Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 03 Sep 2020 - Page 25

Originally posted by: riya27

According to Meenu : Care?? Who??? 😆 Kuch nayi car market par launch hua kya?? 🤣

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Then she should accept kuku child as her warris na..why this much drama

Meenu hate any woman as abir's wife then how will she get ghar ka warris😆

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Just like we never give up on MishBir house, we'll keep at it thinking MishKu will resolve their differences and Meenu will accept Mishti and patch up with Abir 😃

Sometimes I think Meenu is scared to become an actual maa to Abir coz whenever the chance comes, she does something drastic to push him farther away!

Mishbir house will never happen, they will stay in RJV, Mishti will cry and digest insults and apologize to Meenu and Kuhu

In the last 2 episodes suddenly Meenu will become all lovey dovey with Mishti when Mish finally has a baby

Meenu has a 3 point program:

Dono bahus ko line mein Lana

Dono Beton ko ghar mein rakhna by controlling their wives

Show Parul Kunal their place in the house so they toe the line and stay within the limits that Meenu has set

Originally posted by: riya27

At night angel will. Come and drop a baby in thier lap

Meenu knows the BCP process I guess 🤣

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

https://twitter.com/BellaSna1/status/1301344446475202560?s=20

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Just want to share a few things today:

What I really appreciate of this show: no matter how quirky or dramatic it may have become

• Watching these tracks/episodes with the family (my mother) has actually helped initiate conversation and start the process of de-sensitising these relatively taboo issues. We are actually beginning to talk about these sensitive topics more (and that's definitely a good big step towards the end goal, well done makers and thankyou to actors like Shah and Rhea, Sanjeev sir, Lata ma'm & even Rupal ma'm, they are all equally important).

• Even though I live abroad and understand I am privileged to be so, it is easy to assume that we don't face prejudice or gender inequality etc here. But that is definitely not the case at all. The severity may be different compared to India and certainly rural India too, but remember to note; when Indian people migrate to a foreign land, they not only bring themselves, but they bring their mentality, and opinions and values. And obviously these values are still the exact same as what many people still living in India also have. Other times, the new land and new society can influence a better open mind for these individuals, which is what we hope for, but sadly it doesn't a;ways work that way so easily.

So all i guess I'm trying to say is, it doesn't matter where you are in the world, women (indian/asian women) continue to face various degrees of regressive injustice. And the stigma/hesitation to openly converse about such sensitive but critical issues, still exist.

Also like to point out something about the mixed reviews about the tracks:

• Yes we have a proportion of people/fans (primarily visible on sns and forum) that share open minds like Abir and want other people to also move past the conservative bubble, which is ofcourse wonderful and brings hope into humanity. BUT please try to understand: just because you and I may share values like Abir doesn't mean the rest or majority of the population does. You cannot just say, 'we live in 2020, and yet we still see CV/makers create characters like BB or vulnerable mishti'. NO you cannot just simply disregard the fact that people like BB do exist (or at least people with her mentality and opinions) do still exist. HOW are the CV/makers supposed to show the importance and value of beautifully written characters like Abir, Mishti and BP, BM...IF you don't allow them to show characters like Meenakshi or Jasmeet (and Kuhu too). You cannot be selectively blind and deaf to only want/see what you want to see/hear. You need to accept everything that comes with it - IF you want to see a strong positive abir the dhal and angry chorni, then you need equal counter-part of negativity and injustice through BB. Remember it's a two way street. I understand we are fed up seeing/hearing regressive and hateful characters and dialogues...BUT that doesn'
• *ofcourse you have to always keep in mind this is an ITV show, you are bound to get extra tadka of over-hyped drama. It's ultimately business. Hence, always keep that pinch of salt ready when watch these tracks/episodes.
  
• Many of us have said it before, so I'll say it again; OUR show is still superior to a lot of the other nonsense that is showed on ITV. Sure season 1 was much more simpler and hence much easier to recognise the positive message. Although season 2 is now often very complicated (that's what happens as you progress through a story) and sometimes in consistent...I still sense the good intention and message they are trying to portray (no matter how twisted or how deeply covered it may look now).

Alrighty, I may have ranted a bit too deeply oops😆...let's end it with something more positive🤗:

• I'm gonna take this opportunity to declare: how truly blessed I am to have the parents I have, they are extremely supportive and loving (perhaps sometimes a tad too protective😆). And yes they are open to many ideas of our evolving society, but there are still many things that we have differences in opinion on, and that's totally natural for the generation gap. They still have some conservative opinions about some particular aspects of life, and I don't blame them, because that's what they were taught and brought up with, so that is what will stick with them. That's why I am so happy and proud to be a fan and stan of a show and characters like Abir and Mishti who represent the current young generation who have that power to not only inspire us and the upcoming youngsters, but also show us how to respectfully stand up for your rights against regressive elders.

If you're still reading...thankyou. Sorry that post was kind of all over the place. But hopefully at least some of you lovely people understood what I am trying to say🤗

xxx

om shanti shanti shanti❤️

Dear Nandu🤗🤗🤗

Your every point is so aptly thought n said regarding the conversations that this show can stair up🤗😊

Totally agree.. Ones culture once opinion goes with him/ her wherever they go

We might feel what ever Meenu said n did today was heartless.. Was insane was dum idiotic.... But I guess in rural India n in many urban houses to women aren't treated as a princess if she's declared as incapable of baring a child... She's taunted, people speak behind her....... Ask her or expect her to get medical help, some help n last resort being another marriage, sarogacy etc..... I've literally seen this happen in our neighborhood n ashamed to say in far off relatives house to🤢

People aren't all roses to you in such situation

Really loved how Abhir is standing with mishti.. Really felt bad for Mishti when she declared that she can't live without Abhir n begged bade Papa not to take her back......

Meenu representing 60% of Indian mentality (this is the least precent I could think😆)

I'm extremely thankful to almighty for giving me amazing parents just like you😳

I actually liked the Tashan between Abhir n Meenu today.... Meenu had never declared a war so openly with Abhir......

I had shivers literally when at the end she says

* you want to know my plan, wait for it, wait for the explosion*😳

this women is in some other khatarnaak level

Loved everyone's acting today........

Actually eagerly waiting to see what happens.....I think Mishti will back out...... Remember about did say that even if you go I'll come right behind ya always n never leave ya....

So Mishti may go but Abhir will be Stern n will never leave Mishti

Plzz I want to watch the episode again for their performances😳

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Parul was a simple village girl, Mehul pretended to be a bachelor and I’m sure Parul’s parents or guardians would be too poor and illiterate to find out about Mehul’s background.

I think this plan of Meenu is a result of Abir Kunal moving out of RJV to go live in Mah house

By doing all this drama, Meenu is making Abinal bond stronger and stopping MishKu fights by making them joint moms to one kid 🤔

Writers probably are planning to show this as Meenu’s motive at the end but the ugly disgusting insults to Mishti won’t be justified

Meenu is the type who thinks ends justify the means!

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

gd morning lovelies 😊

for shaheer or abir fans :

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEorBrBs-fY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Just want to share a few things today:

What I really appreciate of this show: no matter how quirky or dramatic it may have become

• Watching these tracks/episodes with the family (my mother) has actually helped initiate conversation and start the process of de-sensitising these relatively taboo issues. We are actually beginning to talk about these sensitive topics more (and that's definitely a good big step towards the end goal, well done makers and thankyou to actors like Shah and Rhea, Sanjeev sir, Lata ma'm & even Rupal ma'm, they are all equally important).

• Even though I live abroad and understand I am privileged to be so, it is easy to assume that we don't face prejudice or gender inequality etc here. But that is definitely not the case at all. The severity may be different compared to India and certainly rural India too, but remember to note; when Indian people migrate to a foreign land, they not only bring themselves, but they bring their mentality, and opinions and values. And obviously these values are still the exact same as what many people still living in India also have. Other times, the new land and new society can influence a better open mind for these individuals, which is what we hope for, but sadly it doesn't a;ways work that way so easily.

So all i guess I'm trying to say is, it doesn't matter where you are in the world, women (indian/asian women) continue to face various degrees of regressive injustice. And the stigma/hesitation to openly converse about such sensitive but critical issues, still exist.

Also like to point out something about the mixed reviews about the tracks:

• Yes we have a proportion of people/fans (primarily visible on sns and forum) that share open minds like Abir and want other people to also move past the conservative bubble, which is ofcourse wonderful and brings hope into humanity. BUT please try to understand: just because you and I may share values like Abir doesn't mean the rest or majority of the population does. You cannot just say, 'we live in 2020, and yet we still see CV/makers create characters like BB or vulnerable mishti'. NO you cannot just simply disregard the fact that people like BB do exist (or at least people with her mentality and opinions) do still exist. HOW are the CV/makers supposed to show the importance and value of beautifully written characters like Abir, Mishti and BP, BM...IF you don't allow them to show characters like Meenakshi or Jasmeet (and Kuhu too). You cannot be selectively blind and deaf to only want/see what you want to see/hear. You need to accept everything that comes with it - IF you want to see a strong positive abir the dhal and angry chorni, then you need equal counter-part of negativity and injustice through BB. Remember it's a two way street. I understand we are fed up seeing/hearing regressive and hateful characters and dialogues...BUT that doesn'
• *ofcourse you have to always keep in mind this is an ITV show, you are bound to get extra tadka of over-hyped drama. It's ultimately business. Hence, always keep that pinch of salt ready when watch these tracks/episodes.
  
• Many of us have said it before, so I'll say it again; OUR show is still superior to a lot of the other nonsense that is showed on ITV. Sure season 1 was much more simpler and hence much easier to recognise the positive message. Although season 2 is now often very complicated (that's what happens as you progress through a story) and sometimes in consistent...I still sense the good intention and message they are trying to portray (no matter how twisted or how deeply covered it may look now).

Alrighty, I may have ranted a bit too deeply oops😆...let's end it with something more positive🤗:

• I'm gonna take this opportunity to declare: how truly blessed I am to have the parents I have, they are extremely supportive and loving (perhaps sometimes a tad too protective😆). And yes they are open to many ideas of our evolving society, but there are still many things that we have differences in opinion on, and that's totally natural for the generation gap. They still have some conservative opinions about some particular aspects of life, and I don't blame them, because that's what they were taught and brought up with, so that is what will stick with them. That's why I am so happy and proud to be a fan and stan of a show and characters like Abir and Mishti who represent the current young generation who have that power to not only inspire us and the upcoming youngsters, but also show us how to respectfully stand up for your rights against regressive elders.

If you're still reading...thankyou. Sorry that post was kind of all over the place. But hopefully at least some of you lovely people understood what I am trying to say🤗

xxx

om shanti shanti shanti❤️

Awwwww 🤗

Tight wala huggies to you guru Ji 2.0🤗

I agree to all your perception and it's exactly whats happening in real.

The main point here is we cannot see oh 2 characters as the story progresses... Even in real life it is the same.. A boyfriend or girlfriend will argue or fight the whole world to out their point but after marriage there will be change in the equation definitely... They tend to adopt few norms comes in the name of couple relationship post marriage. Girls mostly tend to keep quiet for the sake of family... They try to adjust in sasuraal and loose their originality to an extent... They not only think of themselves but for her husband and for his family too....

As far mishti - I have seen her strong in her own way but not the one to disrespect anyone be it the person who insults her and leaves no chance to hurt her... Even when not related, she used to keep quiet hearing taunts and ritual of disgracing her by meenu and kunal. Same goes with jaameet and Varsha.

I can Relate to this mishti too.....

She already had let meenu blackmail her once, she was crying tons that time too... She stood quietly when meenu insulted her wholy at mandir .....she even apologized to meenu just to keep the relationship of kuku and abir , she was standing quietly when kunal insulted her in public time and again.. Just for abir. And at each instance abir is the one who handles it and supported her.

If we were able to love that version of mishti and abir then why not now?? 🙄

Of course I hate the fact that few crimes are hidden under the carpet and the surrogacy sword is putting many of us under the bus.. That doesn't mean our show is crap or the characters are butchered.

Am still very much in love with our show and I see many other shows just to remind myself that our show is far far faaarrrr better and it's beautiful with awesome actors like Shah, Rhea. Rupal ma'am, BP and BM etc...

Sorry for ranting 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I've really just come to accept that it is Mishti's built-in automatic response.

It is NOT going to change until and unless Mishti herself consciously chooses to stop it.

No matter how much Abir constantly tells her he loves her, he supports her, he's with her, and that BP/BM pyaar is not ehsaan. No matter how many times they tell her that...

ultimately the change has to come from inside Mishti. She has to stop thinking of herself as a bhoj, she is naturally going to be grateful and feel blessed to have loved ones like Abir and BP/BM but she needs to realise they are not doing her a favour. Mishti needs to understand that she isn't just 'lucky' to get BP/BM as parents or Abir as a life partner...it's not luck. It's what she deserves!

That's the difference she needs to learn.

That's not easy given her whole childhood and even now the constant negativity and problems she faces.🥺

I just personally think it is her character flaw, and you cannot change it. Even when she was a more fierce angry chorni in season one, she was still this Mishti who said sorry even when it wasn't her fault. (especially to elders, not Kuhu).

Arrey wah.. Today am in sync with Guruji 2.0😆