Originally posted by: Reeltoreal
@ postmaker i agree with most of what you said ..... but let me tell you how i see it ...
This shaadi is a deal do not expect anything from me .... Virat chavan ke famous words
What he forgot to say was you should not expect anything but I will expect everything from you including your self respect .... even my family will they might never accept you but you have to win them over ...... when did he decide to change the equation ? Or was it the intention from the start 😬🙄
i will speak to you in the same language you do .... virat sir ko amnesia hain sai already said it “ jo jaisa mujhse bolega mein waise hi boloongi unke saath “..... he cannot change his family but she needs to so she can become what ? he cannot give her anything but she should give her everything ..... she is not the bahu but she has to do everything a bahu does under duress guilt tripping her or even for blackmail at times
He is very quick to judge her and question her intention like he is loaded already just needs Pp ki viraat or kk ki mast mast .... why is name calling ok ? Why does not it seem wrong ? What they do to her is wrong on so many counts but Thats permissible why ? He cannot say stop calling her names but its ok to say sai shut up and apologise Really for what ?? Respecting elders is different but bow ur head down to repetitive on loop verbal diarrhea is nerve wracking 😬😬..... gets to anyone if she reached her breaking point blame goes both ways
why the hell should she be the only one indebted to him ? Infact he owes his life to her dad and her in return ....he should stop and think before giving bhashan💆🏼♀️
May be this guy lost his mind while becoming an ACP .... abuse in the name of naam khoon khandaan false pride n prestige 😶..... domestic abuse case might bring him a new perspective on like man up n differentiate between right from wrong taunting is ok torture is not , non stop verbal abuse is harassment etc
Taking a stand and taking a non conventional tone is not wrong but being a hypocrite is .... Virat is an hypocrite preach what u follow and follow what u preach works both ways
Anyway there is nothing in this show that is unique when it comes to female abuse i guess him not even being aware of how his mom was / is treated in the household is selective deaf dumb and blind but PP ji ki izzat and maan rakhni hain unki insult nahin honi hain ..... he can see this but not that ... ab kya bolen isko
Who ever came up with such a thought of an ACP being a part of domestic abuse circle but even a proponent of it seemingly aware or unaware of it is an evil genius ..... i guess ITV will never grow up from this nonsense ever ....
Actually saw an real life crime where a cop says he is love with a rape victim wants to marry her then his family gets involved dahej scheme etcetc the demands never end and when questioned he says what can i say even my family has dreams hopes and aspirations about me they did not want me to marry her but i kind of loved her so dahej etc is mandatory .....
Virat chavan the way he is written does not fall far behind the above true life character i guess ..... pls change the character write up if possible from the way its being tuned .... change over night is not what is needed but a different perspective bcos lots of young girls watch the show
what ever stand or tone they take per their situation they need to learn to stand for themselves with or without a man in life .... sai per me is doing the right thing ..... adapting to what needs to be done in getting her point actoss .
phew that was a very long rant .... dont think will watch this show or any other show ever ..... watched just the precap after skipping for few days and it set me off pretty bad 🤯🤯