The ONE correct thing Jasmin said! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Biggboss14

Very neutral post👏. Rakhi was absolutely wrong in her nasty behaviour but rubinav also somewhere at the first encouraged her and biggest example is that blouse peticot one. That's why I said that what rakhi wrote on her body is due to the encouragement of rubinav. Actually rubinav never thought that rakhi will go to this extent. But yes after she started talking nasty about rubinav relationship and abhinav hugging her and that nara pulling she is totally wrong and rubinav cannot be blamed for that. That's why I was angry at makers and salman for encouraging rakhi😡

I’m just as angry when it comes to Salman/creatives encouraging Rakhi. I actually posted somewhere that Rakhi should have been thrown out after the incident with Rahul Mahajan itself. I just also find myself disappointed in Abhinav, who genuinely seemed a very sorted human being, for starting this thing and then also ignoring the signs when it was going too far. Like, he clearly knows what’s right and what’s wrong so why didn’t he speak up? That’s not a small thing to just mistakenly ignore, so was it for the attention or did you really not have the guts to stand for what you believed?

Originally posted by: ..Kavi..

I’m just as angry when it comes to Salman/creatives encouraging Rakhi. I actually posted somewhere that Rakhi should have been thrown out after the incident with Rahul Mahajan itself. I just also find myself disappointed in Abhinav, who genuinely seemed a very sorted human being, for starting this thing and then also ignoring the signs when it was going too far. Like, he clearly knows what’s right and what’s wrong so why didn’t he speak up? That’s not a small thing to just mistakenly ignore, so was it for the attention or did you really not have the guts to stand for what you believed?

Originally posted by: dqno1

he did ask sonali to help and sonali finished dressing her

eijaz was present there too

bekaar main nagin jasmean ki tarah kyu dassna?

Rakhi and BB were wrong to start this track aur sara blame abhinav par

biased BB

Rakhi and BB were wrong to start the track? I’m sorry but Abhinav is an adult, he could have said no. As far as Eijaz being there, what does that even matter? Rakhi approached Abhinav, not Eijaz. So the responsibility to react appropriately was on Abhinav, not Eijaz... nor would it have been appropriate for Eijaz to say anything at that moment as a third party. When she approached him in a blouse and petticoat did he not understand what was going on that he started to help her before asking Sonali? Did he not as a grown, married man, have the sense to immediately walk away when she approached him half-dressed? And okay, let’s say he didn’t realize at that moment or did not want to confront her. Why didn’t he go to her after and say “What happened today made me feel uncomfortable and I don’t think it’ll look good on either of us, so from now let’s please stop this flirting track and carry on as normal, casual friends.”?

Also, I’m not even a fan of Jasmin or anyone specifically, I just find myself as a female looking at this and thinking like Jasmin did. I would never allow a man to be this free with me when I barely know him, much less on camera, so why did this man make the choice to let a woman behave so freely with him? Why didn’t he draw boundaries sooner? And since Abhinav didn’t do that, I then look to see why and I can’t think of another reason except that he was benefiting from the track. Because the other reason would be he didn’t have the guts to speak up, but given what we have seen thus far in the season I don’t find that plausible.

Abhinav ka character dheela hai 🤣

Originally posted by: dqno1

he did ask sonali to help and sonali finished dressing her

eijaz was present there too

bekaar main nagin jasmean ki tarah kyu dassna?

Rakhi and BB were wrong to start this track aur sara blame abhinav par

biased BB

Although i agree Abhi should have said no from the begining in the saree matter.. But he did maintain distance ...Ejaz and Sonali were also present

Originally posted by: ..Kavi..

***I know a lot of people find Jasmin incredibly negative and manipulative, so I may get bashed for this. ***

But while I will agree that she definitely harbors an unreasonable amount of anger towards Rubina and Abhinav, there is one thing I can say that she said which was not a matter of bias or perception, but was correct. That was regarding the "blouse-petticoat" incident in which Rakhi basically asked Abhinav to dress her. At that particular moment, Abhinav as a grown man should have had the sense to calmly say "this is going too far".

A) This is NATIONAL/INTERNATIONAL television

B) You are a married man whose family and in-laws, etc. are all watching at home

C) This woman is also (supposedly?) married, and while your wife may be here to watch/approve this, her husband is not, and her family is watching too - (on some level Rakhi didn't think of her own respect BUT even he didn't warn her of the same, which would be the responsible thing to do IMO)

D) You really do not know this woman anywhere near well enough, you met her DAYS ago

E) We all saw her get overly encouraged and overstep with Rahul Mahajan, so quit while you're ahead

And even if he somehow did not have the sense to stop this, why didn't his wife? Nothing/no one is more important to her, as she herself has said and as it should be. So why didn't she take him aside and say, "This is too far, you are putting yourself in a position that you could later regret or could damage your image and respect."?

As a female, I would never put myself in this kind of situation with a person of the other gender, forget about doing so on TV, as Jasmin herself pointed out. Like we'd have to be a relationship, in private and at a very comfortable level, like I wouldn't even do this with my male best friend who I've known practically my whole life.

Now, does any of that necessarily give Rakhi the right to put her hands on Abhinav's person or his clothes? No, that IMO is victim-blaming. But I don't know that even Jasmin said that, although it may have come across as implied, and if that's the case I disagree with her there. But, it is true that Abhinav and Rubina seem to have let Rakhi cross the line in that particular incident because it was convenient.

2 things,

1. For Abhinav, everything was fine until he heard that Rakhi was telling people he hugged her in the luggage room in a lusty manner. That was the threshold for Abhinav and he wanted all touching to stop after that. Would you all be ok if Abhinav was to pull Rakhi's bra strap in the name of entertainment? There are lines which one should not cross.

2. And Jasmean was very vocal on how she is miss shareef while in reality when she was in the house, Ali was kissing her all the time when they were apparently just friends? Who is she to judge anyone? She is so bitter and frankly very negative.

Jasmine is amazing, she looked so beautiful and I am still sad as someone who worked so hard at task especially the boat task, she fought even when she was in the red is out while rubina who ate apples and yelled at people for not being at the bottom of her feet because she is superior. Anyways I think jasmine and salman should do a movie together

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