Originally posted by: mahiaana
@bold and the most beautiful thing abour sai that touched my heart is she's not holding that now. She did that accusation that time when was in total sorrow. But now i think she has understood the situation thats why she never mentioned about it again or hold that inside. You know in other dramas how we see leads holding these types of things in their heart and blah blah "can't fall in love with a person for whom i lost my father" this type of dialogue i meant. Plus she never gave virat's family back with "this is my father for whom virat is still alive " after all the nonsense taunts and torture.
I agree. She was just blinded by IMMENSE grief. And projection is the MOST common defense mechanism. almost every single one of us has done it consciously or unconsciously. You could see her stance soften and her acceptance of reality and all this not being Virats fault even when she went to meet him before the marriage. She acknowledged that he saved her life twice and asked him to save it again by not marrying her. And while she does retort and answer back, she will never accuse virat for her fathers death. She never meant it and everyone including Virat knew that. Yes it was hurtful for Virat to hear all that but he could see that she did NOT mean it.