Suitcase mein Bhar lo "zimmedari", Chavan Saheb! - Page 6

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I agree he's not going there to spend time with Sai because, well, he can't 😆 with Vahini coming along anyway. I think it is to get them to resolve differences because he thinks they are both having misunderstandings with each other. But he's the one who's the maker of the misunderstandings. Even if they do end up going, his jalebis are going to still push Sai away and make Vahini more and more desperate because he will continue with "zimmedari and dosti" discourse. 😵

What a harebrained scheme ..go all the way to Ladakh in February to be icebreaker between them ..

Usey better send the documents by mail to samrat office .. and take both ladies to Goa .. chill by the beach with a glass of wine 🍷 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Lovely analysis as always !!!!!

I usually read one or two posts here before watching the episode and then watch it with a preconceived notion but today only God knows what I was thinking and decided watch the episode first 🤦🤦🤦🤦

Try as I may , I am failing to connect with virat !!!!! The whole characterisation feels so disconnected and shabby to me or did they change his character midway after GC ?????

And this pakhi thing is going overboard !!! He needs to draw lines ...... Yeah he did it mentally but unless he puts them before her she will keep interfering and insulting Sai which virat will only take with expressions of displeasure but wouldn't object to them 🤷

If he wants pakhi to stay in house as samrats wife then she has made it clear it many times that she doesn't give two hoots about him being alive or dead!! Is that not enough for the brother of samrat ( If not as pakhi's friend or sai husband or chavan khandaan ka beta ) to make a decision ???

While he does have tons of patience and deals situations in a peaceful manner without confrontations, he just can't keep supporting pakhi in insulting sai !!! ( Remember silence is half approval ). And today the whole scene of stopping sai from leaving the room citing it as a insult to patralekha didn't go well with me at all. These mature people atleast can't let her live in peace. And why the hell pakhi wants to know where sai is going ??????

My heart broke for our dew drop when she said she don't want to tag along in the trip bcoz family will do her bezatti 💔💔💔💔💔. Imagine the plight of wife in her ..... She can't even go around with her husband !!!!!

I told it many times and will say it again .... Virat NEEDS to WIN sai period.

He has messed it enough for her to not reciprocate his feelings !!!!!!!

Sorry for the rant ... I am just so disappointed with virat character

Originally posted by: yyyy

From what I know, men are not good at understanding the implying meaning and Virat is no different. This is the reason why I feel he will take “he doesn't mean anything to me “ seriously. He might not react immediately but it's registered in his head just like how her simple statements like “I only like Aai” in your house were registered. I don't think Virat is intelligent enough to understand the insecurities behind Sai’s taunt. She is sending the wrong message. I know most of the people feel it's Virat who needs to remove the first barrier but I think Sai needs to give some positive indication that she is ready to move forward in spasth shabdh before that happens.

The major hurdle is their path is pp and the vaada given to her.... This hurdle was created by virat and it still exists... He should atleast remove that hurdle from their path instead of expecting sai to give him signs.... She wont do that until pp is lurking around.

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

Hey janki I was really waiting to read about ur take on today's episode , as usual I really enjoyed reading it ,

Well even though that terrace scene was not needed but it was good that virat is slowly getting to see how good and mature and sensible is his friend opps Vahini is , he is really getting irritated with her so called bakwaas but he was trying to maintain calm composure because he know agar usney kuch aysa waisa bola pakhi will soon pack her bag and create another drama he started to get to know what trump card she is gonna use and ultimately kispar yeah blame jaake girneh wala hai so he was quite thoughtful with words he use with this woman there was no jalebi for her but politely he tried to make sense but even though he has drawn a line in his mind now it's time that he show that line to world especially for his Vahini to show her limit and also he should be but more stern with his words warna yeah dilutional atma usko bhi apneh imagination mein haa mein badlega well also it's build up I felt for snapping all those stupid wadas he will just burst out like volcano when she soon I felt

The showdown will be one of the major points of the drama -- its a hindi serial 😆 itni aasani se thodi hoga 😆 but the build up is making a lot of sense. It is very clear that he has no feelings and she's able to see it and it is driving her crazy. It is a logical way of reaching the point where his endurance for her will break. And, it will also be used by the makers to show his "grace and loyalty" for Sai in her absence and to win all those women back who are currently berating him-- like you, me and hum 🤣

Well SaiRat room wala scene I agree woh question ki zaroorat nahi thi but phirbhi iam glad woh blame toh nahi kiya nah enquire kiya kaiseh pata chala hai without any assumptions , waiseh Virat was really adamant to make his baiko agree to accompany with him to trip toda toda sai ka company ki azar mujhe dekha yaham , but his reasoning was todasa lame but chalo phirbhi kuch toh bola seedha waiseh aswini is right agar sai ko kuch cheez karwana hai usseh pyaar seh samjavoo , but virat neh wahi istamaal kiya , waiseh iam glad he asked to keep his stuff in her bag

It really caught my attention when he corrected it to "mera samaan apne bag me" 😆 it was almost like asking, "meri tumhare bag me kya jagah hai" 🤣

aur bhabhi kelieyh no comments she is one hell dilutional batakti atma but iam also felt like virat ki messages are clearly delivered to bhabhi isliyeh she is going bonkers now aur room scene I felt he would have said more if sai didn't interfere but chalo koyi nahi I really wanted dilutional woman to know her place but I felt bad virat told her (sai) like that , but iam glad to he stopped her from going out showing there is nothing which he wanna hide from her.

Yes, PP's desperation is actually coming from her understanding of the fact that he's drifting apart. She can see he's falling for Sai. But am not sure about forcing someone to stay in order to "hear" unpleasant things. 🤔 Okay it was for the drama but Virat knew PP was going to trigger Sai - he was constantly looking at Sai while paying half-attention to what vahini was talking.

And also in their room scene almost a warzone was created where Virat tried to diffuse the situation u both please calm down what's going on here , waham mujhe pata nhi toda hassi agayi uski situation peh , well virat got a huge shock when sai said pakhi didi virat meri kuch nahi lagti and I don't care woh kisika bhi saath jaaye to ladakh, when he was really irritated with pakhis statement samjaavoo apni biwi ko , then he was replying to pakhi mujeh samjaneh hina then this blow came uskachehra dekhna tha he was so shocked toda pained bhi laga and also pakhis that crooked smile like her mission accomplished , waiseh yeah wala chotta blow ki zaroorat thi janab will learn to open his mouth were ever needed and speak spashth and stern basha

I agree, he was probably going to say more because he was clearly annoyed at PP's biwi ko samjhao because only he and Sai knew that they had already discussed the issue and PP was clearly speaking from her dislike for Sai. But Sai couldnt hold it any longer😆

Well iam ready angry with the way these people are handling Devyani who will tell their child like this chudailom jaisee tayaar hoke kaham jarahi hai like really , waiseh looks like Virat doesn't know what has happened to his tai , may be he was in college that time hostel wagera , chalo KD seh toda alag hai sunny is not related to her and also I didn't like sai Pulkit sir scene today I didn't expect him to tell like that

I think they must have been teenagers who didnt quite get involved in love matters of the family, if the age difference is about 15 years or so may be... just guessing.

Precap sunny neh sahi advice diya hai virat ko but banda wanna take his wife along , toh atleast uski baiko seh real matter bolo nah toh she will get ur point , and when I see pakhis this crooked smile mujhe sach mein kuch aur karnneh ki mann karrahi hai

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Chavan saheb will make one besan jalebi for 'pyaar-osti' ane one paneer jalebi for 'dealwali biwi' and end up saying zimmedari, dost, parivaar and Sai will leave them alone to enjoy the nazaare...

But serious note pe, I think he wants to take Sai also for the moral support she gives him about Samrat -- unlike anyone else in the house. Least of all Samrat's wife. Right after her "bappa sunte hain", he has got this sudden call to Ladakh, whatever be the reason behind it. So, he feels Sai will be that "prayer" he wants. I think he really believes in her goodness and the compassion she has for people she cares about (ek doosre ka achha chahne wala love 😵) so he wants to take her along. I also think, he might have thought any 'sad news' might break PP (high hopes) and may be having Sai will help him comfort her without having to "touch" vahini. Women can do the hugging 🤣 It's like taking along a lady constable when dealing with a woman. Ab someone only tell me, why wasn't there a lady constable with the girl in the hospital 🤣

Really do you want me to comment on the sad news part, may be he is taking Sai to console him after the Sad news (that is still thinkable). After her todays reaction i am speechless, at least a person can be human towards someone. Chalo not human, but you love Virat right then atleast acknowledge that for his sake, i mean the man is feeling helpless and just wants his brother back.

The logical mind says, he likes Sai around, the positivity she has and thats why he wants to take her with him

Lady constable ki toh baat hi mat karo please, lets not get into that dynamics. 🤣

Originally posted by: jane_austen

I agree that our anger at Virat comes from the expectation of being the male lead. If he was a side character, we won't probably care. But even then, there are some serious 'holes' in his character. For me, the most glaring problem is his hurtful take down of Ashwini in front of the whole family. It seems very Ninad-esque. He apologizes and then commits the same crime again. Even men who do not give two cents for their wives, do not insult their mothers. This for me is the biggest barrier - it makes me wonder if he is truly capable of a deep relationship. The fact that he spoke against Ninad's behaviour with Ashwini earlier is irrelevant because he was not tested. Now that he his being pushed, I see glimpses of Ninad coming out - belittling Ashwini, being okay with Sai physically forced to apply alta etc. I can overlook all deficiencies that come out of his insecurity and conflict phobia (including his "wo kahan jayegi" and the slightly manipulative challenge to Sai), but not this serious flaw in character. This flaw often colours my perception of his other bizarre behaviour negatively.

Of course, he does have some bit of that patriarchy in him. And yes, it is sad when he refutes Ashwini just for the sake of avoiding a confrontation. I hate him in those moments. But I guess it would make sense if the story also shows his growth and his readiness to see the truth and stand up against the wrong

As for his reluctance in being stern with Pakhi, it seems to me that Virat has now gotten an idea that Pakhi is not over him yet, but is unaware of her effort to create a divide between himself and Sai nor Pakhi's design on him. He is patient towards her behaviour - because he sees it as arising from Pakhi's frustrations - being lonely and distraught. Pakhi's more serious transgressions (like common suitcase) he dismisses without much thought since he doesn't believe it to be coming from wrong intentions.

Yes, i agree. He doesn't view her actions as "indecent" yet. Am not sure if it will change now. It may not until she makes spashth statement about her intention when Sai leaves.

On a lighter note ......Janki, ACP's maddening behaviour today made forum wasis so 'bechain' for your post - that it inspired a whole post on 'where is janki?' 😆Ab forum wasis ka yeh haal hai, to sochiye bechari Sai ki kya haalat hui hogi iss ACP ke kaaran.🤣

I was blissfully unaware about what happened here until i posted and then began to scroll the topics 😆 But mujhe aaj sach me "Alexa, where you?" wali feeling aayi 🤣 Itna pyaar dene ke liye 🤗

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

The major hurdle is their path is pp and the vaada given to her.... This hurdle was created by virat and it still exists... He should atleast remove that hurdle from their path instead of expecting sai to give him signs.... She wont do that until pp is lurking around.

Originally posted by: ..SunnYaara..

Hello janki aap aagayin.....good to see u back🤗

Thodi Der aap Nahi aayi aur hum pareshan hogaye....

Mujhe kaisa lag raha hai, "kaise samjhaun main..." 😆❤️❤️

I usually watch epi after reading Ur post.... But trust me aaj Aapka post Nahi aaya to I was worried for u.....

Awww thank you so much! 🤗❤️❤️

Waise aaj forum main virat Ku jiss Tarah se chappal padrahe the mujhe laga aapse bhi padenge.....aur Mera BHI mood Nahi tha epi dekhne Ka but kya likhte ho aap....mujhe epi dekhna para......

Virat ke liye ab vahini koi Maine Nahi rakti I think he just jhealofy her bcoz of samrat's absence.....I hope virat's outburst on pakhi kadak ho na ke pheeka.....

Agree!

Once again thank u for taking time to make post for us.....love ya🤗

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Missing your posts in general ❤️🤗🤗 I know we have signed up for something that can really be putting off at some point. That's the reason why I looked up the other versions before deciding to break my decade long hiatus from daily soaps. I still think the story has potential and to me, the visible grey in a character that has to be loveable is very intriguing. It can't be a writing flaw. It is by design. I am watching it to see if they will eventually show the growth in Virat or not. And of course, Sai is still LOVE ❤️

Let's see how many more weeks does it seem to keep me hooked. All the best for your exams if not done yet. Love you 💞❤️

Yeh exams hain ki khatam nahi hotey🤢, but im done for this week 😆

Im all for angst and conflicted relationships. And I don't really mind sequences that puts you off, unless there is an explanation/a critique or it shows some natural progression in the story. Anything would work, a tone difference, a body language or a word used to show that this is not ok. Writers need to upp their game.

Sai will always be love, we have fully boarded the Sai ship- we ain't going back. We might accomodate Virat on that ship tho.🤪

Im a bit detached from the show post the alta sequence, but still sticking with high hopes.