What is your opinion on Pre-marital sex? - Page 3

Originally posted by: -MOTHER-

In ITV heroines lecture about how bad is pre marital sex. But in a rainy night does it with the hero and gets pregnant immediately.

I am against sex both pre and post marital. God should have had made better ways to have kids.

Maybe because it's not God's way.

Maybe because there's no God.

I voted for, because I personally don't think there's anything wrong in having sex within a committed relationship with a person you love, just because you aren't married.

Most of the non-religious arguments I've heard people use against pre marital sex (within relationships) are utterly senseless... saying "he will lose interest in you after sex", "he'll lose respect", "you don't know if he really loves you back" sounds no naive and foolish to me 😕... like do you people genuinely think all married men love and respect their wives?? It is very possible that a husband may lose interest in you at some point and start cheating, especially if he's not too religious... like can you come down to Earth please 😆

One night stands/casual sex is another story though, I wouldn't do it and I don't really support it, but I guess it's each to their own at the end of the day so I don't hate people who do it or think they're all evil people, because that's just ridiculous.

Originally posted by: Harley_Quinn

But doesn't a person no matter a man or woman has the right to choose his/her life partner however he/she wants?

If a guy wants or expects a virgin girl as a life partner, it's his choice, no matter how disgusting we find it.

We can reject that guy but how would he react by knowing about my sex life, I don't know. So hiding this fact from him looks like giving a betrayal. If we don't find anything wrong in pre-marital sex then we should own that in real life as well, even in front of conservative people.

Non disclosure doesn't mean hiding if one weren't asked. If it's important to have a virgin he should say so up front or put it in the marriage contract if it's arranged. Then you say the truth. Also it's good to know upfront if the asking party has had sex and is a hypocrite or a sexist.

To answer the question - there's nothing wrong with sex between free consulting adults. For long term relationships sexual compatibility is important. Heck it's important if it's just a fling with no expectations. It's a healthy part of life whether one wants to be married or not. It's also healthy not to like or want sex - but if you want a relationship or marriage it's important to get together with someone who feels the same.

Originally posted by: -MOTHER-

In ITV heroines lecture about how bad is pre marital sex. But in a rainy night does it with the hero and gets pregnant immediately.

I am against sex both pre and post marital. God should have had made better ways to have kids.

😂😂😂😭😭

Originally posted by: Harley_Quinn

It's a no-brainer. Of course pre-marital sex is not wrong. But we can only say these things on anonymous forums and not in front of our parents or relatives.

Now here's a tough question. You had pre-marital sex, your parents never knew, and they don't need to know everything.

But suppose you're then having an arranged marriage. Can you tell your fiance that you're not a virgin? Men surely can, but what about women? Are you bold enough to tell your sex life to a random guy, who might break the marriage based on your virginity and might even tell this to the whole world to defame you?

And if you don't tell him, aren't you betraying him?

That’s why’s I wouldn’t get an arranged marriage... I would want to get to know the man before committing to stay with him all my life...

And I wouldn’t want to marry a backwards minded nutcase who’d leave me because I was with someone else before meeting him 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: Sharpener

I used to think it was wrong but man, the amount of closeted brown guys and also impotent ones, it should be a criteria to sleep together before getting married.

Yeah most Indian men in western countries are 25+ by the time their looking to get married...

Not to judge anyone who genuinely chooses to stay virgin till marriage for whatever reason, but I do think it would be a little strange if a (not ultra religious) 25-30 year old straight man raised in a place like the U.K. was still a virgin...

Originally posted by: Lord_Voldemort

Quite the contrary. If they are openly admitting they've had a lot of sex, then they're all the more trustworthy. It means they are not trying to hide anything.

Having sex with multiple people doesn't make someone a loose character. This is a regressive view. Anyone who lies/cheats/manipulates is someone whose character is poor. If someone is open about their sex life and have no qualms about it, that only makes them rich in charcter.

This western thought will be soon nipped by BJP. Don't worry. More laws are in the pipeline.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

I voted for, because I personally don't think there's anything wrong in having sex within a committed relationship with a person you love, just because you aren't married.

That’s a positive outlook

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

That’s a positive outlook

Haha thanks 😆

Hope that wasn't sarcastic 🤣

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Haha thanks 😆

Hope that wasn't sarcastic 🤣

No I’m being as genuine as humanly possible for me 😆