What is your opinion on Pre-marital sex? - Page 4

Originally posted by: SugaAgustD

Yuck! Thats my answer on anything about sex.

so you are asexual ..that is sex does not excite you, you should let the person you hope to marry know this otherwise, imagine if that person is quite YUM about sex where you are yuck...so much incompatibility

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

That’s why’s I wouldn’t get an arranged marriage... I would want to get to know the man before committing to stay with him all my life...

And I wouldn’t want to marry a backwards minded nutcase who’d leave me because I was with someone else before meeting him 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

I agree, why get married with someone you meet for the very first time? I mean, are you serious? I know it's common in India but not in my family, and should not be in any family.

Originally posted by: hannahwhite82

I agree, why get married with someone you meet for the very first time? I mean, are you serious? I know it's common in India but not in my family, and should not be in any family.

Meeting once is extreme, that’s thankfully not common in this generation of my family 😂

But even meeting 4/5 times and talking for like 2 months isn’t enough imo... a good 6 months- 1 year (at least!) before marriage even comes into the discussion is what seems most natural to me...

But I guess people should do whatever feels natural/comfortable to them... if that’s going straight for engagement with some guy they spoke to twice on Shaadi.com then fair enough 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Meeting once is extreme, that’s thankfully not common in this generation of my family 😂

But even meeting 4/5 times and talking for like 2 months isn’t enough imo... a good 6 months- 1 year (at least!) before marriage even comes into the discussion is what seems most natural to me...

But I guess people should do whatever feels natural/comfortable to them... if that’s going straight for engagement with some guy they spoke to twice on Shaadi.com then fair enough 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

I agreed to get married even without one meeting 😂

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I agreed to get married even without one meeting 😂

What seriously!?

Not even talking online or anything??

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

What seriously!?

Not even talking online or anything??

No 😆

Lets say by end of 2017 I realized conventional love and dating wasnt for me. I was kind of lost and somewhat unsure of my future. So I talked to my parents and said Ill marry whoever you want me to. So We went from New York to Pakistan in February 2018 and they picked someone. I didnt meet her then. We came back and they showed me her photo and I pondered it. Then on April 10 2018 I agreed. On April 13 2018 we told everyone and just 9 days later April 22 2018 I was in Pakistan getting married sight unseen 😆

Yeah so it was a marriage of convenience that ultimately became love.

Why did I do that ? I guess at that point of time its what I needed. An I dont have any regrets not yet atleast 😆

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

No 😆

Lets say by end of 2017 I realized conventional love and dating wasnt for me. I was kind of lost and somewhat unsure of my future. So I talked to my parents and said Ill marry whoever you want me to. So We went from New York to Pakistan in February 2018 and they picked someone. I didnt meet her then. We came back and they showed me her photo and I pondered it. Then on April 10 2018 I agreed. On April 13 2018 we told everyone and just 9 days later April 22 2018 I was in Pakistan getting married sight unseen 😆

Yeah so it was a marriage of convenience that ultimately became love.

Why did I do that ? I guess at that point of time its what I needed. An I dont have any regrets not yet atleast 😆

Fair enough if you're happy then that's great!

Ngl that was a really brave decision... I could never 😲

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Fair enough if you're happy then that's great!

Ngl that was a really brave decision... I could never 😲

Brave or stupid

2 sides of same coin 😆

Im sure you'll be brave enough to choose whatever the right path is for you

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Brave or stupid

2 sides of same coin 😆

Im sure you'll be brave enough to choose whatever the right path is for you

😂😂😂

Thanks, I hope I will 😅