Originally posted by: tellyme
everyone understand that he was forced into a marriage on gun point and he was in relationship for last 7yrs.. But did he not have ample time before marriage with Malini to convey the situation to his family... But with his behavior it looks like he was not even considering to tell truth to family and was more scared to hide the truth.. And he definitely should not have married Malini before conveying the truth.
I disagree. If everyone understands that they would not be blaming Aditya entirely for everything that goes wrong with imlie or malini. I have already mentioned in my previous post that Aditya is not God. He is a person with his own set of flaws and I agree he should have tried harder to tell malini but saying that he didn't even consider telling the truth is not true. He tried and her reaction scared him. after marriage to imlie, he was busy trying to run away from the situation. Sometimes people are so deep in denial that they refuse to see or accept things and they try to run away from it. For them, if they say it out loud to anyone it becomes real. If he told his family, there was a chance that he would be pressured again to accept his marriage and forget malini. Again he would lose his autonomy for choosing his life partner. So yes, he made mistakes but not everything is on him. Now when imlie got shot, he finally saw that even though he doesn't love imlie, he does care for her and has even started to accept his marriage and that helped him accept his situation now. He is finally starting to accept his marriage but that doesn't mean he loves imlie. I am hoping writers don't rush Adilie and take their time to develop the characters before they rush it and start a romance track.