Adoption is a big thing

Honestly, I really feel adoption is a big thing and when you live in joint family or even otherwise you consult your parents and child because there is a life you are taking responsibility of, and that life needs to be treated with love, care and respect specially a girl like Krishna who already has suffered a lot.

Adoption aren't done purely based on the Emotions, there are so many pros and Cons you need to Evaluate ,you simply can't say one fine day we are adopting this child and bringing home, and you don't bring child who are found in streets to home directly, you hand over them to trustworthy organisation and police.

Also during adoption there are so many home visits, surprise home visits and then finally it's done and adopted. It's just not the matter of one sign and bang a child is adopted.

Kartik and Naira should had explained and given time to Dadi and Manish, and Kairav needed a proper explanation as he is tender age and can't accept someone as old as he is or older is suddenly sharing his parents..

Expected better from CVs

Yes for sure adoption is a long process with home visits and they talk to the child as well and they check to make sure the child would have a good home and be taken care of. I can’t really comment on the show because I’m not really sure how it is in India. Also I’m assuming the adoption process is completed in the show but we have dadi saying ridiculous things like I’ll kick her out if she hurts any of the kids. If a child is adopted you can’t just kick them out, she’s the adopted parents responsibility legally while she’s underage. So even that dialogue didn’t make sense.

Yes karthik and naira should have consulted the family first since they live in a joint family. If they lived on their own this would be different. Kairav is young so I get his jealousy, I wonder if it would get worse if Krishna called kaira mom and dad. But they should have worked on building a friendship between kairav and Krishna before finalizing the adoption. Also knowing how dadi and manish are they should have known to talk this matter out. But dadi and manish would have never agreed to the adoption anyway, for them blood is more important. Even when kairav sort of acted okay with Krishna they still didn’t like her. Krishna has already suffered a lot in life and listening to dadi and manishs toxic taunts will definitely take a toll on her over the years. Dadi also had a problem with kairav before she found out she was karthiks son, so definitely not surprised by her having problems with Krishna. I know Krishna calling dadi buddhi dadi is disrespectful but no one is the house says anything to dadi when she says such absurd things and does so many wrong things like the kirti Aditya abuse track or the mansi molestation track that I kind of enjoy Krishna saying stuff like that to her.

I know in Indian culture we’re taught to respect elders and not talk back but sometimes dadi is really overboard. Honestly with the mansi molestation track she should have been put in jail too. I think I’m more annoyed with dadi because no one ever says anything to her. Some other shows characters will tell the person that they’re wrong and be mad at the person but here dadi gets away scott free every time.

According to my knowledge , they check for parent's financial and medical well being first n foremost.

Whether they will be able to take care of a child looking at present condition ( offcourse future me to kuch bhi ho sakta h) ..

So going by that logic ..

Naira won't be fit for adoption ryt 🤔🤔

Looking at her medical history..

She had a brain clot

Memory loss problem

Both her kidneys failed and surviving on some unrelated person's kidney. There are High chances of foreign body reaction.. so she must be on immunosuppressives.

Adoption agency will refuse to hand over child to her 😳

In my opinion no child should be around Manish and Suhasini... They are such toxic people. And with Kairav i see more of a snobish attitude than insecurity. The way the boys call her road wali ladki etc makes me wonder what sort of upbringing are these people giving these boys. Have they not learned their lesson after what Luv Kush did. Teaching children that people less fortunate than you is beneath you and don't deserve love and respect. If Kaira want their children to grow up to be good human beings then they should leave Goenkas. Naksh should try to work things out with Kirti and take his son away from the Goenkas asap and Gayu should just leave with both of her sons. I personally think this Adoption track is giving a very positive message as there are countless children like Krishna who are in desperate need of a safe home and loving family. Usually in tv shows they only show adoption as a last resort for couples who cant have children.

They are spoiling it now. Initially I understood Kairav's POV and why he was getting insecure. But now he is simply acting like a spoiled brat. I am not surprised though. He is behaving like a typical Goenka who want the world to revolve around him. Kaira did try to make him understand a lot. But he keeps on flipping. May be he is being influenced by Dadi and Manish's evil words. The way those two grown ups are behaving with Krishna is unacceptable. They are basically treating her like dirt. With each passing episode my dislike for Goenkas are increasing.

Kaira should take the kids away for sometime. Goenka house atmosphere is a very bad influence on the kids. And Naksh should also take his son home fast. Otherwise he will also get spoilt like Kairav.

I really feel that Krishna leaves this toxic environment. This kind of negative atmosphere is not good for any kid, be it Krish or Vansh or Krishna. Except Kairav and now baby Akshara, no other kid is given any hoots in the house.

Manish taking Kirti's side and taking all decisions for Krish is only because of his ego. Just because his daughter is going through a tough time in her marriage, instead of talking with her or Naksh, he's making decisions as if the relationship is already over or as if Naksh or Kirti are not capable enough to take care of Krish.

Gayatri can cleary see how Vansh is getting treated by her husband but instead of talking maturely about it to everyone, she's taunting Naira? Like what?

And Krishna, poor girl is being emotionally scarred every day! Someone who has craved for a family and love has gotten a family who has hardly accepted her and some people straight hate her! She's a little kid for God's sake, where is these people's humanity?

I really, really hope she doesn't turn out to be Kaira's first daughter otherwise everyone will change their attitude and behaviour overnight and that will be plain sick.

Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

I really feel that Krishna leaves this toxic environment. This kind of negative atmosphere is not good for any kid, be it Krish or Vansh or Krishna. Except Kairav and now baby Akshara, no other kid is given any hoots in the house.

Manish taking Kirti's side and taking all decisions for Krish is only because of his ego. Just because his daughter is going through a tough time in her marriage, instead of talking with her or Naksh, he's making decisions as if the relationship is already over or as if Naksh or Kirti are not capable enough to take care of Krish.

Gayatri can cleary see how Vansh is getting treated by her husband but instead of talking maturely about it to everyone, she's taunting Naira? Like what?

And Krishna, poor girl is being emotionally scarred every day! Someone who has craved for a family and love has gotten a family who has hardly accepted her and some people straight hate her! She's a little kid for God's sake, where is these people's humanity?

I really, really hope she doesn't turn out to be Kaira's first daughter otherwise everyone will change their attitude and behaviour overnight and that will be plain sick.

Yeah Manish and Dadi taking Kirti's side is just to show that they are superior. That's all. Dadi has already started taunting Kirti. It will only get worse with time. The only child that Goenkas love truly is Kairav and not even Akshara. Right now they love Akshara so much because they think she is lucky for them and all. The moment they have to choose between Kairav and Akshara, they will only choose Kairav. Goenkas are the biggest sexists in the show. Akshara will get the same treatment like Kirti and Mansi. They only care about Kairav and will always be biased towards him. Even in that award thing, Kairav was given the award. How? He kept forgetting his lines and his act half the time. I know they are kids and they cannot be expected to be 100% perfect. But then Krish did much better that all the kids but he was not given the award. Why? Because he is not a Goenka. And when Kaira tried to control the situation and make all the kids happy, Dadi and Manish were taunting them. As if Dadi was giving oscar awards.

And even if Krishna is proved to be Kaira's lost daughter, Goenkas attitude won't change much at all. They might stop taunting her everyday but she will still be treated differently. Just like how Vansh is being treated. If they really wanted to show adoption track, then it would have been better if Kaira moved out with their three kids. Then they could shown Kaira struggling to manage three kids, Kairav's insecurity in an organic way etc. Or they could have made Naksh & Kirti adopt Krishna. She would have stayed safe and so much happy with the Singhanias. Goenka mansion is not a good place for any kid. So Naksh should take Krish back home fast and Gayu should also leave with her kids. That would be much much better for all the kids.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Yeah Manish and Dadi taking Kirti's side is just to show that they are superior. That's all. Dadi has already started taunting Kirti. It will only get worse with time. The only child that Goenkas love truly is Kairav and not even Akshara. Right now they love Akshara so much because they think she is lucky for them and all. The moment they have to choose between Kairav and Akshara, they will only choose Kairav. Goenkas are the biggest sexists in the show. Akshara will get the same treatment like Kirti and Mansi. They only care about Kairav and will always be biased towards him. Even in that award thing, Kairav was given the award. How? He kept forgetting his lines and his act half the time. I know they are kids and they cannot be expected to be 100% perfect. But then Krish did much better that all the kids but he was not given the award. Why? Because he is not a Goenka. And when Kaira tried to control the situation and make all the kids happy, Dadi and Manish were taunting them. As if Dadi was giving oscar awards.

And even if Krishna is proved to be Kaira's lost daughter, Goenkas attitude won't change much at all. They might stop taunting her everyday but she will still be treated differently. Just like how Vansh is being treated. If they really wanted to show adoption track, then it would have been better if Kaira moved out with their three kids. Then they could shown Kaira struggling to manage three kids, Kairav's insecurity in an organic way etc. Or they could have made Naksh & Kirti adopt Krishna. She would have stayed safe and so much happy with the Singhanias. Goenka mansion is not a good place for any kid. So Naksh should take Krish back home fast and Gayu should also leave with her kids. That would be much much better for all the kids.

Exactly. When you live in a joint family all the members especially kids should be treated equally. They could have given the awards to all the kids. But for dadi its only manish karthik and kairav all the time .

I so want Gayu to walk away after how Samarth is treating Vansh.

Y was krishna given best supporting award when she was also the main lead.

Originally posted by: janecastle

They are spoiling it now. Initially I understood Kairav's POV and why he was getting insecure. But now he is simply acting like a spoiled brat. I am not surprised though. He is behaving like a typical Goenka who want the world to revolve around him. Kaira did try to make him understand a lot. But he keeps on flipping. May be he is being influenced by Dadi and Manish's evil words. The way those two grown ups are behaving with Krishna is unacceptable. They are basically treating her like dirt. With each passing episode my dislike for Goenkas are increasing.

Kaira should take the kids away for sometime. Goenka house atmosphere is a very bad influence on the kids. And Naksh should also take his son home fast. Otherwise he will also get spoilt like Kairav.

Kairav was always a spoilt brat . In ye rishta , all young boys are brats and all girls are "akshara" lol . When naksh was young he was a spoilt brat but akshara and naitik did instill some good values in him..I remember he was scolded for anything bad....but with goenkas around , its given that will never teach anything good to their children, spoil them rotten by supporting them when they are wrong . It's the goenka blood...they are toxic people.