Seriously Virat, what is Maturity?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kind of tired of him imposing his decisions on Sai and Pakhi. Give these women some space to think for themselves. Does he not understand that Pakhi is not interested in taking Sai's responsibility? He is literally not letting the girl heal from her "heartbreak" and keeps on imposing more on her. I guess this is where he misunderstood Pakhi as being mature. He thought she is mature enough to not let her personal feelings come in between her mentoring. However, do you not see her tears and her facial expression? They clearly show that she does not want to do it. She left instantly when you asked her to take Sai's responsibility. That itself is a sign that she has no interested at all.


Meanwhile, Pakhi can not speak up her mind because she wants to keep up the fake image Virat has of her. Her insecurities are a build-up of that. Makes me wonder if she already knows that she is not the Pakhi that Virat thinks she is? therefore, she feels that if she breaks this image then Virat will leave her. However, everyone has a breaking point, and when she reaches that and her pretense is finally revealed in front of the family and Virat, she will be hurt even more. I wish she would speak up for herself and not be so restrained to be the ideal bahu in front of everyone.


On a different note, I love how the writers revealed Sai's and Pakhi's opposing personalities throughout this episode. Pakhi being from a higher class with such great expectations from everyone, can not utter her thoughts and feelings in front of the family and ends up doing whatever is told. Meanwhile, Sai, not being a "shahannukhuli maratha" is thought of as someone who lacks manners and etiquette in front of the family. However, she uses this to her advantage to speak up for herself without any fear of what others think.


Anywayzz, I will come back tomorrow to discuss more about this episode... until then, good night.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai is not mature enough to understand Virat's decision, Virat is not mature enough to understand Pakhi's intentions, Pakhi is not mature enough to understand Sai's potential & determination. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

Sai is not mature enough to understand Virat's decision, Virat is not mature enough to understand Pakhi's intentions, Pakhi is not mature enough to understand Sai's potential & determination. 😆


😂😂😂 And we are not matured enough to understand ACP Saab ka nazariya of this triangle of maturity

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Honestly speaking, the only person who seems immature to me is Virat. Even though Pakhi and Sai openly refused, Pakhi - by walking away when he brought the topic up, and Sai - by openly telling it on his face. If he cannot take the hint even then, there is none more immature and stupid than him.

And the worst part is, even when Ashwini told him on the face that he doesn't have to impose Pakhi on Sai, he didn't listen. He has just left his brains in Gadchiroli.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Virat's dictionary: Farz, Majboori, Zimmedari, Mature, Vaada, Guru, Dost (in no particular order)



Edited to include Vaada. That's his tagline, how could I forget it🤣🤣

Edited by ..Peppermint.. - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

Sai is not mature enough to understand Virat's decision, Virat is not mature enough to understand Pakhi's intentions, Pakhi is not mature enough to understand Sai's potential & determination. 😆


Well stated!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Virat's dictionary: Farz, Majboori, Zimmedari, Mature, Vaada, Guru, Dost (in no particular order)

Edited to include Vaada. That's his tagline, how could I forget it🤣🤣


Dont forget *Bestfriend* that he conveniently uses when anyone questions his relationship with Paakhi smiley37

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Definition of Maturity to Virat Sir

Maturity = Having love and respect for Ashwini but never standing up for her rights as a son

Maturity = Never telling his brother Samrat that he was infatuated with Patralekha/Pakhi when he went to the yoga camp and its best they dont marry so 3 lives are saved

Maturity = Emotionally blackmailing Paakhi into marrying his brother to stay close to him and promising her things that aint in his hand

Maturity = Allowing Sai to think he is the reason that her dad died rather than confessing that Joshi Sir wanted to be a part of that mission to nab Jagtap

Maturity = Marrying Sai without telling her the reason behind why he thinks that is the only way she can live in his house

Maturity = Leaving your brains and job responsibilities at Gadchiroli. Was his posting literally only for a month?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Virat's dictionary: Farz, Majboori, Zimmedari, Mature, Vaada, Guru, Dost (in no particular order)



Edited to include Vaada. That's his tagline, how could I forget it🤣🤣

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