BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 49

Originally posted by: silverfox

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Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

@bold 1 and 2 - Situations might differ , people may differ, support inside may differ. I am comparing that situation to this only for mental breakdown. Nothing else is common.

Bala’s breakdown not because of cornering. He was frustrated. Agreed he got frustrated by failing to provoke Aari. On top of that, Bala thought Aari labeled him as Somberi for audience and influence them, which became true - you can see Somberibala hashtag everywhere in SM from yesterday.

@bold 3 - I am not covering up his negatives, I listed everything out more than his haters. I never said what he did was correct or only BB team/Aari responsible for that. I clearly said Bala’s breakdown is his own doing. I was only trying to explain what BB was doing. How they manipulate people inside for their own trp game.

@bold 4 - He listens to advice, changed himself but the minute he gets provoked everything goes in vain. It is his nature, short tempered, anger issues, not knowing what he is saying at the time of peak anger. I am not supporting him for this , I am talking aloud about his character.

@bold : if Bala has not reacted that bad, that word would not even have registered this much with audience ..

Originally posted by: llptch

For me, Bala's behaviour isn't some mental disturbance, frustration, cornering etc. It's a total combination of Aishwarya, Yaashika, and Mahath from season 2. With him being close friends with Yaashika, she would have told him all the behind-the-scenes tactics, how to get noticed, what helped them in the show etc. His manner of screaming and twisting words is exactly like Aishwarya, and just like Yaashika he drops provoking statements in the middle of other's fights and covers it up by forming groups to support him. Like Mahath, he keeps a paavamaana face during the weekend episode after getting dose from Kamal.

Mahath I felt had anger issues, but he was genuinely sorry whenever he apologised and made a lot of good friends inside which he held on to even after coming out. Aishwarya was a total nut case, and I can see Bala is almost emulating her. She used to have a hot and cold behaviour with Mumtaj, just like Bala changes his statements whenever he wants. Bala reminds me of that Vadivel comedy where he prays for his parents in the day and then hits them in the night. "Adhu vera vaai, idhu naara vaai".

Originally posted by: silverfox

Posting my reply again which was posted in promo thread :

Even BB asked Shivani,aajeedh,nisha,Ramesh what they did in the show ?? Indirectly told them they are not doing anything ?? Did they go mad and started shouting,fighting ?.

BB can do anything , that is the format .. contestants need to decide what they want to do ..

In the middle after the storm eviction, he acted goody-goody and then if they say they want to become villain, he will become as a villain ???

Agree , this is exactly what I call immaturity of Bala. Some people can be immatured even in 60s. Bala thought people outside liked him to fight, liked the villain version of Bala through all the feedback he got. So he was waiting to fight/provoke Aari . He did that very well in WP nomination. He should have stopped with that if he wanted to play this game well.

Where he went wrong is , losing control over his mind in the jail . He shouldn’t have behaved that way both for his sake as well as for the audience (support/votes).

From what I have understood about Bala, he loses self control in anger . He says things and forgets about that incident or what he said after sometime. Not forget literally , what I mean is he clears that situation or fight in his mind and will become normal once he calms down . He will talk normally to the same person who he was fighting with . Some people don’t talk out the differences in open and keep them in mind , carrying baggage. I have seen both these kind of people in real life .
category 1 - If there are mad abt something, they talk it out , shout/fight/clear it out/ pour out the anger and move on. Ex - Bala
category 2 - Some won’t say anything bad during a disagreement , just keep calm but later after many months would talk abt that incident fresh like carrying a baggage. Ex - Aari

Busy today , will come back when free to answer rest of the posts. To posts I don’t want to reply, will ignore 😉.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Agree , this is exactly what I call immaturity of Bala. Some people can be immatured even in 60s. Bala thought people outside liked him to fight, liked the villain version of Bala through all the feedback he got. So he was waiting to fight/provoke Aari . He did that very well in WP nomination. He should have stopped with that if he wanted to play this game well.

Where he went wrong is , losing control over his mind in the jail . He shouldn’t have behaved that way both for his sake as well as for the audience (support/votes).

From what I have understood about Bala, he loses self control in anger . He says things and forgets about that incident or what he said after sometime. Not forget literally , what I mean is he clears that situation or fight in his mind and will become normal once he calms down . He will talk normally to the same person who he was fighting with . Some people don’t talk out the differences in open and keep them in mind , carrying baggage. I have seen both these kind of people in real life .
category 1 - If there are mad abt something, they talk it out , shout/fight/clear it out/ pour out the anger and move on. Ex - Bala
category 2 - Some won’t say anything bad during a disagreement , just keep calm but later after many months would talk abt that incident fresh like carrying a baggage. Ex - Aari

Originally posted by: silverfox

@bold : if Bala has not reacted that bad, that word would not even have registered this much with audience ..

Agree , Bala wanted to put a full stop to that then and there. Otherwise Aari would drag it for many days for future arguments using it like his thaghudi/fit certificate. Bala reacted very strongly and failed miserably 😒 .

Originally posted by: rosel

Bala has baggage-aari luggage-gabi,in many places he showed it

He was talking/backbiting about Gaby or Aari from game point of view. He wanted to show Gaby as negative to save his friends from elimination at times. I dont think he has personal grudge/baggage towards Gaby , he was shown talking to her well many times after a disagreement for ex even after that gold egg task , he was sitting and duscussing with Gaby.
He may carry baggage about with Aari though . He is a normal human being , will have his personal liking/disliking towards others. Not everyone can be a robo like person without showing emotions like Aari (inside BB ).

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Busy today , will come back when free to answer rest of the posts. To posts I don’t want to reply, will ignore 😉.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

He was talking/backbiting about Gaby or Aari from game point of view. He wanted to show Gaby as negative to save his friends from elimination at times. I dont think he has personal grudge/baggage towards Gaby , he was shown talking to her well many times after a disagreement for ex even after that gold egg task , he was sitting and duscussing with Gaby.
He may carry baggage about with Aari though . He is a normal human being , will have his personal liking/disliking towards others. Not everyone can be a robo like person without showing emotions like Aari (inside BB ).

One week ok,but he's continously doing it,save friends or save himself?

He mocked aari not once but twice!(i only remember 2 instances)

Showing emotions is one's choice,aari has showed emotions at needed places,he has avoided unecessary reactions imo