Ashwini handing out money to Pakhi - Page 2

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

@Bold I think Aswini said that even if Pakhi does not understand this Virat needs to understand that Pakhi is a married women now. But I haven't seen her clearly stating that to Virat. She is subtly resisting Virat for him getting Pakhi involved in Virat-Sai equation. Par Virat to Virat hai...'Aai Pakhi family member hai...' Yes, she should snide Virat more as he is her son and not Pakhi.

I do not know if Ashwini knows the whole 'love' story. She knew that her son liked someone at Nashik. Then suddenly he came heartbroken after visiting Pakhi's house after haladi ceremony. She being sensitive mother did think that her son was ditched?

I am still not clear why Virat has not confided in her about it till date. She deserved to know about his 'do din ka pyaar', maybe she would have been able to make him see some sense. Maybe she thought P rejected him and still wants V back hence the cold attitude with her. Actually the fault lies in the fact that everyone is aware about SaiRat's story and still wishes to pretend as if it was hunky-dory and noone knows about the full truth about the camp and pretends as it it was janmon janmon ka pyaar.

It was in no way distasteful. She gave her the money telling her to give it to the poor and ask them to bless Sayi and Virat to have happy and peaceful married life . If Pahki meant any of the advice she was giving while getting Sayi ready she would do what Ashwini asked instead of running in a corner to cry as if someone insulted her. She did not feel insulted instead she felt hurt that she has to give that money to the poor while making a wish that she does not want to. She felt hurt because she wanted to be in Sayi's place next Virat receiving Ashwini's love. That was a bit of a reality check for Pahki, because regardless of whatever deal Sayi and Virat has she know the family is quite orthodox and once they all come around to liking Sayi it will be difficult for a separation to happen. She is also observing Virat's interaction with Sayi and not what he's telling her. She is a woman, our intuitions are almost never wrong. She already see how easily Virat can fall for Sayi

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Anyone else who found that scene very, very distasteful? After watching Pakhi and her parents wishing Sai, Ashwini immediately does the nazar utarna of the couple (it is symbolic to the show's story) but then hands out the money to PP, gareebon me baatna aur mere Virat aur Sai ki Jodi ke liye aashirwad mangna.

I love Ashwini. I haven't found her to be entirely wrong even in her taunts to PP (and of course she needs to pull up Virat). But I didn't like this action at all. It was extremely disrespectful to PP to be handed out the nazar utara hua money like that.

I am sure had Virat had the courage to accept the relationship before Samrat's marriage to Pakhi, Ashwini would have embraced PP the way she has embraced Sai. So, why is she so bitter towards PP. I know that PP's conduct has been awkward and aloof from the family and she's been too occupied in her thoughts about trying to control Virat with the vaada all the time to even bother about others in the family but this was not right?

Also, Karishma wo paise sach me gareebon ko degi kya?😆

I think karishma will keep the money as unse jyada gareeb chavan family koi nahi hai🤣

and about ashwini's behaviour...well i dont think it was completely wrong or distasteful. She was just over joyed for sai and virat and she gave the money to donate to the poors to the badi bahu pakhi...which is actually her duty to do all daan dakshina.....pakhi felt bad not becuase of the money but because of her feelings for virat. she use to dream of standing there with virat as his wife and now she is the one donating money for wishing their well being....so it was emotional thing due to which she almost ran away from there

Ashwini is also quite wrong in taunting Pakhi all the time. Virat is equally responsible for the situation and Pakhi has not done anything evil yet. Ashwini should tone down her behavior with Pakhi.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Ashwini is also quite wrong in taunting Pakhi all the time. Virat is equally responsible for the situation and Pakhi has not done anything evil yet. Ashwini should tone down her behavior with Pakhi.

I just got to watching the epi now, and now that I have watched the scene in no way it seems ashwini intended on taunting or insulting pakhi when she handed that money. Pakhi was stood right close to her and she is the elder bahu so she just asked pakhi without any ill will here to distribute the money to the poor for virat-sai to get good wishes. And it was clear even from ashwini's tone too that she was not targeting pakhi then on purpose at all.

Time and again Ashwini has warned Pakhi to stay out of Virat life. She still dreams about him, thinks about him. Which definately no married woman should do as per Ashwini. Sai now acts as that wall which would break all delusion of Pakhi . Hence, Ashwini always showers her blessings in Sairat so that they stand together and Paki out of no option moves on in life.

Okay, so I was not the only one, good to know. Ashwini is a very level-headed person generally but giving that money to Pakhi was silent yet a very loud slap on Pakhi's face.

I do not mind that Ashwini calls out Pakhi on behavior from time to time and rightly so. But she also needs to call out Virat as well. Pakhi is not the only one involved here. Her son is also responsible for this situation. Takes Two to Tango you see. Typical "Mera Raja Beta" Syndrome.

That is why I loved Sai when she called them both out on their behavior of being sacrificial and holier than thou about the balcony conversation, mentoring issue, and when Pakhi was getting Sai ready.

Also, I would like to point out that Viraat always stands for Sai when any of the family members are being rude and impolite. So why did he not call his mother out for her rude behavior? I might be reaching or is it foreshadowing for the future.

In the end, Pakhi needs to stand for herself. There was a line she said to her friend a few episodes back that she did not ask Viraat for any such promise but what bothers me is that she is holding Viraat accountable for that promise. After all, all the confusion was cleared before the marriage and she married Samrat with open eyes. She needs to understand that if Viraat can give her up for his brother now, that situation is never going to change.

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Okay, so I was not the only one, good to know. Ashwini is a very level-headed person generally but giving that money to Pakhi was silent yet a very loud slap on Pakhi's face.

I do not mind that Ashwini calls out Pakhi on behavior from time to time and rightly so. But she also needs to call out Virat as well. Pakhi is not the only one involved here. Her son is also responsible for this situation. Takes Two to Tango you see. Typical "Mera Raja Beta" Syndrome.

That is why I loved Sai when she called them both out on their behavior of being sacrificial and holier than thou about the balcony conversation, mentoring issue, and when Pakhi was getting Sai ready.

Also, I would like to point out that Viraat always stands for Sai when any of the family members are being rude and impolite. So why did he not call his mother out for her rude behavior? I might be reaching or is it foreshadowing for the future.

In the end, Pakhi needs to stand for herself. There was a line she said to her friend a few episodes back that she did not ask Viraat for any such promise but what bothers me is that she is holding Viraat accountable for that promise. After all, all the confusion was cleared before the marriage and she married Samrat with open eyes. She needs to understand that if Viraat can give her up for his brother now, that situation is never going to change.

Word 👍🏼 if he can give her up for his brother, he's never going to change that especially with a 'wife' in the picture,for whom he's literally fighting for the world. She needs to snap back to reality.

Glad you agree about Ashwini. She did it very subtly but it was a taunt nevertheless. Sometimes you don't need a tone. Ashwini being one of the most compassionate people in that house would think twice before acting like this if it weren't done on purpose.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Word 👍🏼 if he can give her up for his brother, he's never going to change that especially with a 'wife' in the picture,for whom he's literally fighting for the world. She needs to snap back to reality.

Glad you agree about Ashwini. She did it very subtly but it was a taunt nevertheless. Sometimes you don't need a tone. Ashwini being one of the most compassionate people in that house would think twice before acting like this if it weren't done on purpose.

It was definitely deliberate. Ashwini also needs to have a very clear and concise conversation with Viraat about Pakhi. Why is she tiptoeing around her own son but is being very outright with Pakhi? It is always easy to blame a woman but pointing out her son's mistakes to him is also very important.

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Okay, so I was not the only one, good to know. Ashwini is a very level-headed person generally but giving that money to Pakhi was silent yet a very loud slap on Pakhi's face.

I do not mind that Ashwini calls out Pakhi on behavior from time to time and rightly so. But she also needs to call out Virat as well. Pakhi is not the only one involved here. Her son is also responsible for this situation. Takes Two to Tango you see. Typical "Mera Raja Beta" Syndrome.

That is why I loved Sai when she called them both out on their behavior of being sacrificial and holier than thou about the balcony conversation, mentoring issue, and when Pakhi was getting Sai ready.

Also, I would like to point out that Viraat always stands for Sai when any of the family members are being rude and impolite. So why did he not call his mother out for her rude behavior? I might be reaching or is it foreshadowing for the future.

In the end, Pakhi needs to stand for herself. There was a line she said to her friend a few episodes back that she did not ask Viraat for any such promise but what bothers me is that she is holding Viraat accountable for that promise. After all, all the confusion was cleared before the marriage and she married Samrat with open eyes. She needs to understand that if Viraat can give her up for his brother now, that situation is never going to change.

@Bold- The reason why virat would never say anything to his mother when she taunts pakhi right in front of him, is because whenever ashwini taunts pakhi it is related to virat and pakhi's so-called "friendship" with him and her interfering in his marriage with sai, and that is why he doesn't say anything to ashwini because he knows that the accusations that are in ashwini's taunts are true.

He knows that his friendship with pakhi is not actually friendship and that he and pakhi are only duping the household using this friendship word to make them all believe that they are just friends just so that pakhi and virat can cover up the real reason around them being seen around the house talking together, pakhi making excessive phone calls to virat and pakhi-virat openly defending and taking each other's sides in front of family.

Virat knows that ashwini's taunts are valid towards pakhi, so with what nerve does he have saying anything to his mother to defend pakhi when he knows he and pakhi are fooling everyone and that ashwini's accusations are all true?

The only wrong thing ashwini is doing is only directing these taunts at pakhi and not her son, but then again, I also find this understandable, because pakhi is samrat's wife, yet she is the one who constantly interferes in virat's life in ashwini's eyes by constantly calling him when he is away from home behind everyone's back and when her husband went missing she decided to leave home the very next day, which no other wife would have done, including that even after samrat went missing ashwini noticed pakhi seemed least bothered about samrat and was constantly trying to talk to virat over phone, which is outright inappropriate. From the view of ashwini's eyes I don't blame her for directing the taunts at pakhi than her own son.

That being said, ashwini needs to have a good hard word with her raja-beta that he needs to stop being bhabhi-bhakt like his dad and that he keeps using the friendship word to justify his closeness with his bhabhi, but being his mother she can see what he is hiding and tell him that he is behaving inappropriately by worshiping his bhabhi. She should taunt him that he should think about the upbringing she gave him as well as the feelings of his brother samrat, who would feel betrayed if he got to know about his brother's so-called "friendship" with his wife behind his back.