Why that flinch on the face, Sai?

The flinch on Sai's face was very obvious after Virat's dialogue 'Dosti ka farz'. That flinch was an indication of deep pain or unrequited emotional need. Here are my thoughts on the reasons (It is mixture of many emotions) behind that flinch:

1. She definitely feels the pain of being part of marriage that has come with an expiry date (it is not specific to Virat but marriage as an (sacred) institution. She has observed her Aaba's love for her Aai (he did not remarry). Psychologically we do have impact of these social notions (Even Pakhi's mom said today Shadi ke Sindoor ke age pyar ka gulal fika pad hi jata hai (her daughter is an exception to this though😆) I have observed this pain at wedding (mangalsutra scene- janam janam ka bandhan), immediately after wedding at Chavhan house ( she repeated to herself 'its a deal'), when Usha mavashi said'Unake sath ab janam bhar rehana hai'.

2. Virat is the only person after her Aaba who has not only shown her warmth but has taken her responsibility too. He fought tooth and nail to get her in the house, protected her when possible. For an 18 year old (with no father figure in life) it is very difficult not to get emotionally attached with such a gem of a person (Virat sir bahot hi nek insaan hai!) only to be thrown at with the word 'Farz' devoid of any emotion.

3.She herself had felt connection (even though a fragile one) with Virat in GC. 'Mai Virat sir ke bare me kyun soch rahi hu?'

4.She is attracted to Virat ( She did not mind Virat putting those hair strands behind her ear).Looking at her molestation history, this scene is very significant as people with such history are extremely sensitive to 'TOUCH'.

5.The most difficult situation in a relationship is when a person displays behaviours which indicate warmth, care (head massage) but cautions you, 'Hey I act the way I act but watch yourself your are not allowed to get emotionally involved with me' .I am just doing my 'Farz'.

Virat, we are humans and not computers to keep our brains and heart in seperate compartments. The word 'Farz' will come back to haunt you when Sai will interpret your love actions as your 'Farz'.

She already said multiple times today 'To mai apake liye sirf ek farz hun'

I would also like to mention@ janakiraghav's post on sense of belonging here. Sai is looking for sense of belonging too.

Would love to hear your perspective..!

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

The flinch on Sai's face was very obvious after Virat's dialogue 'Dosti ka farz'. That flinch was an indication of deep pain or unrequited emotional need. Here are my thoughts on the reasons (It is mixture of many emotions) behind that flinch:

1. She definitely feels the pain of being part of marriage that has come with an expiry date (it is not specific to Virat but marriage as an (sacred) institution. She has observed her Aaba's love for her Aai (he did not remarry). Psychologically we do have impact of these social notions (Even Pakhi's mom said today Shadi ke Sindoor ke age pyar ka gulal fika pad hi jata hai (her daughter is an exception to this though😆) I have observed this pain at wedding (mangalsutra scene- janam janam ka bandhan), immediately after wedding at Chavhan house ( she repeated to herself 'its a deal'), when Usha mavashi said'Unake sath ab janam bhar rehana hai'.

AWESOME that you brought this up. I have the exact thoughts about their marriage scene. I had not started writing here at that time but the scene where he picks up the mangalsutra or even the jaimala scene, both of them were looking at each other with that knowledge. When the priest said mangalsutra ka matlab janmon janmon ka pavitra bandhan.. BOTH of them looked at each other and it is a scene that has remained with me. Sai had these questions in her eyes and Virat was remembering the first time she garlanded him to 'welcome' him into Gadchiroli, not knowing that she was actually welcoming him in her life. Now, he was to 'garland' her to bring her into his life. That look in their eyes was enough to convey that regardless of the expiry date, whether they eventually stay together or not, they will respect the sacred institution.

2. Virat is the only person after her Aaba who has not only shown her warmth but has taken her responsibility too. He fought tooth and nail to get her in the house, protected her when possible. For an 18 year old (with no father figure in life) it is very difficult not to get emotionally attached with such a gem of a person (Virat sir bahot hi nek insaan hai!) only to be thrown at with the word 'Farz' devoid of any emotion.

Agree, I mentioned this in my magnum opus the other day 😆 how she's all of 18 or 19 and it will only be natural for her to seek that kind of love. Every human does. And then, Virat IS her husband and a caring one too. Why would she not want to feel the emotion? She has to be "matured" to understand that she should not feel that emotion?

3.She herself had felt connection (even though a fragile one) with Virat in GC. 'Mai Virat sir ke bare me kyun soch rahi hu?'

4.She is attracted to Virat ( She did not mind Virat putting those hair strands behind her ear).Looking at her molestation history, this scene is very significant as people with such history are extremely sensitive to 'TOUCH'.

She hesitated during the photo shoot but grew out of that awkwardness during the reception I think. But she was taken aback during the finger on lips moment 😆 wo thoda jyaada ho gaya tha...

5.The most difficult situation in a relationship is when a person displays behaviours which indicate warmth, care (head massage) but cautions you, 'Hey I act the way I act but watch yourself your are not allowed to get emotionally involved with me' .I am just doing my 'Farz'.

Virat, we are humans and not computers to keep our brains and heart in seperate compartments. The word 'Farz' will come back to haunt you when Sai will interpret your love actions as your 'Farz'.

She already said multiple times today 'To mai apake liye sirf ek farz hun'

I would also like to mention@ janakiraghav's post on sense of belonging here. Sai is looking for sense of belonging too.

You resonate my thoughts always, your name is apt ❤️🤗

Would love to hear your perspective..!

Wooooow so true☺️

The absence of father figure point really touched my heart😳☺️❤️

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

The flinch on Sai's face was very obvious after Virat's dialogue 'Dosti ka farz'. That flinch was an indication of deep pain or unrequited emotional need. Here are my thoughts on the reasons (It is mixture of many emotions) behind that flinch:

1. She definitely feels the pain of being part of marriage that has come with an expiry date (it is not specific to Virat but marriage as an (sacred) institution. She has observed her Aaba's love for her Aai (he did not remarry). Psychologically we do have impact of these social notions (Even Pakhi's mom said today Shadi ke Sindoor ke age pyar ka gulal fika pad hi jata hai (her daughter is an exception to this though😆) I have observed this pain at wedding (mangalsutra scene- janam janam ka bandhan), immediately after wedding at Chavhan house ( she repeated to herself 'its a deal'), when Usha mavashi said'Unake sath ab janam bhar rehana hai'.

Definitely. When Sai was left with nothing after Aaba's death, he gave her support and a family (I mean Ashwini, Shivani and Devyani)- ignoring the other ringmasters for now. He has stood by her and Aaba's loss can never be filled but very quickly, she found new relationships. With the expiry date of this marriage, she will not only lose Virat but also her Aai and the others she has grown so fond of. She will again be left with nothing. Must be a very scary thought.

2. Virat is the only person after her Aaba who has not only shown her warmth but has taken her responsibility too. He fought tooth and nail to get her in the house, protected her when possible. For an 18 year old (with no father figure in life) it is very difficult not to get emotionally attached with such a gem of a person (Virat sir bahot hi nek insaan hai!) only to be thrown at with the word 'Farz' devoid of any emotion.

And apart from Aaba, Virat seems to be the only person who accepts and even enjoys Sai's antics- her stubbornness, her anger because he knows what kind of a person she is. As superficial as it sounds, Sai is just a teenager and Virat aside from being a very good person (albeit sometimes extremely moronic) is handsome, intelligent and that would be quite tough for her to ignore.

3.She herself had felt connection (even though a fragile one) with Virat in GC. 'Mai Virat sir ke bare me kyun soch rahi hu?'

4.She is attracted to Virat ( She did not mind Virat putting those hair strands behind her ear).Looking at her molestation history, this scene is very significant as people with such history are extremely sensitive to 'TOUCH'.

She seemed awkward the photo shoot day but after that he supported her a few more times which would have made her feel comfortable

5.The most difficult situation in a relationship is when a person displays behaviours which indicate warmth, care (head massage) but cautions you, 'Hey I act the way I act but watch yourself your are not allowed to get emotionally involved with me' .I am just doing my 'Farz'.

Exactly this! Virat can't act all adorable and loving and just place her in the friendzone. She doesn't mind it now but for someone who's entire life has changed, this can be brutal.

Virat, we are humans and not computers to keep our brains and heart in seperate compartments. The word 'Farz' will come back to haunt you when Sai will interpret your love actions as your 'Farz'.

She already said multiple times today 'To mai apake liye sirf ek farz hun'

I would also like to mention@ janakiraghav's post on sense of belonging here. Sai is looking for sense of belonging too.

Would love to hear your perspective..!

Excellent analysis!!

You resonate my thoughts always, your name is apt

Sending the love back

❤️❤️❤️🤗

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

Excellent analysis!!

Appreciated...😊❤️❤️