Hello friends, I know, many of you are blaming Riddima for saying all the rude things to Arman, but the creatives have done a wonderful thing here, they have actually portrayed how a normal girl would behave in a situation like this. Now, please get your jootis & chappals ready, kindly listen to me....
I had a friend who was a simpleton (like Riddima) fell in love (her 1st & only) with a guy who was life of all parties, very jovial, always willing to help out, rather go out of his way to help others, girl used to get really annoyed with his this behaviour, she wanted to change him & make someone like her....but of course no one can change....he did lots of mistakes & so did she but she used to always wonder if they were right for each other, 'cos of their different personalities...eventually they got separated (not for personality reason, but something major)
Now, why did I have to narrate this story (this is a very true story, i know this girl personally) like what Ridz did yesterday, my friend tried doing too, Ridz loves him like crazy, even admitted under bhangs influence, but doesn't want to tell him the truth 'cos she thinks they aren't meant for each other, by hurting Arman, she is trying to make him hate her, she will act so rude & harsh to him, which will make him think why in the world did I ever love this girl???
The reasons, why she thinks they aren't made for each other 'cos she thinks he is irresponsible (leaving Sanjeevni), trying to be super hero (saving muskan from dacoits, going with her to Patiayala), mixing profession & personal life. Then she also had that indirect discussion with Angie, who said that its better for such 2 people not to stay togather. So instead of she getting angry everytime he does something she doesn't want him to, she would rather have him do things his way, 'cos she feels that he is more happy doing those things, than he is with her not letting him do...I hope you guys get what I am saying
I think the creatives have done this very beautifully, when Ridz will realise that this is effecting his career, she will help him out as a friend, she is always with him, even if she says she doesn't love him and eventually they will come togather 'cos this is reel life not real life
Please, I am not siding Ridz, I know she has had her share of issues as well, but I am only to discuss on her y'day's behaviour. I am sorry if I hurted anyone's feeling here. Sorry this topic got very long...mods welcome to close if felt its inappropriate...
Jyoti
Arjun
Anupamaa
