What is your main takeaway from Sushant's case? - Page 6

The only thing i do not understand is why sushanth did not leave a final message to anyone in this world.

But then, i read about a study that a lot of people did not leave one.

The more ppl like Tapsees, swaras or kashyap's support Rhea ...the more it hurts her case.

Its ok to consume whatever illegal substance you want ...its ur life to ruin. Please do not preach # Repeatafterme .

Bollywood gang are so self centered and vapid and unkind ...poor shaming , social shaming is done blatently on live tv and then they lecture ppl about empathy, kindness , mental health etc on social media.

Fandoms must understand that your fav cannot make millions on andoresements and still be caught in drug chats or even remotely crossing the law . you might think its cool ... but brand managers and public dont.

Stay away from a family who is doing drug business under tag of seedhi saadhi middle class family.

Don't trust people easily coz chehre dhoka dete hai.

Never trust strangers over ur own family. Coz some stranger take advantage of ur distances with ur family & friends

Insaan ko itna bhi acha nhi hona chaiye ki koi bhi aira gaira apki gudness ka fayda utha le.

Originally posted by: Harley_Quinn

Read it, but edited it out as I just found it as thoughts of a hopeless romantic which is far from the reality of this world. Also because I wanted to point out the above part of your post.

Welp, I would have to choose not to respond then because this is what I would call a selective reading and understanding. You clearly couldn't understand my thought process for what I said in the first half was linked to what I did in the second half so I believe, it would be futile to say anything anymore. 😊

indian society ? if you are old enough you will know ...every society in the world do this ... without exceptions.

i dont know from where did the western world get the reputation of being more open ... it is anything but that.

1) Don't use whatsapp

2) If you use any messaging app, don't use words like "maal"

3) Always be friends with Arnab and Kangana before coming any crime

4) Never open any social media account

5) Wear kurta paijama and travel in the least expensive car when called by NCB

😆

Do not place your trust on anyone. There is humanity but do not count on it.

Learn something from people like Roger fed, Nadal, Djoker, Zukerberg... if you found love before fame and money...stick to that person. Do not get trapped by the illusion of getting better.

Sushanth made many mistakes ...he was not to well versed in life hacks . Safegaurd your money/family and future.

what do i know...but, sushanth seem to be in search of likeminded company since BW found him "off" and he mingled with more dangerous lot ... without knowing.

People would be more careful on whatsup 😆who knows what would be dig up even before we were born to show it as a evidence...

Originally posted by: pali001

indian society ? if you are old enough you will know ...every society in the world do this ... without exceptions.

i dont know from where did the western world get the reputation of being more open ... it is anything but that.

Yeah. Plus, western society now they say 1 in 6 is on some sort of psychiatry drug. Not saying it is not needed, but still hopefully not everything is mental illness.

I remember when my grandma died in the village. We had taken her to hospital several times before and after a certain time, doctor told us no use and those days money was limited. So she was allowed to pass away at home. The whole village came and went the last few days ago and she started getting cold in the legs and slowly till her head and passed away. All her old friends came, wept, sang a special kind of songs for death and for a whole month our family did not cook and everyone came and cried and cried-even men. After a month, there weren't any tears left.

Here , my colleague's mother passed away-five days later she was back at work and everybody walked around like nothing happened and she was working. probably on some sort of psychiatric drugs. Maybe I never got close enough to westerners, or maybe India changed too-but India we were far more in tune with natural cycles, birth, growth , death-had function for every phase . It was not like we were segregated by age groups and everybody knew everybody . Not as much mental illness, loneliness, depression. Plus in the modern world, nobody knows what life means-anybody cna be anything-some tiktok guy becomes a millionare at 21. Nothing to hold on to mentally and function from.

Hmm.

What if it's a family member. Mother,father, brother, sister... Would you avoid them as well? If anyone of them are diagnosed with a mental illness and their spouse leaves them for it without even giving it a try, how would that make you feel?

Mental illness does not come within a timeframe. What if you marry someone and then they get a mental illness? Knowing them the way you did and loving them for a long time... Will it suddenly make them less deserving of that love?

And finally, the big one. What if you get a mental illness in the future.. Would you be alright if all the people you love think you're undeserving of theirs and you should forever be alone. That it's social work to be with you and you're not worth it.

We must treat others the way we want to be treated.

None of us are exempt from mental illness. It can happen to you tomorrow. And it can happen to your child in the future. We need more empathy. Society treats mental illness like the plague but only when it happens to someone close to you is when you understand how much more love and affection and feelings of worthiness they require. Assurance and compassion.

If your son and daughter has a mental illness, would you use the same words you use for someone else's sons and daughters?

Yeah, society is f*cked up and most people treat peeps with mental illness like dirt, but that doesn't mean we gotta add to the stigma as well.

I do understand that not everyone can take take it or they can onsider it a burden or self preservation or whatever but atleast we can be kind with our words. Cause a lot of it seems borderline discriminatory.

You can become mentally ill tomorrow. How do you want to be treated? Treat people the same way.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Welp, I would have to choose not to respond then because this is what I would call a selective reading and understanding. You clearly couldn't understand my thought process for what I said in the first half was linked to what I did in the second half so I believe, it would be futile to say anything anymore. 😊

Well, don't respond, your choice. But let me clear it out that it wasn't selective reading or understanding. You just got one small thing to hold against me because you didn't have any argument against the hypocrisy I exposed of we human beings. I wasn't even sitting on a high horse claiming to be above others. I'm also like the rest. Can preach but can't practice.

As for the lower paragraph in your post, I even addressed that in my reply even if I edited it out :

We don't change ourselves but expect others to do the tough work. Ends up resulting in nothing changing at all.