Is Begum Arshi a feminist icon?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Begum Arshi can be called a feminist because of the way she conducts herself.

In our society, women are not supposed to talk about sex. They are not allowed to be open about their sexual desires. They are not supposed to make sexual advances or be flirtatious with men.

Men are supposed to make the first move and women are expected to not accept that move easily. Otherwise they are considered characterless.

Begum breaks all these stereotypes and gender norms, by showing that it's okay for women to express their sexual desires, be flirtatious and to make the first move instead of waiting for men to do that.

Begum's this mentality is not liked by people both inside and outside the house, and because of this she's considered loose and immoral?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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All that is good....but Begum has to understand ....that No means No...whether its a man or a woman....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Whoa, I 100% stand behind women equality and freedom of choice but making weird sexual advances/comments to someone who is married/not interested is wrong no matter which gender does it. If a guy were to do it, he would be labeled a creep.

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Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

Whoa, I 100% stand behind women equality and freedom of choice but making weird sexual advances/comments to someone who is married/not interested is wrong no matter which gender does it. If a guy were to do it, he would be labeled a creep.


Exactly...imagine Aly going to Rubina and telling her ki main tumhe apne bachhe ki maa banaunga ....I mean I like Arshi...I enjoy her antics but then there is a line of decency she crosses...which is not cool..

What some women not understand that the concept of feminism came because of some very brave women who fought for equality.....ab equality ka matlab ye nahi ki aap uska advantage lene lago...if man who catcalls women needs to be called out ...so does a woman who does the same...

Arshi has a lot of potential....but she doesn't know where to stop.....like she broke the chair yesterday...arre bhai....chair ne kya bigada tha...😆 I want Arshi to tone down a little...then her game will be excellent....abhi kya hota hai...she does 10 entertaining things...and then she will one thing that is not appropriate and that becomes the highlight....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

Whoa, I 100% stand behind women equality and freedom of choice but making weird sexual advances/comments to someone who is married/not interested is wrong no matter which gender does it. If a guy were to do it, he would be labeled a creep.

agreed


constant bickering and galliya dena is not appealing on anyone

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I hope not. Nobody cares about her sexual desires. She’s hated because she deliberately irritates people and tries to dominate them. She footlicks the very people who treat like her shit like Aly and Ejaz, and hurts people who actually care about her. She backstabbed her friends, to make VG as the captain. She shamelessly supported the guy who physically assaulted her. Her reason is, she wants to clear her image.😕😔. Thats tge opposite of feminism. Any real feminist would stand up for her self respect and not care about image building by siding with her abuser

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I had no idea becoming a feminist icon was that easy? Like you don't have to have any radical impact on the lives of woman but just be loud and OTT?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harley_Quinn

Begum Arshi can be called a feminist because of the way she conducts herself.

In our society, women are not supposed to talk about sex. They are not allowed to be open about their sexual desires. They are not supposed to make sexual advances or be flirtatious with men.

Men are supposed to make the first move and women are expected to not accept that move easily. Otherwise they are considered characterless.

Begum breaks all these stereotypes and gender norms, by showing that it's okay for women to express their sexual desires, be flirtatious and to make the first move instead of waiting for men to do that.

Begum's this mentality is not liked by people both inside and outside the house, and because of this she's considered loose and immoral?

Absolutely! Awsome post !

I agree . Our culture doesnt acknowledges women's demands for sex and taboo to talk about it even in humour.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Equine

I hope not. Nobody cares about her sexual desires. She’s hated because she deliberately irritates people and tries to dominate them. She footlicks the very people who treat like her shit like Aly and Ejaz, and hurts people who actually care about her. She backstabbed her friends, to make VG as the captain. She shamelessly supported the guy who physically assaulted her. Her reason is, she wants to clear her image.😕😔. Thats tge opposite of feminism. Any real feminist would stand up for her self respect and not care about image building by siding with her abuser

I was happy that she made vikas gupta as a captain because aly n rahul only together to kill time in bb and to make their group stronger . Happy that Rahul didnt get chance to b a csptain caz i saw he changes his tune according person to person .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShahZur

I was happy that she made vikas gupta as a captain because aly n rahul only together to kill time in bb and to make their group stronger . Happy that Rahul didnt get chance to b a csptain caz i saw he changes his tune according person to person .

Ofcourse you are happy that Rahul didn’t get a chance bcoz you hate him. And that’s fine.But, that’s not the point. Tge point is, VG assaulted Arshi and humiliated her. And she goes and does a favor fir him bcoz she wants to clear her image 😕. And then she grovells infront of RahLy to forgive her 🤣. And she says Vikas is the worst captain and that she shouldn’t have made him captain 🤣. Forget about a feminist, any person with an ounce of self respect wouldn’t do what she’s doing.

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