The role of a man in a family are several
A son, A brother, A husband, A protector, A son in law and so on
One must be mature enough to balance those relationships effectively
The relationship of an elder brother and his siblings is very complicated
Almost tom and Jerry like
Speaking from personal experience
An elder brother is such a pain in the arse
But at the same time, he is your confidant
He is your teacher, savior, your protector
Especially in a family with no father figure, An elder sibling might take it his responsibility to look after his younger ones
To step up and make sure their younger siblings never feel the lack of a father in their life
Vansh took the entire responsibility of his family after his father's death
he fulfilled every whim of theirs,
Covered for every mistake of theirs
Because he felt it was his responsibility to do so
He has quite a twisted definition of responsibility
He feels he needs to protect them no matter what they do
and the family knowing this keeps making mistakes overconfident that they have vansh to cover for them.
An example of it is When Aryan had gone overboard with his illegal business and vansh decided to not help him, Chacha emotionally manipulated Vansh by saying the latter took the responsibility to take care of the family no matter what and he can't pull out now and Vansh caved
He failed to understand that taking responsibility does not mean covering for their mistakes, it means to teach them the right path when they go wrong.
Taking responsibility means accepting you are the problem of the matter and the solution, Vansh.
Ishani, the spoilt brat of the family. went through one of those natural emotions that every younger sister goes through in this episode
the realisation that there is another woman in her brother's life
That his priorities might have changed
Especially where the sibling relationship is very strong, such insecurities are understandable
However, after everything we know, it is very had to sympathize with her
If it was Sia, It would have been understandable
But after everything vansh has done for her, Ishani's insecurities does not make sense
Why?
Ishani has the I, me and myself attitude
She loves Vansh, Yes, but not more than herself
She claims to love her brother but fails to understand him
His care, his love, the importance riddhima has in his life
This is evident in the answer she gives to Aryan for the question "At the moment of crisis, Who will Vansh save...You or Riddhima' And she says "Undoubtedly her"
This proves she does not even know him
Vansh who considers the entire wellbeing of his family as his responsibility will never choose between the two
He will put himself through the fire if it saves his sister and his Wife.
Ishani, not understanding this fact is very disappointing.
But, Is Vansh entirely to blame for Ishani's actions...Not at all
Vansh had showered the same amount of love on Sia that he had on Ishani, maybe even more
But while Sia understands her brother's feelings, Ishani refuses to look past her own.
And with miscarriage on the way,
Will she unfairly blame vansh for everything, for failing to keep up with his promise
For choosing Riddhima over her, when he clearly didn't
With her insecurities building,
her hate for riddhima once again surfacing
What will be her reaction to riddhima's pregnancy news.
And Vansh failing to save his nephew, Will his fear of not being able to save his own child increase.
Just when we thought Ishani is being sweet and positive,
The makers threw in a million reasons for her to hate riddhima and for us to hate her
P.S Voot hates me..So i have not seen Episode 187 yet. Will provide my analysis for that after 7.30
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Anupamaa
