Originally posted by: annihilation
Now, the most important part, please, let's just stop bullshitting ourselves that Rubina and/or her Abhinav didn't watch BB before they signed up. Does that mean they're BB fanatics and knew every single tid bit? No. Are they lying through their teeth about not having watched the episodes? Most certainly. It only means that they knew enough about BB, how the show functions, what generally happens there and everything that was crucial for them to know. Each contestant does his own R&D apart from being provided all the relevant and important information before signing the contract. No one, I repeat, no one just blindly enters.
My argument here is not that Rubina doesn't have the right to self respect, shouldn't voice her issues or opinions or shouldn't take on the host or the BB head on whenever and however required. She entitled to being treated like a professional employee with all her rights reserved. Having said, you know what you signed up for and you most definitely know how it's played. So, quit being so naive and being asked to fed everything like you're a toddler. You're not. You are a grown up woman and a professional in the industry.
Also, my own personal beef with her is the fact that she doesn't think twice before mocking, taunting and shaming people for the backgrounds and places they have come from. She's an elitist to the T and highly condescending and is mostly twisting her own words and functioning of ethics or conduct.
Despite all that, if you truly believe that calling your husband 'samaan' (which may be disrespectful to some in a sense but it is not derogatory word at all) is such a grave insult and you absolutely cannot tolerate it and continue to work in that environment, please leave. Leave unhesitatingly. Leave without a doubt. Leave respectfully. Leave in an instant. Leave despite the contract and it's associated clause that you will require you to pay a bomb to the show for quitting.
Par nahi karni na? Machao yaar, chillam chilli, rona dhona, natak nautanki, sab machao. But do it on things that make sense in this universe.
I rest my case. (:
Anupamaa
