Straight forward girl matlab arrogant and rude??? - Page 3

Sai is a straight shooter. If anyone feels she is rude or arrogant, toh yeh uski soch.

A lot of times people don’t like straight shooters.
She definitely needs to pick and choose her battles. She is an 18 yr old. She will learn to do that.

No, one doesn't need to be rude to be straight forward

but

If you say something straight to someone, it is surely going to look rude

E.g.

If I am in a situation where someone asks me if I can do some work on behalf of them and if I am straight saying NO without giving any false excuses it ought to look rude

If someone asks money and I will say sorry I can't give instead of I don't have it is going to look rude

I don't think what sai did was wrong, everyone has different opinion and way of living life

If she is living in the house doesn't mean she need to tell everything

Everyone has personal space and they need to understand

Sometimes it's not always necessary to tell ur husband where are u going until they asks u don't lie but taking permission and telling everything is not necessary

Personal space is very important for everyone

You must be kidding me if you think the the chavans even care about her 0.1%. Have we been watching the same show? They, especially your Bhavani Kaku who cares so much for everyone in the house, doesn’t leave an chance of reminding Sai of her aukat and class. Insults her and her abba in front of the guest and not only Sai, but even Ashwini, she doesn’t respect at all. An eye for an eye. If Bhavani isn’t going to show respect to Sai, why should she? Just because someone is older than you doesn’t mean they automatically deserve respect, it is earned which the Chavan, except Ashwini, do not deserve.

You must not know the meaning of narcissist if you think Sai is one. Because oh my god, she is such a narcissist for going to pakhi’s house, apologizes when she did nothing wrong just for virat and that ungrateful family. And Pakhi, uske andar toh tameez kut kut ke bhara hain. She always thinks about other people. That’s why she took samrat’s missing case as an way for her to leave that family because she couldn’t handle her devar and his wife being close. So selfless I tell you

And seriously? You are gonna compare Mauli and sai’s in-laws. Mauli had such a supporting mother in law who even slapped her son and disowned him after finding out about his EMA. Sai’s in-laws are the very opposite to that. Unka bas chalena toh Sai ko deke maar ke ghar se nikalde.

I accept that Sai does tend to make bato ka batangad at times but it serves the Chavan family right. And also, she is young, just eighteen while Mauli was already in her late 20’s if not older. Of course they are not gonna have the same sense of maturity so comparing them makes no sense. Aur Sai is much more mature than your Pakhi.

And as for you question, no being straightforward doesn’t mean being arrogant or rude but sometimes the truth is soo bitter that the person comes of as rude. Which is the case with Sai and Chavan family.

In my opinion sai is not rude... she is someone who doesn’t use sweetness and tells the truth on your face... most of the time truth is bitter in taste and not everyone likes that.... we have that saying “sach kadva hota hai” and those who speaks bitter truth are always consider rude and arrogant

Also we have to consider her age... she’s only 18... a teenager.... we all know what happens in that age... all the teenagers boys and girls have that rush of energy, lots of changes happens in body and life.... transitional period of life...most of the teenagers faces this irritation and top of that she lost her father... that jagtap’s harassment... and her marriage and the worst in laws

Not only her, anyone can lose sanity... I would appreciate her that she was Surviving in that mental house... where anyone can insult her and interfere in her life...

I would call sai’s behavior is a self defense..... it’s not rudeness..., it’s her right

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

You must be kidding me if you think the the chavans even care about her 0.1%. Have we been watching the same show? They, especially your Bhavani Kaku who cares so much for everyone in the house, doesn’t leave an chance of reminding Sai of her aukat and class. Insults her and her abba in front of the guest and not only Sai, but even Ashwini, she doesn’t respect at all. An eye for an eye. If Bhavani isn’t going to show respect to Sai, why should she? Just because someone is older than you doesn’t mean they automatically deserve respect, it is earned which the Chavan, except Ashwini, do not deserve.

You must not know the meaning of narcissist if you think Sai is one. Because oh my god, she is such a narcissist for going to pakhi’s house, apologizes when she did nothing wrong just for virat and that ungrateful family. And Pakhi, uske andar toh tameez kut kut ke bhara hain. She always thinks about other people. That’s why she took samrat’s missing case as an way for her to leave that family because she couldn’t handle her devar and his wife being close. So selfless I tell you

And seriously? You are gonna compare Mauli and sai’s in-laws. Mauli had such a supporting mother in law who even slapped her son and disowned him after finding out about his EMA. Sai’s in-laws are the very opposite to that. Unka bas chalena toh Sai ko deke maar ke ghar se nikalde.

I accept that Sai does tend to make bato ka batangad at times but it serves the Chavan family right. And also, she is young, just eighteen while Mauli was already in her late 20’s if not older. Of course they are not gonna have the same sense of maturity so comparing them makes no sense. Aur Sai is much more mature than your Pakhi.

And as for you question, no being straightforward doesn’t mean being arrogant or rude but sometimes the truth is soo bitter that the person comes of as rude. Which is the case with Sai and Chavan family.

Sai literally has no flaw outside of being temperamental to the point of escalating arguments more than necessary. Other than that, her anger and her talking back to people are always justified. How awful that people think being an elder gives you the right to humiliate someone younger than you and that a person can't retort back to their elder merely out of respect for an elder? That's nonsense, else there is no sense to the saying of elders that respect is earned not demanded. If elders expect to be respected by those younger than them, it is their responsibility that they first start by treating those younger than them with love and respect.

And chavans like you said do not care an ounce about sai. Let alone sai, they care a damn about respecting a person of their own family who has lived with them for years like ashwini and karishma or even devyani. The only people treated well in that house are those who have the favour and stamp of approval of kaku bhavani. Everyone else is treated like shit. Look at omkar and sonali. They literally act like total chamchas of bhavani to get any sort of respect and good treatment from her, and even then she taunts and insults them sometimes too especially in regards to karishma.

The only people she treats real well are those who live their life strictly by her choice and strictly under her rule without uttering a word of complaint , or whom she finds of some valuable use to her or who are part of the family by kaku's choice such as ninad, pakhi, mansi, samrat, virat.

And pakhi now has re-entered the house after big talks of not being the kind of person who takes insults ad wants to focus on her career, just because she is thinking now she has full licence to have an affair with her married devar by forgetting her own marriage. 🤢 Pakhi is of clear loose character and no promise made by virat justifies that given virat never said he will have any such relationship with her other than making promise of friendship. Pakhi is merely twisting virat's promise in her mind to fit her sick fantasy.

Also hypocrites like chavans and two-faced people like pakhi can only be shut up by straight-shooting, and fiercely blunt and honest people like sai who care a damn about considering feelings or societal norms when showing people the mirror and standing up for her own self-respect.

If a person who has the guts to call a spade a spade and knock down their critics/ abusers no matter whom is in front of them can be perceived to be arrogant and rude, then it's better that sai remains "arrogant and rude" for the sake of her sanity and self-respect around these controlling and hypocritical bunch of weirdos. Anyways, this "arrogant and rude" sai is so much more fun to watch than a regular doormat female lead who is perfect and a goody goody. Sai has evident flaws, but her qualities completely outshine her flaws and make her look like an angel compared to the clowns and immoral people living around her.

Originally posted by: Ansh_Arora0

Wow! What a clever reply 💥 but ur reply doesn't answer my question. Maine puchha ki straight forward ladki hone ka matalab being arrogant/rude hai kya?

Nahi, straight forward ladies hone ki Matlab paki, patralekha, & pp🤣

That doesn't mean sai is rude at all. I must all girls should learn something from Sai. Why to always think about Sasural and all. If in laws are not giving respect then one can not be calm everytime.

I'm right now being straightforward, and also being arrogant and rude!

"This is a stupid post."

Especially if you think bavani kaku is good at heart!

sai's character is very refreshing to watch. thank god she is not like other saas-bahu serials ke bahu.

am seriously sick and tired of watching ITV bahus tolerating everything and anything and wipe tears when alone and always smile in front family and outsiders so that no one will know what she is really going through and how she is being treated by family and pati.

when it comes to being arrogant and rude, yes sai is arrogant and gives importance to herself but she never thought she was superior than others not even pakhi. jab waqt aata hai she keeps aside her ego and be ready to do anything for her family and loved ones. i saw few posts yesterday here how everyone was saying they were in sai's place they would never ever go to request and ask pakhi to return back. but sai did.

what am trying to say is her arrogance is the main thing that makes people think twice before they pick up on her, otherwise it isn't easy to stay between such family members. so this is what differs sai from other ITV bahu's.

yes sometimes sai 'overreacts' but she isn't rude. she was never been disrespectful to someone or insulted someone. she just speaks her heart out. its just that we all got used to see ITV bahu's to be very polite, well behaved, mahaan etc. so isiliye when sai says something against anyone or express an opinion freely, speak up the truth directly hume woh rude lagta hai.

and this is what makes things seem more realistic to watch. so sai jaisi bhi hai bulkul teek hai she just needs to stop overreacting at times that's it.

am being able to enjoy this show only because of sai's charecter.

and one more thing is, main show thab se dekh rai hoon jab se sairat ki shaadi huyi and sai entered her sasural. but abhi tak 1 sec bhi ayisa nay laga that kaku genuinely cares for sai.

and bina batake ghar se jaane wali baat. i think normal circumstances mein sai batadeti. it isn't a big thing. but pichli bar q nay bataya many people gave many reasons already. and iss bhar bhi i feel that she had her own reasons. agar koyi pain puri khane ya shopping keliye jaati tho zaroor pata ke jaati.😆

Originally posted by: MusicMuse

Sai is actually the perfect bahu for the Chavan khandan, Chavans are often rude and obnoxious so she's like the walking avatar of rudeness and lacks even the basic manners.

She wants the Chavans to eat out of the palm of her hands and always wishes everyone to be at her back and call the way her father did. Girl has her heart in the right place but it's completely her father's fault that she turned out to be so offensive and arrogant. Even simple questions are war calls for her. Sab ko uska sun na padega aur wo kisi ki nehi sunegi. Bilkul bigad ke rakh diya hai Kamal Joshi aur Usha mausi ne Sai ko. She herself frankly admit mein apne Aba ke ghar aise hi karti thi !! Without any shame or reflection what exactly she just said, basically reinforcing everyone's belief that she's like this because of lack of sanskar.

She cooks for the family , because she likes force feeding them when they are least interested in eating the food cooked by her. And on the other side , everyday she fights with the elders of the family over every small thing. She only spared Ashwini as she's blind to her bahu and she hates Pakhi and she's basically living life vicariously through her new DIL.

I can see a future Bhabani in Sai , someone who puts down every one so she can control them and basically unapologetic.

Your manners is something you owe to yourself than to other. It says who you are , not who you are talking to.

It's a good thing that her husband is basically overburdened with both guilt and gratitude that her father died saving him or else no husband will tolerate this kind of behavior from his wife.

But he should discipline her from time to time , as her mentor and father figure ,or else the outside world will hurt her because there no one will give her an inch for what she might've been through.

She has no middle ground. She has no idea how to give a classy yet befitting reply. Her agitated chaotic energy can not control the situation but only escalate it every time.

Comparing Mauli with this unpolished slip of a girl is a mistake of highest order. Mauli was a mature independent strong level headed patient woman . Sai still has a long way to go before the word maturity can even be remotely used in her context.

U said it 💯💯💯🙌