BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 48

Originally posted by: rosel

Didnt aari announce that he will point others mistake out and say,he said that in chapati issue week,at that time all HM's were solunga solunga,maybe they thought what he will do

Now him pointing mistake is a big problem for HM's and broke every HM's strategy,yet none still able to break his strategy!

He's using BB strategy and it worked!

Though aari is playing BB game , I feel for the contestants .. but this is where Ramya scores for me, in my eyes. She does not take anything into her head and keeps it cool . I am yet to see her break .. even som for that matter scores well ..

bala and rio lost it big time ..

Originally posted by: silverfox

Though aari is playing BB game , I feel for the contestants .. but this is where Ramya scores for me, in my eyes. She does not take anything into her head and keeps it cool . I am yet to see her break .. even som for that matter scores well ..

bala and rio lost it big time ..

Ramya not standing up at different places + neutral game is my problem,she voices out opinion when it goes beyond control

So far someone who is in the game and faced alot and changed well according to game is gabi,she's actual all-round player,so far the best in task among all remaining female contestants

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

I have been a silent reader, as most of the time I don’t know what to write which could be interesting and contributing to the discussion.

But I wanted to add my 2 cents to the Ramya situation.

She stopped Aari only because he himself said a few minutes before that Balaji shouldn’t interrupt during nomination and it is against the rule.

She just told nicely (for me it was in a very nice way and not a mocking way) to Aari: “Bro you just yourself said one should not interrupt while talking so let him talk.” Even Aari acknowledged it smiling and nodding his head.

While putting both of them into the jail she was joking and even Aari took it in a playful way and were playfully talking. Even Som started it with saying ‘now you start your show’ and then she added with morning show etc.

I am Ramya biased maybe my views for her are a little bit softer than for the others. If so then I am sorry :-)

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I was going to write the same thing . Thank you for saving my time 👍🏼.

Welcome to the forum 🤗. Please try to participate as much as you can and give your feedback .

I made few posts in promo thread which are more suitable for discussion forum. So posting them here.

Everyone have different maturity levels , age is not a factor. Aajeedh, Gaby who are younger than Bala have more maturity than him. I am not giving age as excuse for his behaviour. Bala is like Bala, he is short tempered, immatured at times, going tit for tats, throwing tantrums, anger issues, raising voice to bully others etc etc.

I am not victimising him , otherwise I wont list out his negatives , will try to hide them and paint a good picture about him and will say only others are wrong, he is right etc. I am saying Bala is wrong at this time yet he was used for the program.

Is he is doing all these things from yday for provoking Aari ? In my opinion, no. If he wants to provoke Aari, he would do it different way, Bala is capable of that play also. Right now, he is behaving like Oviya, Barani, Madhumita - mentally lost the game. He might walk out of the show anytime either by himself or by red card.

he would leave unless someone helps him to calm down or explain things to him. Ramya or KH are the only help he can get, in this situation when he is still inside.

Originally posted by: silverfox

Idhu nalla irukke .. what about when he behaved irrationally with other contestants, spoke rudely , even that would have broke others emotionally .. when it happens to him , the show itself is doing something wrong nu solreenga.

When Bala behaved bad with other contestants, show didn’t do anything behind the scene for that. This time for Bala’s behaviour- I am saying from what I saw , I saw BB asking him to become old Bala during confession room time. His brother gave interview after coming out , he told Bala what BB team asked to say. He wasn’t saying in complaining tone and all. He is so naive not knowing what to say out or what not to say. So it proves what I said , BB team wanted Bala to become villain. Same thing they conveyed to Bala through other families.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

I made few posts in promo thread which are more suitable for discussion forum. So posting them here.

Everyone have different maturity levels , age is not a factor. Aajeedh, Gaby who are younger than Bala have more maturity than him. I am not giving age as excuse for his behaviour. Bala is like Bala, he is short tempered, immatured at times, going tit for tats, throwing tantrums, anger issues, raising voice to bully others etc etc.

I am not victimising him , otherwise I wont list out his negatives , will try to hide them and paint a good picture about him and will say only others are wrong, he is right etc. I am saying Bala is wrong at this time yet he was used for the program.

Is he is doing all these things from yday for provoking Aari ? In my opinion, no. If he wants to provoke Aari, he would do it different way, Bala is capable of that play also. Right now, he is behaving like Oviya, Barani, Madhumita - mentally lost the game. He might walk out of the show anytime either by himself or by red card.

he would leave unless someone helps him to calm down or explain things to him. Ramya or KH are the only help he can get, in this situation when he is still inside.

When Bala behaved bad with other contestants, show didn’t do anything behind the scene for that. This time for Bala’s behaviour- I am saying from what I saw , I saw BB asking him to become old Bala during confession room time. His brother gave interview after coming out , he told Bala what BB team asked to say. He wasn’t saying in complaining tone and all. He is so naive not knowing what to say out or what not to say. So it proves what I said , BB team wanted Bala to become villain. Same thing they conveyed to Bala through other families.

Posting my reply again which was posted in promo thread :

Even BB asked Shivani,aajeedh,nisha,Ramesh what they did in the show ?? Indirectly told them they are not doing anything ?? Did they go mad and started shouting,fighting ?.

BB can do anything , that is the format .. contestants need to decide what they want to do ..

In the middle after the storm eviction, he acted goody-goody and then if they say they want to become villain, he will become as a villain ???

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Everyone have different maturity levels , age is not a factor. Aajeedh, Gaby who are younger than Bala have more maturity than him. I am not giving age as excuse for his behaviour. Bala is like Bala, he is short tempered, immatured at times, going tit for tats, throwing tantrums, anger issues, raising voice to bully others etc etc.

I am not victimising him , otherwise I wont list out his negatives , will try to hide them and paint a good picture about him and will say only others are wrong, he is right etc. I am saying Bala is wrong at this time yet he was used for the program.

Is he is doing all these things from yday for provoking Aari ? In my opinion, no. If he wants to provoke Aari, he would do it different way, Bala is capable of that play also. Right now, he is behaving like Oviya, Barani, Madhumita - mentally lost the game. He might walk out of the show anytime either by himself or by red card.

Edited to add - he would leave unless someone helps him to calm down or explain things to him. Ramya or KH are the only help he can get, in this situation when he is still inside.

Here bala himself created that situation and no one cornered him,most HM's are his friends

He's provoking aari since this week,he tried all methods and when he failed to make aari mad,he himself lost it and started behaving in violent manner all for a somberi word,let me tell you what he said

Ne oru baeku,muttal

Soru thana thingra

Which is provoking somberi or baeku/muttal?

You're pointing his negative but covering up with an explanation on why its not negative!

That red card is long due!

How many times does he need advise,he got all levels of advise,soft to hard yet he didnt change

Posted from promo thread for further discussion

Originally posted by: rosel

This is what i said,oviya,barani,madhu all were in different situations,most of co-contestants were against them

Here bala himself created that situation and no one cornered him,most HM's are his friends

He's provoking aari since this week,he tried all methods and when he failed to make aari mad,he himself lost it and started behaving in violent manner all for a somberi word,let me tell you what he said

Ne oru baeku,muttal

Soru thana thingra

Which is provoking somberi or baeku/muttal?

You're pointing his negative but covering up with an explanation on why its not negative!

That red card is long due!

How many times does he need advise,he got all levels of advise,soft to hard yet he didnt change

Posted from promo thread for further discussion

@bold 1 and 2 - Situations might differ , people may differ, support inside may differ. I am comparing that situation to this only for mental breakdown. Nothing else is common.

Bala’s breakdown not because of cornering. He was frustrated. Agreed he got frustrated by failing to provoke Aari. On top of that, Bala thought Aari labeled him as Somberi for audience and influence them, which became true - you can see Somberibala hashtag everywhere in SM from yesterday.

@bold 3 - I am not covering up his negatives, I listed everything out more than his haters. I never said what he did was correct or only BB team/Aari responsible for that. I clearly said Bala’s breakdown is his own doing. I was only trying to explain what BB was doing. How they manipulate people inside for their own trp game.

@bold 4 - He listens to advice, changed himself but the minute he gets provoked everything goes in vain. It is his nature, short tempered, anger issues, not knowing what he is saying at the time of peak anger. I am not supporting him for this , I am talking aloud about his character.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

@bold 1 and 2 - Situations might differ , people may differ, support inside may differ. I am comparing that situation to this only for mental breakdown. Nothing else is common.

Bala’s breakdown not because of cornering. He was frustrated. Agreed he got frustrated by failing to provoke Aari. On top of that, Bala thought Aari labeled him as Somberi for audience and influence them, which became true - you can see Somberibala hashtag everywhere in SM from yesterday.

@bold 3 - I am not covering up his negatives, I listed everything out more than his haters. I never said what he did was correct or only BB team/Aari responsible for that. I clearly said Bala’s breakdown is his own doing. I was only trying to explain what BB was doing. How they manipulate people inside for their own trp game.

@bold 4 - He listens to advice, changed himself but the minute he gets provoked everything goes in vain. It is his nature, short tempered, anger issues, not knowing what he is saying at the time of peak anger. I am not supporting him for this , I am talking aloud about his character.

If its situation then it should be aari,sanam who should have breakdown not bala,facing insults from grown man yet he didnt react nor cry,adjustment,slipper shot,kala netradhu...sanam,aari faced the worst than bala

Its not trending cos aari said it,its trending cos bala himself said more than 10 times and generalised it,enna yarum somberi'nu solla kudadhu ena na olaichirken but na mathavanga olaipa compromise/varakadalai'nu solulam?Idhu endha oor nyayam

See you reply for with 1,2...that's what am saying,giving an explanation

That's not called change,that's called flipping/acting,his anger is selective esp towards gabi,aari why not shivani,ramya,rio?

Even in anger he was defending with right points,how does one have that clarity,kovam kadha maraikum,While bala argued ge listened and reacted accordingly with proper points

Originally posted by: rosel

If its situation then it should be aari,sanam who should have breakdown not bala,facing insults from grown man yet he didnt react nor cry,adjustment,slipper shot,kala netradhu...sanam,aari faced the worst than bala

Its not trending cos aari said it,its trending cos bala himself said more than 10 times and generalised it,enna yarum somberi'nu solla kudadhu ena na olaichirken but na mathavanga olaipa compromise/varakadalai'nu solulam?Idhu endha oor nyayam

See you reply for with 1,2...that's what am saying,giving an explanation

That's not called change,that's called flipping/acting,his anger is selective esp towards gabi,aari why not shivani,ramya,rio?

Even in anger he was defending with right points,how does one have that clarity,kovam kadha maraikum,While bala argued ge listened and reacted accordingly with proper points

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For me, Bala's behaviour isn't some mental disturbance, frustration, cornering etc. It's a total combination of Aishwarya, Yaashika, and Mahath from season 2. With him being close friends with Yaashika, she would have told him all the behind-the-scenes tactics, how to get noticed, what helped them in the show etc. His manner of screaming and twisting words is exactly like Aishwarya, and just like Yaashika he drops provoking statements in the middle of other's fights and covers it up by forming groups to support him. Like Mahath, he keeps a paavamaana face during the weekend episode after getting dose from Kamal.

Mahath I felt had anger issues, but he was genuinely sorry whenever he apologised and made a lot of good friends inside which he held on to even after coming out. Aishwarya was a total nut case, and I can see Bala is almost emulating her. She used to have a hot and cold behaviour with Mumtaj, just like Bala changes his statements whenever he wants. Bala reminds me of that Vadivel comedy where he prays for his parents in the day and then hits them in the night. "Adhu vera vaai, idhu naara vaai".