Straight forward girl matlab arrogant and rude??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

she meant all of that sarcastically😆

Oops sorry 🙇

Originally posted by: Ansh_Arora0

Wow! What a clever reply 💥 but ur reply doesn't answer my question. Maine puchha ki straight forward ladki hone ka matalab being arrogant/rude hai kya?

Waise bhi Pakhi jese susheel bahu se Sai jesi rude ladki pasand hai humko

What do you think narcissistic means?!

Originally posted by: Dimagnehihai

I know ko explanation dene se bhi aap Sai ko buri hi kahohe isliye maine Sai style mein aap ko reply kiya

Waise bhi Pakhi jese susheel bahu se Sai jesi rude ladki pasand hai humko

Again clever reply 😅, I like it. But I must say that ur reply wasn't a straight forward one🤷‍♀️.

Phir aapke last statement 🧐 well, mujhe isse koi farak nahi padta😄ki aap kisko kisse zyada pasand karte he

Slave.

Am I in a colonial era?

This post is abhorring and I only read one paragraph of it.

How is she arrogant if she went to Pakhi's house and apologized to her?

This is the definition of narcissism on google: selfishness, involving a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and a need for admiration, as characterizing a personality type.

Now tell me how does Sai fit into being selfish if all she is thinking about is getting Pakhi back to the CM? How does she lack empathy when she understands that V and the Fam are upset about Pakhi leaving, thus she went to get her back even though she doesn't need to? Did she ever ask for people to admire her? No, she gets all the admiration because of her hard work and kind nature. She topped the board exam, and the whole GC mayor and her school recognized her for her accomplishment. She didn't ask anyone to give her a medal. In fact, when she got her results back she was upset that the letter she got was not her dad's VRS letter, but a congratulatory letter from the Education department. Then on to the biggest one, a sense of entitlement. Who is one bragging about class, race, caste, and status? Is it Sai or TMK and Pakhi? We all know TMK is a master of reminding Sai of her status. How does Pakhi play in this? First, she does not retort when TMK compares her with Sai. Silence is a form of agreement. So her being silent when Sai is degraded for things she doesn't have control of (class, status, etc.), she is actually agreeing to all of this. Next, she calls Usha maushi as "Usha," thus not giving her any respect because she just thinks of her as a maid, a person beneath her. Even Karishma calls her "Usha maushi."

Jab sach itna kadva hota hai toh bolne wali rude toh lagega 😆

I agree that Sai should atleast inform her MIL ( with whom she is sharing a warm bond ) where is she going..she never informs anyone because they won't let her do anything according to her will 😆.

but we should also notice that Sai is taking USHA maushi with her always because she has nothing to hide

There are times where one has to be straight forward and blunt and other times tact and diplomacy are needed

It’s called adapting to the situation ...reading the room etc

as for Sai for the most part her attitude has been warranted because the context has been created as such

Pakhi is a b&&@& so we need Sai to cut that

The rest of her in laws are 2 faced snakes so she is blunt

How ever her mother in law is kind to her and we see Sai behaving with more diplomacy towards her

it’s about context and situations

Btw 98% of the people in this show pretty much suck and are a bunch of nasty b@@&y snakes !!

Sai is actually the perfect bahu for the Chavan khandan, Chavans are often rude and obnoxious so she's like the walking avatar of rudeness and lacks even the basic manners.

She wants the Chavans to eat out of the palm of her hands and always wishes everyone to be at her back and call the way her father did. Girl has her heart in the right place but it's completely her father's fault that she turned out to be so offensive and arrogant. Even simple questions are war calls for her. Sab ko uska sun na padega aur wo kisi ki nehi sunegi. Bilkul bigad ke rakh diya hai Kamal Joshi aur Usha mausi ne Sai ko. She herself frankly admit mein apne Aba ke ghar aise hi karti thi !! Without any shame or reflection what exactly she just said, basically reinforcing everyone's belief that she's like this because of lack of sanskar.

She cooks for the family , because she likes force feeding them when they are least interested in eating the food cooked by her. And on the other side , everyday she fights with the elders of the family over every small thing. She only spared Ashwini as she's blind to her bahu and she hates Pakhi and she's basically living life vicariously through her new DIL.

I can see a future Bhabani in Sai , someone who puts down every one so she can control them and basically unapologetic.

Your manners is something you owe to yourself than to other. It says who you are , not who you are talking to.

It's a good thing that her husband is basically overburdened with both guilt and gratitude that her father died saving him or else no husband will tolerate this kind of behavior from his wife.

But he should discipline her from time to time , as her mentor and father figure ,or else the outside world will hurt her because there no one will give her an inch for what she might've been through.

She has no middle ground. She has no idea how to give a classy yet befitting reply. Her agitated chaotic energy can not control the situation but only escalate it every time.

Comparing Mauli with this unpolished slip of a girl is a mistake of highest order. Mauli was a mature independent strong level headed patient woman . Sai still has a long way to go before the word maturity can even be remotely used in her context.