Bigg Boss 14: Daily Discussion Thread - 20th Oct, 2020 DT Note Pg.136 - Page 87

Originally posted by: WhosTheFool

And with the whole duties kaa bhaji paala going on in the bedroom, Nikki usme namak daalne bolti hai ki meri koi duties nahi hai, mera abhi tak privelage khatam nahi hua. 😆

This girl is hilarious🤣🤣

"Aag lage basti me, mai apni masti me"

Originally posted by: SP2684

Processing se I have no issue - I get that. But she processed quickly enough when she immediately said "samaan" nahi hain - so she was offended immediately, she disliked it immediately. And I get the whole maahol kharab nahi karna too - but does that necessitate fangirling over Sallu? Why was she telling him she loves him and his smile minutes after he disrespected her husband?

S8cking up to host is nothing new yr. Also at that moment she might have thought to salvage the situation and not escalate. Us din ka aready bohat footage mil gya tha. She thought is mudde ko kal uthate hai phirse attention milega.. end goal to wohi hai focus Ruby pe rehna chaiye.

But are you sure two incidents happen minutes apart. (I'm asking because I dont remember).

Its possible that although to us it seems minutes apart because they have to consolidate hours of show shooting in 1 hour or so..

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Jasmine is going for Rahul for no reason, isko koi footage nahin mil rahi. Rahul gave her back good, that he cleaned the toilet for her so she has to do work for her.

Waise this is a very ortho specific episode 🤣

ye jasmin kuch b bakwas karti hai faaltu ki...Rahul give back nicely to everyone unke hi tareeke se...bakwas nai leta kisi ki 🤣

Originally posted by: Zeal17

Wishful thinking to get apology, ofcourse.I mean look at who is on the other side. However its good she spoke. Maybe not apology but alteast she communicated that there is line which shouldn't be crossed. Good for her.

Erm, okay, I'll just put this right here then.

I think we'd all unanimously agree that BB has a history of treating contestants like absolute and utter bull crap. Whether or not they deserved it is a matter of difference of opinions. Over the last 13 seasons, there has been innumerable cases where people have been told or made to feel like sh*t either implicitly or explicitly, whether by Salman or through various guests or by BB himself.

Do I personally like or approve such a work tactic or ethic? Absolutely not. It has always been and it will always be condemnable. People's personal and professional lives have been tarnished miserably and horrifically for them to watch, bear and answer to. Some recent examples would be Rashmi, Asim, Paras, Vishal and Arhaan and if you go back to previous seasons, you'll find plenty of such contestants who were mocked, insulted and demeaned to the extreme.

Is Salman's humour crass? Yes, mostly. But is he doing it for the first time or something? Nope.

Now, the most important part, please, let's just stop bullshitting ourselves that Rubina and/or her Abhinav didn't watch BB before they signed up. Does that mean they're BB fanatics and knew every single tid bit? No. Are they lying through their teeth about not having watched the episodes? Most certainly. It only means that they knew enough about BB, how the show functions, what generally happens there and everything that was crucial for them to know. Each contestant does his own R&D apart from being provided all the relevant and important information before signing the contract. No one, I repeat, no one just blindly enters.

My argument here is not that Rubina doesn't have the right to self respect, shouldn't voice her issues or opinions or shouldn't take on the host or the BB head on whenever and however required. She entitled to being treated like a professional employee with all her rights reserved. Having said, you know what you signed up for and you most definitely know how it's played. So, quit being so naive and being asked to fed everything like you're a toddler. You're not. You are a grown up woman and a professional in the industry.

Also, my own personal beef with her is the fact that she doesn't think twice before mocking, taunting and shaming people for the backgrounds and places they have come from. She's an elitist to the T and highly condescending and is mostly twisting her own words and functioning of ethics or conduct.

Despite all that, if you truly believe that calling your husband 'samaan' (which may be disrespectful to some in a sense but it is not derogatory word at all) is such a grave insult and you absolutely cannot tolerate it and continue to work in that environment, please leave. Leave unhesitatingly. Leave without a doubt. Leave respectfully. Leave in an instant. Leave despite the contract and it's associated clause that you will require you to pay a bomb to the show for quitting.

Par nahi karni na? Machao yaar, chillam chilli, rona dhona, natak nautanki, sab machao. But do it on things that make sense in this universe.

I rest my case. (:

Originally posted by: MunnaBadnamHua

chicha ajaz is here to milk certain points

total fake he ha yeh bhi 😆

Pehle nominate karo aur phir bande ko bolo woh baat nahin kar sakta. Shehzaad should be gayab, should do house work, kya humiliation hai bhai aur rubina kachra ke liye pagal ho rahi thi 😆

Originally posted by: SP2684

To me - it's a well-timed sympathy stunt, and a mili bhagat with BB. And it's not fooling everyone.

Disclaimer: That is not to say I'm justifying Sallu's humour - I'm not. Yeh jab dekho disclaimer daalna padta hain - pisses me off 😆

Khud uska Babu Sallu ke tatti sense of humor ko mind blowing bola. 😆

Originally posted by: AblazedEnigma..

ye jasmin kuch b bakwas karti hai faaltu ki...Rahul give back nicely to everyone unke hi tareeke se...bakwas nai leta kisi ki 🤣

Exactly no reason she was going nuts, what’s her problem if he doesn’t do dishes, she was rude even when he agreed to cut veggies .

Originally posted by: SP2684

I just have one question which no one appears to want to answer. If she was so offended by his joke - what was all the "I love you Salman", "I love your smile Salman" she spouted thereafter? Self-respect kahan gayi thi tab? The Fiji islands? 🤔 - cut to - next day CR mein phoot phoot ke rona - and for what again? Ahh - pati ki izzat ka jhanda. That's what she used to trash Eijaz's character - and now again. It's a strong card - it works for her every time.

Add this to the essay jo maine likha abhi upar. Crucial point and question hain yeh.

Originally posted by: SP2684

Agreed - it's super shitty. Be rude, gaali do, joh bhi karo - all fine, and part of the game. But this stuff is so below the belt. And mental health ki joh mocking hoti hain yahaan - I can't even. It's a real shame.

It hits you when you're taunted on your looks, especially given he was handsome, fit and healthy once upon a time. He either has to give it back ( but they're too conniving in nature, cause no matter what he does they will pin it against him) or it's better he leaves this show for his own well being and mental health.

Massively disappointed by few members, didn't expect them to be part of the mocking clan. I understand certain section of the members and their thinking but few of them got me thinking kaise log hai. Real shame indeed.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

they were the ones who were desperate to have his number and are the first ones to follow him on insta as soon as they are outside the house 😆! It’s very clear they want to be associated with them but he doesn’t want to

They followed him on insta first? Wow, I'm surprised and disappointed. Khair, good for them that he doesn't want to. 😆