1 week they are wearing the same set ofclothes .. isn’t it stinking

Sayi has not forgiven .. the issues are still there ..if they had hugged intimacy could have started .. so they avoided ..

Pakhi didi was tired so she got a break tomorrow she will get dinner for virat .. what will she step into .. or that will be skipped let us see

I agree with you Janaki.

Sai did not forgive him yet but

Sai is kind hearted. She can’t see even Pakhi suffer. So she also decided to make truce with the situation and move on.

Virat did feel bad for his behaviour but still I am not sure whether he Understood the need to change his dynamics with Pakhi.

Sai’s happiness and relief will be of a matter of days. He will break his promise. I feel sad for her thinking of that moment.

Am a kind of person who don't read mails from organisation as it used to be lengthy 😂😂 I used to check with colleague what was that all about 🤣🤣

But I read your post daily word by word with utmost sincerity 🙌🏻 you have an amazing write up skills 😊😊 keep doing ❤️❤️

Also watching the episode again after reading your post makes the same episode better than before 😜😜

I hated today's episode. Virat's apology seemed lacking - does he realize the enormity of what he has done to Sai? Shattering her trust and subjecting her to abject humiliation. Both were wrong as far as mud-slinging was concerned, but Virat's behaviour veered towards inhuman. His apology seemed to be coming from his current emotions and his desperation to prevent Sai from leaving. He still seemed self-absorbed. It was unconvincing and I felt a foreboding that it will not stop.

Or are we to assume that with all the flaws that his "asal roop" is showing, his self-absorption, this is the limit of contemplation (of his abuse) that we can expect of him at present?

I confess it is getting more and more difficult to watch the episodes - it is too uncomfortable. I may quit anytime soon.

ok is candy floss enough to eradicate their hunger?🤪

i would have gone mad.🤣why dont these guys eat properly.petrol kaeyliyae they spebd so much,but khanaey kae liyae🤣

Originally posted by: jane_austen

I hated today's episode. Virat's apology seemed lacking - does he realize the enormity of what he has done to Sai? Shattering her trust and subjecting her to abject humiliation. Both were wrong as far as mud-slinging was concerned, but Virat's behaviour veered towards inhuman. His apology seemed to be coming from his current emotions and his desperation to prevent Sai from leaving. He still seemed self-absorbed. It was unconvincing and I felt a foreboding that it will not stop.

Or are we to assume that with all the flaws that his "asal roop" is showing, his self-absorption, this is the limit of contemplation (of his abuse) that we can expect of him at present?

I confess it is getting more and more difficult to watch the episodes - it is too uncomfortable. I may quit anytime soon.

I feel you! Even though Janki's beautiful analysis (as always), did give me some perspective, I just haven't been able to digest these episodes. I liked the last bit of the apology, where they implied that she hadn't forgiven him yet. The family moment tugged at my heart a little, but for some reason this whole episode has left a bad taste in my mouth. The intent of the apology had more to do with Virat trying to wash the ugly stain on his character, him trying to clear his conscience, than genuinely seeking forgiveness from her. The candy floss scene had me cringing, didn't seem organic at all. I am thinking of taking a break from this show too. It's kinda messing with my belief system.

I hated today's episode. Virat's apology seemed lacking - does he realize the enormity of what he has done to Sai? Shattering her trust and subjecting her to abject humiliation. Both were wrong as far as mud-slinging was concerned, but Virat's behaviour veered towards inhuman. His apology seemed to be coming from his current emotions and his desperation to prevent Sai from leaving. He still seemed self-absorbed. It was unconvincing and I felt a foreboding that it will not stop.

@bold - this is exactly what I felt while watching the episode.

Also I couldn’t understand him asking ‘did your father also pacify you like this?’

I confess it is getting more and more difficult to watch the episodes - it is too uncomfortable. I may quit anytime soon.