Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 09 Sep 2020. - Page 29

Originally posted by: Su94

Did anybody feel bad for Kuhu today? She's been so open with Kunal recently, I really wanted her to share her true feelings with him regarding her birth. I'm sure she wanted to not add to his troubles but sometimes mutual humdardi can also be helpful.

I think a part of Kuhu's attitude towards Mishti is actually her way of making her life normal for herself. The more she put Mishti down and called her an outsider-charity case blah, the more she secured herself as janam se sidh part of Maheswari family (In her head). It's like a weighing balance: she tipped her worries, angst, insecurities onto the perfect target who fitted the bill of being adopted herself, i.e Mishti, and lightened herself. She calmed her fears and found her santvana through Mish and Mishti became the whipping girl, who already encumbered by her own problems, had to bear Kuhu's load as well.

In the process, she lost the chance to vent out and resolve her insecurities once and for all and make her peace with her birth. Mishti, on the other hand, got the chance to vent it all out time and again, thanks to Kuhu's constant taunting. She could think about it, feel miserable about it, cry. I pity Kuhu that she tried to run away from her real problems and suppress herself. Had she not tried to do so, she would have wholeheartedly sympathized with Mishti and helped her adjust in Mah house.

I'm not defending Kuhu as whatever her own trauma has been all about, she hurt Mishti ×100 times over in the process and knowing what a pure soul Mishti is: that she had tried her best to befriend Kuhu and took her role of being Kuhu's sister seriously and that had Kuhu entered the house after her, she would've never done the same with her-Mishti's plight is very, very disturbing. Kuhu is 50% responsible for Mishti's current psyche.

I hope Kunal will be her healer. Kuhu needs to heal as Mishti's bliss is also 50% dependent on it.

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

😆

If they adopt a baby both Mishti and baby will play catch catch with Abir

Then Abir will have to decide right jayega ya left, Kisko pakdega, wifey ko ya bachchey ko 😆

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Uske andar hai.

Kabhi kabhi bahar aata hai. Jaise Coffee scene, Mumbai shower scene etc

Ek saal ho gaya hai unn sequences ko.. Main past mein nhi jee sakti.. Abhi romance chahiye ✋ but shayad abhi sirf babymance hi milega🤪 abir thak chuka hai romance se😵

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Then Abir will have to decide right jayega ya left, Kisko pakdega, wifey ko ya bachchey ko 😆

Tabhi usko akal ayegi

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Ek saal ho gaya hai unn sequences ko.. Main past mein nhi jee sakti.. Abhi romance chahiye ✋ but shayad abhi sirf babymance hi milega🤪 abir thak chuka hai romance se😵

I was just saying that Abir has romantic genes. But Meenu aur drama ki wajah se woh genes suppressed ho gaye.

Babymance🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Ek saal ho gaya hai unn sequences ko.. Main past mein nhi jee sakti.. Abhi romance chahiye ✋ but shayad abhi sirf babymance hi milega🤪 abir thak chuka hai romance se😵

Abir Buddha ho Gaya biwi ko sambhalte Huey 😆

Ever since PTSD track he’s treating Mishti either like porcelain or like a kid, romantic Aashiq is Gayab

After marriage pre lockdown episodes dekho- Holi scenes yaad hain? Holi dance ke waqt he carried her and then rubs his cheeks on hers uskey baad Shower scene was so ☺️

And even after she ran away he caught her again in Kuku’s room and demanded a kiss, aur shame shame Meenu saw them as she was hiding there 😆

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bold: That is exactly the case. By humiliating and targeting Mishti, Kuhu made herself feel better about her own origins. But I don’t sympathize with her at all, at least she knows she has Maheshwari blood and she’s accepted by everyone at Mahs house as their offspring.
While Mishti the outsider only had BP BM who expected her to be strong enough to withstand Jasmeet’s mean taunts. That was unforgivable of BM BP, they should have stopped Jasmeet right at the beginning from targeting Mishti. This is exactly why Mishti is reluctant to adopt, she knows the reality of being adopted.

Arey vishambhar Rajshri are useless.. You know what Rajshris mother didn't like varsha because shaurya and varsha had love marriage. She always used to taunt her and beizaat karti thi sabke samne. And Rajshri used to just keep quite and some times to stop her used to say maa but her mother never stopped.. Then she used to go to varsha and apologise her and used to make her understand that it's her mother's nature so she should not take her words to her dil 🤪Anyways I really loved Rajshris mother, ek number ki item thi 😆 later she accepted varsha.

Kuhu ko already sab ne accept kiya tha, she just used and continues to berate mishti and gets jealous of her because she had to share her things and family with her, that's it.

Mishti is right, this is not the time for adoption. Mishti was ready to leave abir just because of Meenu's blackmail that means their relationship is very naazuk, anyone can break it off easily.. They really need to first give each other time and then plan for adoption. Ye abir baba ko koi antidote do bachha obsession ka🤪

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yeah that’s true, everytime he wants some quality time with wifey she runs away 😆

That’s why I called her a kid as she’s playing Catch with him all the time 😆

Poor Mishti probably never got to play catch in her childhood so playing that with frustrated hubby now

Mishti is much more romantic dan him🤷‍♀. Did u see her arrangements?? Mumbai mein, phir proposal mein bhir abir ke birthday mein dan SR mein 😏😏 abir is still lagging behind to give her surprises

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First night bhi use acha sa sajake wait kar rahi thi but abir ko apni bhai ka babysitting karna tha 😏😏

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Mishti is much more romantic dan him🤷‍♀. Did u see her arrangements?? Mumbai mein, phir proposal mein bhir abir ke birthday mein dan SR mein 😏😏 abir is still lagging behind to give her surprises

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First night bhi use acha sa sajake wait kar rahi thi but abir ko apni bhai ka babysitting karna tha 😏😏

Wahi toh problem hai, when Mishti is in the mood, Abir is either babysitting Kunal/Kuhu or fighting with Meenu. And when Abir is in the mood, Mishti runs away from him like a little tease 😆

Dono ko ek saath mood mein hona hai naa ...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Abir Buddha ho Gaya biwi ko sambhalte Huey 😆

Ever since PTSD track he’s treating Mishti either like porcelain or like a kid, romantic Aashiq is Gayab

After marriage pre lockdown episodes dekho- Holi scenes yaad hain? Holi dance ke waqt he carried her and then rubs his cheeks on hers uskey baad Shower scene was so ☺️

And even after she ran away he caught her again in Kuku’s room and demanded a kiss, aur shame shame Meenu saw them as she was hiding there 😆