Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 09 Sep 2020. - Page 38

Originally posted by: pallavi25

On second thought, Mishti was never that obstinate or stubborn, was she? She’s always given in to the wishes of people she loves. 1) When Meenu switched Rishta from Kuhu to her, Mish was reluctant to accept but on BM’s insistence she capitulated. 2) When Kunal agreed to goddhana Mishti was hesitating because their courtship had been short, but BM pleaded silently and Mishti agreed. 3) When BP fixes her Rishta with Nannu, Mishti refused because she didn’t love Nannu and still had hope about Abir’s return but then again she was railroaded into accepting Nannu Rishta

4) Magazine fiasco- Mishti wasn’t at fault and didn’t want to apologize or rectify but 3 pronged emotional blackmail by BP, Abir and BM forced her to compromise

All along Mishti has capitulated to the wishes of the 3 people she loves the most and again she will do that regarding adoption.

Ya, Mishti tries to resist and follow her heart initially but her 3 dhals browbeat her into doing otherwise. If she had refused Kunal (and fulfilled BB's wish-and then we could have been spared the sitar avalanche, MishKu arrest, Naman's old crime and present arrest on false charges); if she had put her foot down and refused BP's proposal for Nannu- two big blunders of her life could have been avoided.

Everyone forgets that behind her emotionally strong, independent personality, are hidden her fear, insecurities and also love for the 3 most important people of her life. She did come across as an advocate for women's emancipation with her radical views and she still continues to express mature, lucid views on things (like for instance, today) when she is not busy apologising unnecessarily to everyone. She just can't uphold them in practice for reasons glaringly obvious. It's a pity.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

She’s afraid Abir will leave her again like he left her after MishKu fight about the magazine cover. Since their marriage Abir is being manipulative, playing on Mishti’s fear of being abandoned. Don’t know why he’s doing that, it’s rather cruel on his part.

If we solely concentrate on manipulativeness as a trait (and NO other aspect like its objectives, the whys and the hows)...well...ahem ahem. Ragon mein daudta hai Abir ka. *cough*Meenu*cough*saga beta*cough*

😂😂

Disclaimer:Abir is not Meenu and never will be.

Originally posted by: Su94

If we solely concentrate on manipulativeness as a trait (and NO other aspect like its objectives, the whys and the hows)...well...ahem ahem. Ragon mein daudta hai Abir ka. *cough*Meenu*cough*saga beta*cough*

😂😂

Disclaimer:Abir is not Meenu and never will be.

😂 Meenu ke saath chess game kheltey kheltey Abir bhi manipulation expert ho Gaya hai

Not only Mishti, he’s manipulated Kunal many times and many others in both families as needed to get what he wants 🤣

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I understand what you mean and somewhat agree with you.

The way I see it now; (I've pushed aside the surrogacy promo long back and only focusing on the recent promo with Abir standing against Meenu)

- the last few episodes with high-voltage drama and more importantly high-density of regressive dialogues from BB only, have been beautifully counter-attacked by Abir and BP's progressive dialogues.

-Right now if you watch the episodes, just for what they are, without any pre-occupied notion of the promo/future track - it is actually handling that very issue you are expressing. They infact are dealing/focusing on Meenu's tainted soch that only blood relations are superior, only blood relations are real love, only blood relations give you happiness etc.

-All of Abir's counter arguments against BB are focusing exactly on the idea that non-blood relations can still feel like your own because it is the HEART that counts - which relates to both his approach of having his own children as well as Kunal as his brother.

But I totally see what you're saying. The simple message of pyaar ke rishtey // dil se bane rishtey, khoon se rishte kahin zyaada keemti hai - did not need the second marriage drama, the sleeping pill drama, the Mishti leavivng Abir drama etc.

Yes I see what you mean. The most recent episodes on their own have been showing what I wanted to see to an extent. Abir and BP have been great at countering meenu's points 👏But I just can't forget about the promos and precaps related to surrogacy. I just wish they had never mentioned it No matter how relieved during certain scenes, I am constantly reminded about surrogacy and how it'll cause irreversible damage to the show

@bold: ikr? These things were so unnecessary, especially meenu constantly talking about abir's second marriage..it's highly regressive

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

They clearly don't know which one will work. From bts which I feel dat abir will refuse d idea of surrogacy dan meenu will do d drama phir mishti ki bhuddhi phir jayegi uske baad she will go n ask kuhu 😏😏😏 surrogacy is very much in d script n dey will show it by hook or crook.

First of all mishti is not ready for kids woh sirf sabki haa mein haa mila rahi hain. She belives she is ready because baki log bacha ka baare mein baat kar rahe hain n saying baacha hona sabse achi feeling hain blah....blah...blah...🤢.I think she even overreacted with infertility thing because she felt she can't fulfill everyone's wish not because she can't be mother 😑😑.

I hope yeh baacha hi mishbir ki seperation karai 😈😈😈

@bold: I think so too. She's just doing everything under pressure. She wasn't ready to be a mother which is understandable. But then she said okay because she just wants everyone to be happy and was happy thinking finally everyone will be happy because of her. I wish she had gone away for a few days to get a peace of mind and clear her head. She needs to think about what she wants and then clearly share her thoughts with everyone

@underline: we can only wish lol

Originally posted by: SheThought

My reply was not about that particular post, I was just mentioning it in general.

Once in a while it is okay, but constant comparisons with the PS couple, PS show writers and rants about the ML is not something that forum members appreciate.

Twitter, Insta or other SNS sites may be comparing them constantly, but we are on IF and on the show's forum, so naturally most people here are only interested in the characters from this show and don't really care what they have in other shows.

Both couples are from the same DKP universe, but they are different couples, in different shows. Why constantly compare them?

Sure, Cool is very passionate about MishBir and yes, at times she compares MishBir romance with Kaira when she gets frustrated with less romance in an episode. Then again, invariably, in a few minutes when she cools down she comes again to post about what she liked about MishBir that day.

The keyword here is once in a while, occasionally, at times v/s constantly!

When the track is drama filled and heavy, it is natural to want to rant and we all do that occasionally. But if it happens constantly, in every post then it's very taxing for others to say the least.

TRP is not in our hands, but keeping forum atmosphere a little more positive is surely something we can control.

Yes, I shouldn't have compared mishbir and kaira because there ain't nobody like kaira. They are iconic. They took forward that show when the actors who played the leads for seven long years left the show, it's not an easy task but they achieved it. Mishbir could also have been iconic but nikita is making sure that they disappear into thin air.

Regarding cool ranting, we all have seen that whenever kaira get some nice moments and mishbir get drama she starts comparing our show and that show. Even tom if they show cute kaira romance with their new baby she would start comparing that mishbir didn't get such type of a scene. But anyways forget it.

I've now really got disconnected and have detached myself from mishbir and the show, I'm not even watching the episodes. Never ever in my dreams i thought that mishbir ka itna kachra kar denge ye log. I'm someone who has watched Aksharas and nairas journey so when I see that mishti isn't getting anything that they got so I get really very upset. I wanted mishbir to be kaira 2.0. I wanted them to have fairytale love, wedding, honeymoon, and was looking forward to their post marriage journey but what did we get this bachaa track. I've also prepared myself to hear the off air news because this show has become so toxic and negative that I want shaheer to get out of this ASAP.

If sp wouldn't have had changed the time slot then the storyline would have been different but I guess it was written that it's time slot would change and it wouldn't get trps. I'm salty that we didn't get to see mishbirs normal post marriage journey, and I wanted mishbir to be there for almost three years but don't know if that'll happen.

Anyways thanks for making me understand about this, earlier moni used to make me understand and helped me calm down and now it was you. So thank you. But one thing I wanted to add is more than keeping a positive atmosphere here we need to give them proper feedback so that they can work on it, because dkp team stalks IF so it would be better if we give them better suggestions and feedback rather than trying to prove the character's point of view. Peace out.